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Also, ask men for favors. Ask men for money. Ask men to inconvenience themselves for you. Not all the time, certainly, but ask. Without shame. Without worry. Expectantly, too.

maryjane-in-my-brain

What's the craziest thing you've ever done with a guy ?

Give him my time

srirachamami

Playing small will not serve you, look as good as you want, take up the space you need and be whoever you want to be

bougieinpink

A man knows what kind of relationship he wants with you after a maximum of 3 dates. If he says otherwise he's stringing you along.

n1rvana

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girlmuse

Cher by Douglas Kirkland, 1975

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I don’t care what his net worth is if he isn’t generous. His net worth does nothing for me.

daisyprayers

Experiencing burnout in an area you love doesn’t mean you are no longer passionate about that thing, or are any less good at it. It’s often an indication that there are other parts of your life that need your care. A garden looks most beautiful when every flower is watered, and you deserve to nourish yourself in the same way. You will flourish again.

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How do you get them hooked but not sleep with them? Like how do you communicate your boundaries

I tell them off the bat. I am not an easy lay. The trash will take itself out. The men who think you are sexy and genuinely enjoy your company will have no issue waiting it out. My current sponsor of over a year has no issue with waiting.

A man who thinks you’re worth it will wait. They will do whatever it takes to keep you around. Anyone who tells you otherwise is playing the game wrong.

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I just want young girls and women to know that, as a woman, there’s so much more to life than getting and keeping a man. Your future is more promising and valuable than any man you’ll ever encounter.

I promise.