moved to @lesvianese

[roach000fister-remade-deactivat]

[loveydoveyfemme-archive-deactiv]

a lot of the lesbians that i personally know, myself included, don’t like being called q*eer because it feels like it’s somehow leaving our sexualities up for debate. it feels like people are scared of the finality of “lesbian.” if i’m a lesbian, that means no men, whatsoever. i love women and women-aligned people. but if i’m q*eer, that can leave so much to your imagination. maybe i like men, maybe i don’t. maybe it’s just my gender up for discussion, maybe it’s just that i don’t fit the status quo. going out of your way to call all lesbians q*eer instead of lesbians means that you don’t respect our right to the only identity that has ever truly felt like it’s fit us. i don’t want to be called q*eer for several reasons, but i especially don’t want to be called it OVER lesbian.

[lifewithchronicpain]

Yes, this is one of the reasons I dislike queer. I don’t care if calling LGBTQ people all queer is easier for you. Being a lesbian is hard, the least y'all can do is respect the word I choose for myself and I will do the same for you. But an umbrella term? No, I never gave my consent to be called a slur.

[vankingdon]

Friendly reminder that Queer is not and has never been a slur

[lavendergrrls-moved]

It sure is a slur when people shout it at me or shove me while calling me it. Fuck off.

[umidkwhattosay]

Are you living under a rock reading yourself history fanfic?

[lavendergrrls-moved]

Are you asking ME that. Are you unaware that not everyone lives in a blue state? are YOU living under a rock? do you honestly think nobody is using queer as an insult anymore???

[umidkwhattosay]

Girl I was talking to the person saying queer has never been a slur☠

[lavendergrrls-moved]

OHHH 💀💀💀 NVM then sorry

[mysharona1987]

[neptunes-cunt]

i love you consistent meals i love you steady blood sugar i love you little snacks i love you non-diet foods i love you full-fat yogurt i love you sugary drinks i love you intuitive eating i love you full stomach i love you breaking free from diet culture i love you body that just wants to keep me alive

[lavendergrrls-moved]

I'm thinking ab remaking. It doesn't feel like I'm gonna get unshadowbanned and it's sooo annoying not being able to msg ppl or send asks or notes..

[magnetictapedatastorage]

as a butch lesbian it is hilarious to see a man fail at masculinity. i don’t mean like oh he’s too feminine i mean like when a man can’t tie a tie. brother in buzzcuts you’ve had 40 years to learn mastery of a strip of fabric. you presumably went to weddings, funerals, etc, with what? a clip on? you’re an embarrassment to the uniform son

[sportsbianism-deactivated202306]

we do ignore how hot latetia ky is in the interest of keeping the focus on her art and activism. it’s probably the right thing to do but we’re all kind of on the same wavelength abt her hotness. you agree

[partywithponies]

I love vague labels that make people go "but that's confusing" or "but that could mean anything" Good. Keep guessing lol

[auntiewanda]

Nah I'm good thanks. You'll soon find these self-centered mind games are why no one wants to be around you.

[partywithponies]

Self-centred mind games?? Because I don't want to tell literal complete strangers the exact details of my sexuality or gender identity? You as a complete stranger want to know the intimate details of someone else's sexuality before you'll allow them to be around you and I'm the creepy self-centred one? Bruv. Take a long hard look at yourself. You're pathetic.

[lavendergrrls-moved]

you could just say "none of your business" instead of larping as a gay person. God bless!

[frownyalfred]

politicians WISH they had the commitment of thousands of fandom readers terrified that their enemies to lovers slowburn dubcon 200k+ AU fic might disappear off the internet forever

[lavendergrrls-moved]

Adults are always annoying with the "go outside" stuff. As if most of America isn't just concrete and cars and concrete and cars and shaved down grass and cars and concrete and pavement. everything is ugly. I'll stay inside

[lavendergrrls-moved]

People who live in blue states are hilarious to me . I can't believe that person.unironically believes queer is just an old timey slur and that nobody is using it anymore. Insane insane.insane insane.

[lavendergrrls-moved]

I'm going to start using "you still have your right to abortion" because this is insane. People in blue states are nuts and crazy

[lavendergrrls-moved]

People who live in blue states are hilarious to me . I can't believe that person.unironically believes queer is just an old timey slur and that nobody is using it anymore. Insane insane.insane insane.

[loveydoveyfemme-archive-deactiv]

a lot of the lesbians that i personally know, myself included, don’t like being called q*eer because it feels like it’s somehow leaving our sexualities up for debate. it feels like people are scared of the finality of “lesbian.” if i’m a lesbian, that means no men, whatsoever. i love women and women-aligned people. but if i’m q*eer, that can leave so much to your imagination. maybe i like men, maybe i don’t. maybe it’s just my gender up for discussion, maybe it’s just that i don’t fit the status quo. going out of your way to call all lesbians q*eer instead of lesbians means that you don’t respect our right to the only identity that has ever truly felt like it’s fit us. i don’t want to be called q*eer for several reasons, but i especially don’t want to be called it OVER lesbian.

[lifewithchronicpain]

Yes, this is one of the reasons I dislike queer. I don’t care if calling LGBTQ people all queer is easier for you. Being a lesbian is hard, the least y'all can do is respect the word I choose for myself and I will do the same for you. But an umbrella term? No, I never gave my consent to be called a slur.

[vankingdon]

Friendly reminder that Queer is not and has never been a slur

[lavendergrrls-moved]

It sure is a slur when people shout it at me or shove me while calling me it. Fuck off.

[umidkwhattosay]

Are you living under a rock reading yourself history fanfic?

[lavendergrrls-moved]

Are you asking ME that. Are you unaware that not everyone lives in a blue state? are YOU living under a rock? do you honestly think nobody is using queer as an insult anymore???

[obsob]

sending emails but sniffling and whimpering after typing each word

[glitterbust-deactivated20230608]

why did jodi arias become a yanderecore icon. she did not kill that man out of love

[naramdil]

i hate when girls feel dumb for trying to see the best in people and then end up hurt or disappointed like no!! it’s those people that were dumb for misleading you. they took advantage of your kindness and generosity, and they’ll rot for it 

[theconcealedweapon]