“I Can’t Make You Do Anything You Don’t Want to Do.”
Actually, you can.
When you beg someone to open up to you about personal matters (because you volunteered yours), and begin to emotionally blackmail them to do things “…or else”; you can.
Using “I love you”/ “ I care about you” ONLY when you’ve made them feel inadequate, in order to further confuse them on how you actually feel about them; you can.
When someone has opened up to you about their emotional/mental struggles and you begin to weaponize those things to further belittle them; you can.
Doing un-asked “favors” for them and saying “you owe me”, because you know they’re easy to feel guilty; you definitely can.
Seeing someone display characteristics of timidness and non-confrontational behavior, and taking complete advantage of that until they are co-dependent on you; you ABSOLUTELY can.
Threatening to take something near and dear away from them if they don’t do what you want; you certainly can.
Threatening to harm them if they don’t do as you say, or even going as far as actually harming them; you in fact can make them.
You can say this quote until the day you die, and it would not make it any less of a myth.
If someone has good intentions towards you, why are you trying to ruin them?
And you go as far as blaming them because “they should have tried harder to defend themselves”, knowing you planned on making it worst for them if they did try.
Stop pointing the finger baby, YOU ARE NOT THE VICTIM. You are in fact, the perpetrator. And you deserve whatever life throws at you, threefold.
And to the victims, 𝐼 𝒽𝑜𝓅𝑒 𝓎𝑜𝓊 𝒻𝒾𝓃𝒹 𝓎𝑜𝓊𝓇 𝓅𝑒𝒶𝒸𝑒 𝓈𝑜𝑜𝓃 💕.
