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for every trans boy who had a hard time realizing they were trans because they liked stereotypically feminine things: it’s ok and you’re supported

for every trans girl who had a hard time realizing they were trans because they liked stereotypically male things: it’s ok and you’re supported

for every nb person who had a hard time coming to terms with their identity because of the things they liked: it’s ok and you’re supported too

trueka

kishimoto may have made a lot of bad decisions but he did smth when he gave naruto’s sage mode orange eyeshadow

busket

mutuals if i like your negative posts please just imagine me patting u on the back comforting you, not like i actually like that you’re hurt

idiotnaruto

honestly the ninjas knew what the fuck was up when they decided to wear fishnets

shitmygaywifesays

I want to tell y’all a story about supporting and loving your partner, starring my amazing wife.

I’ve mentioned before that I had an eating disorder for many years, and though I consider myself “recovered” there are aspects of my disorder that I still struggle with today — being quite a bit heavier than my wife is one of them.

When my wife and I moved in together back when we were still girlfriends, I was at my skinniest. She used to pick me up all the time and lift me off the ground, and I’d laugh and kick out my legs ‘cause I was just delighted to have her holding me.

But I started gaining weight as I went through recovery, and where once we were pretty close in size, I began to get bigger. And bigger. And bigger. And she remained her naturally petite self. I began to almost dread when she’d try to pick me up, sure that this time she wouldn’t be able to get me off the ground.

But every time, even if I protested, she’d lift me up and say something like: “See, you’re not so big that I can’t lift you!”

And one time I just blurted out: “But someday I’m going to be so fat you won’t be able to.”

She looked me dead in the eye and said: “No you won’t. Because if that ever happens, I’ll start working out.”

It was the best possible thing she could have said to me, because she wasn’t saying I wasn’t going to get fat — neither of us knew that for sure. She was just saying that I was never going to be “too fat” for her.

And every time I worry about getting bigger, I remember that I’ll never be so big that she can’t lift me, because baby knows how much I love being held, and she’ll change her own habits to ensure that I never feel “too big” or “too heavy” because in her eyes I’ll never be “too” anything.

Anyway, there’s a moral to this story: Find yourself a partner who will never consider you an excess. You should never be “too much” to someone who loves you — too big, too loud, too passionate, too awkward, whatever your “too” happens to be. And even as you change and grow (in my case, literally), the right person will be there through the changes, to tell you that you’re always just right for them.

shitmygaywifesays

My strongwoman, the wind beneath my wings, the arms under my ass. 😍😍 😍

niyarest

hellviper

I hate when straight girls give me dating advice

Just because I don’t demand he take me to a 5 star restaraunt on the first date doesn’t make me a “thirsty whore with no self respect”. Just because we would probably split the bill because we’re broke ass college students doesn’t mean I’m “cheapening myself”. Just because I don’t demand gifts of expensive jewelry every week (like $200+ is the price range she recommends) doesn’t mean I’m “easy”. And just because I don’t constantly ignore the guy I like and theres a 75% chance of me picking up when he calls doesn’t make me “low”. And most irritatingly, just because I don’t pretend to hate him and won’t reject him if he asks me out (making him ask me several times them grudgingly saying yes on the 5th time which according to Becca is what bad bitches do) doesn’t mean I’m not worth it. I don’t play games, not out of a lack of self-respect but because they’re STOOPID and I believe relationships should be about bonding with the person, not a dumbass game.

hellviper

Real talk guys, I need advice. Should I just pull a Sasuke on this guy who seems to like me and coldly call him annoying then ignore and ignore him and maybe only give him the tiniest tidbit of attention, but grudgingly so? Because straight girls think that’s what guys want, and that if you’re ugly like me you gotta act like you hate your guy to seem unattainable and make yourself more attractive. Should I just coldly blow him off and refuse to talk to him, or just keep being my apparently shitty self?

lavender-weasel

Keep doing what you're doing. Don't worry about it. And you are NOT shitty!

completelycorrectnarutoquotes

itachi-maru

Orochimaru is evil, or at least firmly morally dark gray, but he never goes away

the naruto universe just has to accept that he’s here because he refuses to leave, nobody can kill him. he doesn’t stay dead.

he’s in konoha right now, drinking tea at that one cafe that attracts supervillains for some reason

konohagakureship

You mean Itachi’s teashop?

hellviper

@lavender-weasel I smell an AU

lavender-weasel

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Wtf your blog is flagged as explicit? You swear and rant way less than I do

It's cause I had my blog marked as nsfw.

ciarachimera

Glad to see we still got lots of porn bots, there is still porn on my dash, and now half my followers are pixelated icons even if their blog wasn’t that sexual to begin with. Amazing.