Grey

they/he/it

[lavenderandcarnelian]

𝔴𝔢𝔩𝔠𝔬𝔪𝔢 𝔱𝔬 𝔪𝔶 𝔟𝔩𝔬𝔤

DNI

minors

no age on blog

racist, sexist, terfs, transmed, etc.

ed blogs

maps

you get the picture

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★ my name is Grey

★ they/he

★ queer + non binary trans man

★ 22 yrs old

★ cap sun & moon, gem rising

★ stoner bunny boy

★ 85% sub 15% dom

KINKS

♡ pet play

♡ electrostimulation

♡ bondage/ropeplay

♡ collars + leashes

♡ impact play

♡ exhibitionism + (consensual) voyeurism

♡ bimbofication + dollification

♡ knife play

✩｡:*•. still under construction .•*:｡✩

[podencos]

[blkdyke-deactivated20230921]

A good video that accurately explains why stud is a term used for black lesbians only, not white, not poc, BLACK

I’m not even going to say please. Respect black identities and labels, they are ours for a reason.

[daddyisatitlenotagender]

Imma need this reblogged by white queer tumblr users since it’s mostly yall who wanna use it or want to know why you or other white people shouldn’t/can’t use the term “stud”

[beepshroom]

testosterone and estrogen angels 🩵🩷🤍

[silenthillmutual]

"we need more weird gays" you can't handle aces & aros. you can't handle queer-platonic relationships. you can't handle it/its users. you can't handle neopronouns and xenogenders. you can't handle polyamory.

[silenthillmutual]

you all get so bent out of shape and HAVE to give your opinions on how WEIRD and ANNOYING and DEVESTATING these things are to you like damn what makes you different, exactly, from homophobes?

[silenthillmutual]

you all literally sound like boomers stomping your feet and sobbing over shit that literally does not effect you in any way. if you dont like these things, here's a thought: keep it to yourself!

[professionalchaoticdumbass]

"love every trans woman you meet" means EVERY trans woman not just the cool and funny and hot ones

[professionalchaoticdumbass]

yes, love the trans women who are 3 years on hrt and shitpost on tumblr about gay sex, but also love the trans women who don't fit that mould. love the 37yo trans women whose eggs just cracked after decades of ignoring it. love trans women of color. love the trans girls still in high school who have to clear their browser history every night because of their parents. love trans women who dress like someone's mom instead of a badass punk. love trans women who can't fully transition the way they want to, whether that be no HRT access or costly surgeries or pre-existing conditions. love the trans women who are still closeted. love trans women who are fat. love trans women who are hairy. love trans women whose only connection to the trans community is like, r/egg_irl and their blahaj plushie. love trans women who don't want to have sex or be sexual in any way. love trans women who are parents. love trans women who are sex workers. love trans women who are out to some but not for others. love trans women who need your company to feel safe going to the toilet. love every. single. trans. woman. you. meet. no fucking exceptions. if you don't, it's already too late.

[professionalchaoticdumbass]

I'm not done yet. love the trans women who are disabled. love trans women with chronic pain and illnesses. love trans women who need painkillers almost every day and take a fuckton of meds, HRT or otherwise. love intersex trans women. love black trans women. love brown trans women. love trans women who are ostracized from their communities for whatever reason they thought was enough to kick a trans woman out. love trans women who want to pass and love trans women who don't. love trans women who don't want to reclaim slurs for themselves because they're still dealing with shit from being called them. love trans women who haven't met other queer people IRL yet for whatever reason. love trans women who aren't confident enough to go out on their own to the club or the gay bar or the pride parade. love trans women who don't know all the latest lgbt discourse terminology. love trans women with chests flatter than a board and an ass that makes hank hill look thick. love trans women who don't look like your usual perception of "trans woman". love trans women who use unusual pronouns. love trans women with schizophrenia, with NPD, with any various disorders. love trans women who can't find community with other trans women. love trans women no matter what

[stinky-gremlinn]

[My art, don't steal, tag if reposting]

[gothicbaddie404error]

[lavenderandcarnelian]

You want one? If so, which one?

The tiny buff teddy 🫠

[totheark]

[lavenderandcarnelian]

rare pic of me in the wild

[lavenderandcarnelian]

How would you name her?

June 🥹

[lavenderandcarnelian]

I can do both 🤷🏼

[sparklemaia]

yes I'm now on the other side of top surgery and I'm allowed to lift things again 💪 You might have already seen this one on my substack -- did u know you can subscribe to my substack for early access to comics like this?! Sent directly to your email inbox??? FOR FREE????? (there is also an optional paid tier for exclusive bonus content for five bucks a month but like 80% of my posts will be free and publicly available) ty ily♥

[uncanny-tranny]

One reason you might not be very "good" about a trans loved one's pronouns or the language you use for them might stem from memorizing what they want, rather than actually changing how you view them.

For instance, my trans friend came out rather late compared to me. However, since internalizing that I wasn't really correct about who she is, because she's a woman and I didn't know that, it was instantaneous to refer to her by her name, to use language that accurately reflects her instead of what I thought she was.

When you actually internalize that a loved one is actually this way instead of what you thought, it makes it so much easier to truly and actually change your perspective on them.

In short, are you memorizing who they are, or are you actually learning who they are?

[mindflamer]

trans friends, things have been pretty awful lately.

take what you need. (color change indicates separate links)

🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍

crisis support | a reason to stay alive | and the strength to do it | hope | a connection to our elders | and our ancestors | an ode to trans joy | some quiet | love | mom love | dad love | sister love | sibling love | brother love | someone to hold space for me | rest | to know there's nothing wrong with me | to say fuck the haters | to know we'll always be here

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a reminder to dance in the rain | a gentle pep talk | a reminder that it's okay to be angry | a fucking break | a change of scenery | pain relief | a hug for those in the closet | a hand for those coming out of it | a car ride with the windows down | to sing at the top of my lungs | a little magic | to twirl in a pretty dress

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to hug my younger self | and my body | cat cuddles | dog kisses | stability | sunlight | to remember the cyclical nature of life | an invitation to join us in loving you | to see others will too | a little pampering | a serenade | a warm cup of tea before bed | a moment of peace | a reminder you don't have to save the world alone | and that you surviving is enough

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a gift | a reason for existing | to feel a sense of awe | to realize my place in the universe | a trip to the aquarium | and to go camping | a cold drink | self-compassion | a netflix recommendation | a hulu recommendation | an hbo max recommendation

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a way to help | information on what's happening in my state | a risk map of all states | a free flight to access healthcare | courage to stay and fight | help to get out

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i love you. i'll see you tomorrow.

[proudnb]

For as long as there are people, there will be nonbinary people.

No matter what laws are passed, what rights are lost or granted, or how bad things get, nonbinary people will keep living.

Whether in hiding or in plain view, we will remain. And, we will be there for you.

[chronicallylav3nd3r]

stop excluding addicts from mental health discussions