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[m4mdiscipline]

How to fully control Your sub in 9 steps

1:  You  need to get into his head.

-Learn his fantasies and what turns him on.  Use this information against him and to Your advantage.

-Find out what humiliates him, and to what level.

-Make him show his loyalty to You regularly.  Reward him, even if it’s just with positive attention when he does.

- Aside from family, close friends and work, give him 0% privacy.  Don’t hide this process from him, make him partake in handing it over to you in ways that demonstrate how he is “losing the privacy.”  

-Make him need You for everything.  Point out how You help him, how You guide him, and how You accept the negative things about him that others may not.

- Hypnosis, especially while they are sleeping can help transfer messages, ideas and ideals about You deep into their faggot head.

2:  Punish him often for everything, no exceptions!

- Don’t let him get away with anything!  When You let your sub get away with something. You are telling him that You don’t care for him and that what he did was ok.

- You can Spank, paddle, or whip him.

- Humiliate him past what is easy for him.

- Long term bondage

- Corner time

- Food restrictions

- Writing standards/lines\

- Write a book report or essay.

- Ground him/take away privileges.

- Wash his mouth out with soap.

- Make him do anything he hates.

- Get creative and make the punishment match the crime.

- Never use separation or the threat of leaving/ending Your control over him as a punishment.  That is counterproductive to the end goal (trust and service) and is detrimental to the faggot.

3:  Routinely discipline him.  This is different than punishment.

- Spank him once a week, just because You can, not too hard, not too soft.

-Humiliate him often.

- 5-10 minuets of corner time a day can do wonders for him, like a sub’s meditation.

- If he is stressed, give him a break and put him in some comfy bondage for a while.  You may or may not want to integrate impact play with this.  For lots of subs, some pain can really help elevate their mode for the rest of the day or longer.

- Routine discipline will save You time and energy in the long run.  You will have to punish him less as a result.

- Taking care of You can be part of his discipline.  Have him do Your laundry, cleaning, etc.

4:  On some level, even if it’s small, keep Your sub horny for You.

- Talk sexy to him.

-Sexualize non sexual things/activities You are interested in. He will see whatever it is You’ve sexualized as such and be more interested/eager to engage.

- Have Your sub do some or all of Your body grooming. This can be Your baths, Your nails, shaving, trimming, waxing, etc.

- Scare him by telling him when and what You’re going to do to him in the near future.

- Send him text messages with orders to do something sexual.

- Make him give You orgasms.  This is different from sex.  This is a service.

- Let him rest on You to smell You as You watch TV or read.

- Give him underwear/items of Yours to smell as he sleeps.

- Hypnosis, especially while Your sub sleeps can help with this too.

5:  Control Your own feelings of guilt.

-      Your sub needs You to be strong “with” him.  You may show vulnerabilities in Yourself for other aspects of Your life. When it comes to him and Your control over him, be firm!

-      Some meanness and cruelty will be needed from time to time to help break Your sub down.

-      Your sub may not want everything You give him/ do to him, but he needs it.

-      Letting Your sub get away with insubordinate behavior because You feel guilty adequately and severely addressing it is weak.  You need to control that shit.

-      Sub faggots need a real man who is close to them to guide them.  Sometimes real men need to show the fag that they are inferior.  This can’t always be done by talking.  And if it is done my talking, the talking can’t be politically correct/kind.

-      Humiliation/breaking him down, teaching him to serve long term, these are all things he needs.  You are filling his needs.

-      Remember, You both need to be happy.  But happiness comes from different places for different people.  If there is communication, and Your sub has communicated that he needs this life to be happy, then You are doing him a service and loving him by breaking him down and controlling him.

-      A good sub is hard to find. Don’t let the guilt of giving him what he needs stop You from doing so. What he needs may be overwhelming for him and he may break. If he does be there for him.

6: Humiliate/degrade/break him down on some level daily, some days more than others.

- Have him wear a small butt-plug for a time, wifi enabled if possible.

- Have him be naked or close to it, around You and or Your friends.

- Make him wear a collar or other symbol of inferiority.

- Make him wear a chastity device sometimes.

- Teach them “tricks” like sit, drop to their knees to kiss Your crotch, etc.  In public or with friends randomly call out a trick every now then. Make sure Your sub does this flawlessly without hesitation.

- Make him masturbate for You.

- Slap him in the face.

- Spit on him.

- Treat him as an inferior in public.  (Ex: he carries all bags, opens doors, eats Your leftovers, holds Your drinks, tie Your shoes  etc.)

- Make him eat his own cum sometimes.

- Talk down to him in front of others

7: Rearrange his life/time to better serve/please You.  Make sure this does not interfere with his time with loved ones or work.

- If You want to change his body to Your liking, do so.  Control his workouts, diet etc.  Make sure and be realistic with this one.

- Make sure he is available during some of Your leisure time each week so he will be able to serve You during those times.

- Put him on a sleeping schedule.  Lots of fags are not able to adequately manage their sleep times.  The better rested he is, the better he will serve You.

- Go through his closet/things and throw away/put away any clothing You don’t like him to be wearing.

- Sign him up to learn new tasks or prefect tasks/skills that will help You.  (Ex: massage classes, cooking classes, pet care, etc.)

- Change their grooming habits to Your liking.

8: Help Your sub be grateful for everything he has.  Make sure You are at the top of that list.  One great way to do this is to deny him things.  Yep, it’s time to say “No.”  Subs need boundaries, and saying “No” is a great way to help them with those boundaries.

- You can take away certain foods, comforts, leisure time, sex, masturbation, etc.

- Make him show his gratitude to You often.  Faggots will show this to You in their own way. Most faggots will need some help/instruction on exactly how to show their gratitude to You.

- Make him explain why he deserves something. If he can’t explain why well enough. Then take it from him.

- You can take things/items from him that You know he does not need, but likes.  (Make sure he can afford for You to take them and that they are not of an additional value such as sentimental etc.)  Let him know from time to time that You enjoy something that You took from him.

- Offer him a reward of getting to have something back. Make what you give him back relevant to what You make him do. This could be sort or long term.  

9:  None of these actions will work without real trust.

- If Your sub is Your partner, let him know how much his sub-ass completes You and Your power.

-  If Your sub is not Your partner, make sure You two are real friends. That You appreciate how his inferiority completes you.  The more You two know about and do with each other. The more thoroughly You can control him.

-Part of trust on the subs part is trusting that You will follow through when You say You are going to do something to him or are going to make him do something.  Follow through always.

-  When a sub fully trusts You. He can submit to You his mind and privacy. Letting You go in and re-arrange/manage his life.

- Subs need constant reassurance.  Let him know that no matter what, he is Yours.  If a serious sub feels disposable. He will look for another Dom who appreciates his surrender.

- If Your life is getting too hard for a bit or You need help with something. Trust that Your sub will be able to take over for You and act in your best interest until You are back in shape.  Giving  sub this responsibility will either make him feel trusted and good, or upset that You are not actively controlling him 100% of the time.  If he gets upset and does not step up and take over for You. Then drop him like a hot potato.

-Talk to Your sub often.  Ask him how he is feeling, and let him honestly know how You are feeling on anything and everything.

- By taking things away from him, You are in a sense rewarding him when You give them back.  Also, nothing he has is his forever.  You need to re-take things and privileges away from him periodically so he knows they are a privilege and not a right.  Think of it like taking a food bowl away from a dog.  Your sub needs be docile enough that You can take his food bowl away from him as he is eating. He will not make a fuss and patiently wait until the food is returned

-Please note: Do not ever deny him from being with Friends or family.  Make him realize that the only reason You allow him to have constant contact/interaction with good friends and family is because he “helps” them by being a good friend or family member.  Make sure the he understands that the happiness that comes from being with them is “second” to the happiness that he brings them.  Basically, he needs to understand that if he pulls away from loved ones. While he is under Your control his loved ones will suffer. That is why he is allowed (and encouraged) to keep and/or strengthen the bonds he has with them.

Please note: The following is a list of things to control a sub only. Please do not implement these ideas if You do not care about and are not committed to Your sub.  This list is not all inclusive of how to treat Your sub.  This list leaves out the important kind necessities that Your sub needs such as reassurance, love, respect, being protected, allowed to be protective of You etc.  These ideas are for a long term 24/7 arrangements, not a scene.  Not everything will apply in every case, and there may be things on the list that will work for You.

[ajsmutt]

Hell ya BOSS JAKE!

[blatantsub]

This is phenomenal.

[karl666-deactivated20181214]

20 Ways to Abuse a Faggot with Master’s Spit

White slaves and pets worship everything a Master’s body makes — including His spit. 

Fortunately, a Man’s mouth has an endless supply of saliva in it. The result is an infinite amount of enjoyment for Masters who are enterprising enough to use their spit not only for chewing up food at the kitchen table, but also for chewing up white slaves in the bedroom. 

Need some ideas? Here are 20 ways Masters can use Their Alpha spit to abuse a white slave :

Spit-fuck Your faggot’s pussy. After all, spit is Mother Nature’s lube.

Spit directly into Your slave mouth. A slave face-cunt makes for the perfect spittoon. Spitting in its mouth can also be useful for extra lubrication if its mouth is dry, because nobody likes fucking a dry throat.

Use Your spit and Your slave face for target practice. Have Your slave kneel in the corner with its mouth open. Step away from the slave and spit at it from a distance. Aim for its open mouth. If it’s too easy to get your spit in the hole, take a step back to challenge yourself. Have buddies over? Turn this into a game: You score five points for a direct hit in the mouth, three points for the eyes and one point for anywhere on the face. First Man to 50 points gets to use the slave first.

Spit in Your faggot’s drink — multiple times if You feel like it — then watch it guzzle its spit-spiked beverage. Even better: do it in public, at a restaurant or bar. Better still: Do it with loogies, which will float in the drink like snotty ice cubes.

Spit — regular spit or a loogie — on the floor of a public place when You’re out with Your slave. Order it to get on the ground and lick it up, no matter who’s around to see it do it.

Spit on the floor and tell Your slave to put his tongue on it. No licking it up; just touching it with its tongue. Make it stay like this for several minutes — or perhaps even longer — until You give it permission to lick it up. It’s a good exercise in restraint and obedience.

When Your slave comes home from work, leave a trail of spit on the floor leading to the bedroom, where You will be waiting to fuck the living daylights out of it . It’s like leaving a romantic trail of rose petals — but for slaves.

Spit Your used toothpaste into Your slave mouth as the only thing it ’s allowed to use to brush its teeth.

Spit on Your slave face and/or in its hair. Make it leave it there to dry and forbid it from washing its face. It has to wear Your spit on its skin all day — to work, the grocery store, etc.

When out to lunch with Your slave , spit a loogie onto its burger or sandwich; Your spit is the only condiment a slave needs/deserves.

Spit some spit and a few loogies into condiment cup so Your slave can dip its french fries in it. Only Master get ketchup for Their fries.

If Your slave had been a good boy, give it a facial massage — and use Your spit as the massage oil. Your spit will get deep into the pig’s pores, and the scent of it will linger on its  face for hours after.

Sit comfortably with Your slave at Your feet and see how far across the room You can spit. Make the slave crawl as fast as it can to lick it up and get back to You before You do the next one. For added fun, blindfold the slave and make it crawl with his nose on the floor until it finds it.

Messy slave ? Make it wash its hands or face with Your spit. Soap and water is for Masters.

Men in public restrooms often spit in the urinal as They’re pissing in it. Do the same with Your slave— piss in its open mouth, and spit in it as You’re pissing. Because spit and piss are the perfect complements.

Keep a small water bottle with You throughout Your week. Spit in it periodically throughout the day, every day for the week. You’ll be surprised at how much spit You’re able to accumulate. At the end of the week, make Your slave drink the spit-beverage from a cup, jack off with it while You watch, or use it as lube while dildo-fucking itself.

Put Your slave out on the street and then go upstairs — the higher the better — and spit large drools of spit out the window. The faggot must catch it with its mouth. If it misses, the huge splat on its forehead will be entertaining anyway.

Choose one day a week where the only thing Your slave eats is chewed and spat from Your mouth onto the floor.

Spit a few loogies into Your slave underwear and make it wear them; sitting in Your spit and snot will remind it of its place serving You. At the end of the day, instruct it to remove the underwear and suck on the dried loogie stains to prove its obedience to You.

If Your slave fancies itself a foodie, create Your own “foam” for the top of his meals by getting a good mouthful and swishing it around Your mouth to create that extra foamy effect. Make sure everything is covered.

BBC rules

[subandy]

Excellent ideas - if Master spits on the soles of His trainers then that gives slave extra help to do its work

[the-silent-alpha]

I don’t understand the point of locking up. What does this do? Why is this attractive? Not trying to judge but trying to understand why the gusto for “caging” a dick.

Fair question.

Everyone can love chastity for different reasons, of course, just like any other kink. Here’s why I do :Chastity takes away a boy’s ability to use his dick. He can’t jerk off, he can’t penetrate anything, he can’t stimulate it, he can’t get hard. To me (and to a lot of people) the dick is the ultimate symbol of masculinity. So when a boy doesn’t have access to it the feel of masculinity alters. He’s no longer in control of his dick, it is now controlled by the keyholder. The boy doesn’t get pleasure from it, the boy can’t get hard, depending on the device, the boy might not even be able to see it. It’s emasculating. Not being able to cum makes the boy very horny. You’d be surprised what males are ready/want to do after not being able to cum for a few days/weeks. That makes him look for pleasure in other places. He wants to be touched anywhere, he wants to touch. In gay boys’ cases they think about dick non stop. They start playing with their ass to get some release so their hole becomes their sex organ. And because their hole is being stimulated and they get pleasure from it, it’s not just a hole anymore. It’s a cunt. They may not want to call it that, but that’s what it is in their head. So we now got a boy who’s hungry all the time, he trembles from the slightest touch and gets lots of pleasure from his new sex organ. Chastity improves sex for the boy. Not only is he more sensitive, but without being able to cum he will always enjoy sex. If you bottom, you know that if you cum - it’s game over. Your top has to stop because you don’t enjoy being fucked anymore. That problem goes away with chastity. Boy is always ready and eager. That, of course, makes sex better for me.Chastity also never lets a boy forget who he is. You may be a bottom, you may be a sub. But you don’t think about that part of you when you’re at work or visiting you family or going to parties with your friends. The chastity device is always there, you can always feel it. Horny or not, sad or happy, alone or surrounded by people. You can always feel it, it’s a constant reminder that your manhood was taken away. It keeps you in your place, it never lets you forget that you get pleasure from getting fucked. Every time you need to use the bathroom you are faced with the reality of who you are : male but not a man. That changes a boy. His behavior becomes that of a sub even outside of the bedroom. Chastity builds up a lot of frustration and tension. That’s why it’s also a great way to motivate the boy go to the gym or be more productive in general. I’ve had a boy with a barely average body transform into a beast after just 1 year of chastity. I’m no longer his keyholder, but he still keeps the cage. He doesn’t want it off, because it motivates him so much. And most importantly, I love chastity because it sets clear roles. The boy is giving up his masculinity for me, he locks it up as a sign of surrender. My dick becomes the only dick in the room and he’s just holes. I’m his Man, he’s my bitch. Fucking a boy while watching his soft clit in his cage being ignored is just very, very hot. I never liked when my bottoms touched themselves during sex. I thought the chastity devices looked a little weird at first. But now I love them. If I see one on a boy it makes me hard instantly. Because that means that he embraced his role as someone who belongs underneath Men. And I love being on top!

[mrsmanwife]

Wisdom.

[lockedboi-deactivated20191001]

🔐😈👍

[sirslockedboys]

Well said, boy. Words to live by, sub or Dom.

[raunchysub-deactivated20190115]

57 Ways to Humiliate a Sub Faggot

Humiliation is an important part of every faggot’s training. When a Man humiliates a faggot, He’s teaching him humility (a faggot must remain humble and not allow his ego to get in the way of his ability to serve and obey superior Men), respect (a faggot must learn to show appreciation and esteem to superior Men) and obedience (a faggot must learn to cede all control to superior Men). Plus, it’s just plain fun to embarrass or shame a faggot sometimes — and faggots exist to amuse as much as they do to serve.

Unfortunately, faggots have very little shame. Therefore, it can sometimes be difficult to imagine new ways to humiliate them. With that in mind, i’ve created a the following list of 57 ways for Men to humiliate Their faggots. Go forth, Men, and have fun playing with your subs!

Make him wear a butt plug and send him to the gym to workout — ensuring that he changes and showers in the locker room with the butt plug still in.

Cum on his face or in his hair, then send him out to run errands for You; make it clear that he’ll be severely punished if he returns and You discover that he’s wiped the cum off.

Call or text him at will and order him to piss his pants and send You a picture of it. If You do it when You know he’s out in public — at a bar, perhaps, or on the train during their evening commute home from work — even better.

Serve him his dinner in a dog bowl and make him eat it — sans utensils — kneeling like an animal on the floor next to You while You sit and eat Your dinner at the table like the Man You are.

Make him serve as a piece of furniture — a footrest, perhaps, or a coffee table on which people can set their drinks — during Your next party.

Make him address You as “Sir” in public. He should already be doing it in private, but addressing You that way in public will take Your power dynamic to a whole new level. To kick it up yet another notch, make him call You “Master.”

Outfit him with an ashtray mouth gag and station him on Your patio for smokers to use during Your next get-together.

Spontaneously order him to jerk off to completion in front of You or others in a random or inopportune time and/or place. Then, make him eat his load.

Forbid him from using the restroom for the day and make him wear a diaper, instead. Let him know you’ll be inspecting the diaper later, so he’d better make use of it.

Make him use the bathroom — piss and/or shit, Your choice — in front of You or others.

Perform an unannounced strip search and/or cavity check in an unexpected time or place — out at a bar, for instance, or in the parking lot when You’re out running errands.

Piss or cum into his food; make him eat it while You watch.

Forbid him to walk in front of You; faggots have to crawl on all fours.

Lock him in a cage naked during Your next party and let Your guests ogle at him like a zoo animal.

Dress him in slutty clothes and send him out in public to run errands for You.

Make him give himself an enema while You watch.

Make him use the urinal in a public mensroom with his pants around his ankles; or, if he has to shit, make him do so in a stall with the door wide open. Alternatively, or in addition, require that he always keep the door wide open when he’s using the bathroom at home.

Make him wear a leash and collar in Your presence. Or, even better, out in public.

Forbid him from making eye contact with You.

Handcuff him in public.

Make him kneel in a public restroom with the word “toilet” written on his forehead.

Lock his cock in a chastity device.

Lock his cock in a chastity device, then make him change at the gym, the swimming pool, the beach, etc., with the cock cage on.

Shave his head.

Shave all his body hair.

Scold him like he’s a little boy.

Reprimand him in public when he does something bad.

Spank him in public.

Write “faggot” on his face or body with suntan lotion, then take him sunbathing and let the sun “brand” him.

Make him wear a T-shirt out in public that says “i’m a faggot,” or “slave,” or “pussyboy,” or “cumdump.”

Put him in a timeout, standing naked in the corner facing the wall for a period of time.

Spit in his face — bonus if it’s a loogie — and make him keep it there to dry. Forbid him from wiping it off.

Take him to the bathhouse with messages like “breed me” or “i drink piss” or “cocksucker” written all over his body in permanent marker.

Next time he’s eating Your ass, rip a fart in his face.

Next time You take a dump, take Your finger — or even Your turd itself — and wipe a streak of shit on his upper lip. Demand that he wear Your shit mustache there all day.

Make him suck a dildo in a public place — in the car on the highway during rush hour, for example — so others can see.

Only allow him to use the bathroom outside, like a dog.

Make him eat things out of Your ass.

Gag him with Your cock until he pukes, then make him lick up his vomit.

Make him sleep on the floor next to your bed, instead of in the bed.

Slap him. Hard.

Make him lick your shoes or boots — on command, in public.

Pee next to him at the urinal when You’re out and about; turn and face him so that You piss on him instead of in the urinal. Laugh, and make him walk around with Your piss all over him.

Make him wipe Your ass for You. Either with toilet paper, with his hand or with his tongue. All three are extremely humiliating.

Make him verbally recite a list of five, 10, 20 — whatever — things he loves and admires about You.

Cut or a rip a hole in the seat of his pants and send him out wearing them without underwear on underneath.

Give him an enema and then take him on a walk around the neighborhood with it still in. Make sure he’s wearing light-colored pants or shorts. Heheheh.

Make him flash his hole to strangers in the car on the highway, at a rest stop, or another location of Your choosing.

Whenever You need to use the toilet — at home or in public — escort him in with You and make him lick it clean for You so you have a pristine place to relieve Yourself.

Clip a clothes pin to his tongue and make him say “i am a faggot” 10 times until he’s drooling all over himself.

After you fuck him, hose him off naked in the yard like a dirty animal.

Make him approach a stranger and “confess” something dirty and embarrassing. Like, “Hello, i’m a faggot, and i like to sniff Men’s asses.” Or, “Hello, i’m a faggot, and my cunt is filled with cum right now.” Or, “Hello, i’m a faggot, and i drink piss.”

Make him make animal noises for You on command: “Bark like a dog!” Or, “Meow like a cat!” Or, “Show me what sound a pig makes!”

Make him clean his cunt every time he shits. Pre-mix a cleaning solution for him to use — Your piss, perhaps, mixed with some dish soap — and store it in a spray bottle labeled “fag bath” or “cunt cleaner.” Make him display this cleaner next to the toilet in his home, where any guests are sure to see it.

Take him into a photobooth and make him pose for pictures with Your cock in his mouth, then walk away and make him leave the pictures for the next patron to find — not knowing who will find them or what they’ll do with them.

Make him approach a stranger at a bar, in a bathroom or at a sex club and beg for their cock, piss or cum.

Make him dust Your home using a feather duster stuck up his ass.

[theblondelockedboi]

Yes to all

[sirslockedboys]

I might have done a few of these over the years with some boys!

[learningalpha]

Thank you for taking my piss inside you to your family dinner. I will honor your tribute by treating myself a nice meal.

[thegayboybible]

Styles of Domination

The more I write, the more I find myself expanding on things I touched on in other posts. Somewhat similar to my 8 uses for sweaty underwear post, I’m going to do a quick dump of every style of domination I can think of; with the brief understanding I have of it. 5 minutes to think up as many styles as I can.

I have talked at least once about understanding the personality of the dominant you want to serve. It only seems useful to present as many as I can think of for the very newest of submissives. In real life, personalities can combine multiple types below in varying mixes. But for simplicity’s sake I just stated types I could think of. If you can think of other archetypes and provide a good description when you reblog, I’ll reblog it as well.

- Financial dominant: This dominant is most interested in what submissives can do for him financially. These days it is most often done over the internet although it still happens in person. The personality for this archetype is usually arrogant, actively disrespectful, and self absorbed, and entitled. You owe him this money for simply existing in his presence, for him even deigning to notice you.  I don’t know much about the practicalities of setting tribute amounts nor what exactly the dominant does in exchange if anything.

- Hypnotist: This dominant’s power comes from his ability to hypnotize you. I think for many people there is a question about whether hypnotism is real. My mentor insisted the answer was yes. I think it’s yes, but it depends on who it is, genetics, maybe willpower, and desire to be hypnotized. A hypnotist uses the lure of control over your mind to draw in submissives. What might you do without your conscious mind putting up inhibitions? Hypnotists are usually calm, confident, and have a quiet intensity about them. Hypnotists also have a tendency to be found online since hypno enthusiasts are not always located nearby.

- Bully: Some dominants fetishize the experience of pushing someone around because they are have an intimidating personality and/or physique. Bullies get off on the transgression of using their intimidation to put someone else in the weaker position. Bullies are usually extremely aggressive, often physically fit, and abusive (duh). Bullies tend to play in person since their body is part of what they draw strength and intimidation from.

- Suave (James Bond): This dominant uses charm and wit to dominate others. Their domination is usually more subtle but inevitable. Very much like James Bond himself. When he starts chatting with a pretty girl in the movies, you just know they’re going to sleep together… it’s inevitable. There is no one physique for this type of dominant since the game is primarily mental. Even if they are quite attractive, it is still their wit and charm that gets them what they want.

- Straight Guy: I really hope you all know about the idolatry surrounding straight men before you read this. Simply put, they’re dominant because they’re straight. Submissives cater to them because they’re a challenge and it’s something of a badge of honor to some guys to get someone to act against their publicly stated sexuality. If you need any examples of straight men and their wide variety of personality types, turn on a TV, open Netflix, or walk outside. There are a seemingly unlimited set of examples.

- Corporate Type: The corporate type is a guy who has a nice suit. He’s probably well off, or at least dresses like he is. He has a refined personality. He is usually calmly assertive, authoritative, and elegant. In this way he has a lot in common with the Suave type. The difference is that the corporate type is using his outfit to imply his social/economic station is high enough that you should cater to his will in hopes he will make you a part of his life which in turn will grant you access to the benefits of his social/economic status. He can be assertive when he really wants something, but he will mostly state or imply his will upfront and expect you to comply or not be contacted again.

- Old Guard Leather: My path through BDSM never included interacting with the old guard. What I have to say is merely observation, and may not be entirely accurate. Old Guard types have the weight of tradition behind them. Old Guard is called such because in the relatively young gay scene their traditions are from at least the time of Stonewall if not before. They have a very particular way of doing things. Dominants start out as submissives to a more experienced Sir and that Sir takes the fledgling dominant under his wing and teaches him his style, technique, and skills. In exchange the fledgling dominant serves that Sir however that Sir sees fit until that Sir says the fledgling dominant is ready to leave his tutelage. They have a disciplined and regimented structure that is highly fraternal to the point of dominants almost conveying pedigree to their mentees. Old Guard types are serious, regimented, and very knowledgeable.

- Sadist: A sadist is someone who enjoys inflicting pain (emotional or physical) on others. The media tends to paint a picture of sadists being akin to sociopaths. Maybe some are, but the sadists I’ve met have a very clear sense of whom and what is a plaything and who isn’t. Sadists have a variety of personality types, serious, intense, or just quiet. Dominance can even take a back seat to the desire to inflict preferred types of pain on others.

- Brat Tamer: A brat tamer is someone who enjoys a submissive who is a challenge, someone who challenges their authority. They get off on getting a submissive to submit. They’ll often get bored with more obedient subs. Brat tamers tend to be energetic and intense. Their dominance is often quiet creative both in their assertion of control and punishment. The challenge of a sub who doesn’t obey gets their creativity going and when they succeed they feel far more powerful for having “won” this round.

- Pup Master: I know far more about pups than their masters. What little I do know about pup masters is that they seek puppies to dominate. Puppies tend to be rather high energy and bubbly so I would expect pup masters to have patience as a trait.

- Alpha: Alphas are men who view themselves and their kinky world around them as completely hierarchical. They’re always at the top of that hierarchy, although others coming in second place are a threat of sorts to their authority (although they might never admit that anyone could even BE a rival). Those who do not submit or make themselves useful are generally ignored. Alphas are self obsessed, strict; their aggression varies, and often has very little patience. They believe themselves kings among men and expect that station to be recognized on sight and catered to.

[officerdaddy-deactivated2020032]

I’m an OldGuardLeather, Sadist Type, with a splash of Alpha…

[papatonyinsandiego]

Looking over the list, I guess that I’m a cross between a Hypnotist and James Bond.  I have a Tenth Degree Black Belt in Charisma, so I tend to get what I want.  I can convince anybody to go along with the plan, even if they don’t KNOW what the plan is.  

Decades ago, I made a conscious choice to use my powers for good, and not for evil, because it would be VERY easy for me to take unfair advantage of people.  I choose to be this guy instead:

[mastera6]

This is an interesting one as I tend to have my own style. I would have to say the following:

Suave - 20% - Not in style but inevitability and the way I talk to a boy. Calm and subtle when I want to be.

Sadist - 50% - This describes me well. I have to explain that being sadistic is not about beating a boy bloody. It’s the pleasure from the suffering of another such as that comes with chastity. As you can see from my blog chastity is one of my biggest kinks and even the slight tremor in a boy’s voice or the frustration that comes across when he describes what being locked is doing to him or even better the moan and weakening of his knees when I unlock him bring a big smile to my sadistic side. In saying that, finding a boy that loves pain or seeks it in different ways is a joy.

Brat Tamer - 20% - I don’t like an unintelligent boy nor one who is a blank slate. I want one with spine and brain, one who makes it worth my while to expend the energy and spend time with him.

Pup Master - 10% - I do enjoy pup play but on a small scale compared to my other kinks. This is also about the enjoyment of what a pup is, a fun creature that can play and cuddle and be content to just sit by his Master’s side being stroked. Not to mention belly rubs.

[nastyastheycome]

Reblog if you’re STD FREE

This is actually more important than all of the freak, nasty, and sex filled porn post on here. Hopefully this gets a lot of Reblogs. Know your status

[fillmorebeaver]

Yes indeed Clean as a whistle

[pornsized-deactivated20181224]

Proudly.

[gentlemenscholarsclub]

My latest article @gentsgazette

Given the heat waves hitting both sides of the Atlantic over the past month, how do we wear our tailoring when the temperature is 85 F or 30 C? Read my list of tips.

[learningalpha]

feet feels insecure without socks.

[aluminumapples]

ANYONE WHO REBLOGS THIS WILL GET A PICTURE DRAWN FOR THEM BASED ON THEIR BLOG

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I wonder…

[dutchhornysteamboatcompany]

let me see  what picTure i goT :) 

[raw-hole-4-all]

WOOF!

[slaverubbergimp-deactivated2018]

oinks

[learningalpha]

i can’t even count how many pairs but i still want more.

[hotmantoes]

[learningalpha]

when are you going to invite me over and try on the new socks? my toes are getting cold.

[ukstudentalpha]

Rules for Financial Domination and Tributes

1: Submit what you can afford. Tributes should come out of your Disposable Income.

2: Submit money that you have earned. If you are entirely living off of the State, family members or a friend, your Tribute can’t be financial. Most Students aren’t allowed to submit for this reason.

3: Only Submit Financially if you feel a deep desire to do so. Don’t feel pressured. Don’t feel bullied. Don’t be frightened of saying no to me. For some fags tributing cash or a gift is an intensely sexual experience, some enjoy it in a non-sexual way, and some find it boring or even hate it. If you are in the last group, don’t tribute financially.

[mindlessjoslave-deactivated2016]

Accept Who You Are

I know you.

You’re not attracted to guys, really. You like women. You even have a girlfriend or wife, or at least would like to have one - although some of you just don’t have the skills to attract women. 

You started innocently enough, watching porn, and over time added more and more themes. At first it was femdom videos and pegging, with women fucking men. Then came the cocks, followed by shemales. Everybody goes through the shemale phase. Then sissy videos and hypnosis. You came across the world of Tumblr blogs and the time spent masturbating increased every day. More and more themes got mixed in. 

Then you reached the tipping point: you were spending more focusing on cocks and thinking how it would be to take one, than you did on the women. That’s ok. You were always submissive, weren’t you? Imagining the woman on top, or wielding a strapon. Nothing’s changed, only now you’ve rightfully realized that a woman with a strapon cannot compare to a man with a real cock; that a plastic phallus cannot compare to a real, warm one, pulsating hot semen into your colon. And nothing can top the total emasculation that comes with the knowledge that another man has penetrated you and deposited his cum inside your mouth and ass.

Don’t be afraid of it. Embrace it. Acknowledge what you are. Some of you are virgins who have never even had a woman, but even those who have know that you’ve never really felt at ease fucking a woman. You’re just not the penetrator. You’re the penetratee. You need a strong and dominant male to fuck the manhood out of you and get you to accept your inferiority. It will feel so good, admitting you’re not a real man. Imagine looking into his eyes, a look of smug superiority on his face as he holds your legs up high in the air and, with you on your back, slides his penis into your well lubricated anal passage. This is what you need. This is what you are. 

Porn has liberated you. Don’t shy away from it. You’re a faggot and you know it.

[thepleasurequotient]

Ruined orgasms

Ruined Orgasms.  How many people reading this are familiar with the concept?  Ruined orgasms are just that, totally unsatisfying. They involve stroking, stimulating & milking a cock to the point of no return, ALWAYS after Interminable edging, and rather than milking the erection through the orgasm to maximize the blissful heavenly sensations, a couple of techniques can be used to properly ruin the males orgasm & reinforce your ultimate control.  A quick summary of certain techniques are summarized here.

Abandonment: Through extensive experience, the milker identifies the point of no return (PNR) for the cock being manipulated, and totally ceases any & all stimulation, simply sitting back and watching the silly straining appendage struggle to expend the unstoppable cream, which is gut wrenching and totally unsatisfying. The victimized & totally stunned manhood will most often, remain fully erect (extremely rock hard) following the ruined orgasm & Immediately feel the oh so desperate need to cum again.

Taking This Programming A Step Further:

Milking: An advanced technique with extremely wonderful libido building effects.  Rather than bringing the desperate erect penis to the Point of No Return (PNR), stimulation is abruptly stopped JUST prior to this point, causing the junk to leak out (ooze) a small amount of cum, but still remain, right on the verge of orgasm. A male’s dopamine levels will be peaked at this point. But after a short pause, once control is regained over the straining desperate cock, this procedure can be repeated over and over and over again, drawing small oozing amounts of cum from the his straining cock each time. Eventually the male’s balls can be completely emptied in this way.  At this point, the vulnerable bursting hard dick can be stimulated to a maddening, straining, painful dry orgasm he will never forget.  If the Alpha is feeling particularly sadistic, the dry orgasm can be ruined also, most likely leaving the possessor of the tortured overwhelmed dominated cock sobbing and writhing, But beautifully, exquisitely,painfully  hornier than ever!

Remember, there is a major difference between ejaculation and Male Orgasm; while usually occurring simultaneously, they are not the same thing…

Orgasm is the pleasurable rhythmic muscle contractions that are a result of prolonged mental and physical arousing stimuli (Thus the Multi Orgasmic Male). Ejaculation refers to the “Out of Control” expulsion of the pressurized ejaculate which must always be properly managed, controlled, restricted and purposely avoided by the ruling Alpha.

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Everyone who reblogs this will get two personal nudes from me :)

Every single one!!! Every 10th reblog gets a dildo video 😏😘

[mybfismyslut]

Hahahha yesss

[fulltimecuck]

I am ready for it hottie!

[theverge]

Is Benedict Cumberbatch’s face too beautiful for movie posters?    

OR: is his back is such a fine and sturdy back that it warrants top billing?