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@layla-girlfriend
IMPORTANT
im sorry, but im no longer a proshipper/comshipper
Ive whanted to quit proshipping for a while now, ive been forcing myself to make theese types of content
It was very hard for me, to leave my "safespace" ive had for over a year
Proshipping is harmfull
So my therapist told me i may have autism, im getting a diagnostic soon
IMAGINE you and your f/o being the most popular ship in their fandom. bonus points if it’s canon.
REBLOGS ARE WELCOME AND APPRECIATED !
Me x layla canon guys
IMPORTANT
im sorry, but im no longer a proshipper/comshipper
Ive whanted to quit proshipping for a while now, ive been forcing myself to make theese types of content
It was very hard for me, to leave my "safespace" ive had for over a year
Proshipping is harmfull
Minding your own business and blocking what makes you uncomfortable is harmful?
Also proshipping is not a word. It's the same as saying "i wanted to quit infavorofshippinging". But you do you.
Also you know that antis are legit a cult, yes? Wait, imma gib u source:
Godspeed, and please be careful oki? May you have a good life!
The fact that i shipped illegal ships is harmfull, shipping theese types of ship is harmfull for me and for victims
As a survivor: No, you shipping weird things is not harmful to me. And please don't call us victims, thank you.
If it's harmful to yourself then you should stop, yes. But please don't use survivors as your gotcha, that *is* harmful.
I sincerely hope you get help, good bye
New challenge!
Try get akinator to guess your F/O and reblog this with the results
He got it right
imagine your f/o noticing how you seemed pretty fatigued, then bringing you to a spot where you can sleep safely, and letting you sleep next to/on them...
just a little zzzzzzzz while your f/o guards you from the world. they'll do their best to ensure you feel safe and relaxed around them. you really deserve a good rest
Me but with layla
IMPORTANT
im sorry, but im no longer a proshipper/comshipper
Ive whanted to quit proshipping for a while now, ive been forcing myself to make theese types of content
It was very hard for me, to leave my "safespace" ive had for over a year
Proshipping is harmfull
Minding your own business and blocking what makes you uncomfortable is harmful?
Also proshipping is not a word. It's the same as saying "i wanted to quit infavorofshippinging". But you do you.
Also you know that antis are legit a cult, yes? Wait, imma gib u source:
Godspeed, and please be careful oki? May you have a good life!
The fact that i shipped illegal ships is harmfull, shipping theese types of ship is harmfull for me and for victims
Gess im a selfshipper now
Thank you so much for sending this ask. Even though I'm often bad at explaining things, I'd still be glad to help. At the very least I can say that acknowledging that portraying adult/minor romantic/sexual relationships, incest, and rape in a good or sexualized light is wrong and why that is. Those are things real people go through and it's a different matter than violent video games as, in my impression, they affect different parts of your mind.
Took me some time to realize that. Issues like that were why Twilight and Fifty Shades of Grey were criticized for so long after all, as those books gave completely wrong ideas of how relationships worked which often lead to young people getting into toxic relationships. Real people have the "I can fix him" mindset that's so common in romance fiction, so it's not too farfetched the same thing applies to proship content.
I feel lucky my old proship mindset didn't bleed over to real life contexts, but it sure as hell wasn't good for my mental health in the long run. Hell, I felt like such a kid living with my mom I saw myself as the loli in adult/minor ship situations for a while and I'm thankful I grew out of that.
And just think, average people would be outraged and disgusted if anyone admits to finding a child character or an incestuous ship attractive, or anything similarly problematic, and you don't want to have that secret burdening you. It's one thing to watch Game of Thrones for the drama, but outright glorifying incest by portraying it as sexy and cute is a whole other story. This is why many victims advocate for stories about subjects like csa, incest, and rape to be handled in a more respectful and realistic light and not be glorified or treated as plot devices that can be thrown away.
I also looked it up and loli first became a thing when women started becoming more independent in Japan. It was based on a fantasy men over there had involving subjugating young girls, which makes lolicon's origins pretty misogynistic on top of the more obvious issues.
Sorry if this seems more like a ramble, but I hope this helps. I've been down this path before, and with a little work, self reflection, and friends that can help steer you in the right direction, you can break out of proship beliefs.
To any ex proshipper out there
