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Everyone headcanoning White as having a terrible time visiting Green's family's farm and being grossed out by all the mud and the worms and whining about not having wifi and only going along because they want to make Green happy but what if it's the opposite. What if they love it

Suddenly there's no board meetings and shareholders and no emails and no one is fussed when they get a stain on their shirt and they're lent clothes that are a tad too big but comfortable and the meals are actual food with grease and salt and carbs and calories that are satisfying and filling to eat unlike White's usual "two canapés and a glass of wine" dinner and also they can touch?? The mud?? They can touch mud and grass and dirt with their own two hands and it doesn't bother anyone?? It doesn't instantly give them one million disease like they've always been told?? And maybe worms aren't that gross actually aND HOLY SHIT WAIT ARE THOSE STARS?! You can see the STARS here?? There's no light pollution?? woah holy shit... the stars.....

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normal vs disordered: dissociation edition

normal: losing touch with reality whilst focusing incredibly hard on something

not normal: losing touch with reality when not otherwise engaged with something else. losing touch with reality to the extent that you can’t go about your daily tasks

normal: feeling numb after hearing some big news (positive or negative)

not normal: feeling numb most (or all) of the time

normal: feeling floaty or foggy after an exhausting day or week

not normal: feeling floaty or foggy for seemingly no reason, or when you’re otherwise not exhausted

normal: after reading a book or watching a film, it takes you a while to get your brain plugged back into the real world

not normal: you feel unplugged from reality even without having engaged with media intensely

normal: you daydream to pass the time, or when you have nothing else to do

not normal: you daydream as a way of escaping from reality, and it gets in the way of your daily tasks

(these are all on a spectrum! everyone experiences dissociation, but the key is that it becomes irregular when it gets in the way of you being able to do what you need to do)

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Shoujo☆Kageki Revue Starlight Overture - Goto Sora

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revue of passion you will always be famous to me

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MayaKuro by 준서@yuributa_koi

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Words cannot describe how much I love her. She keeps me going when things get rough.

Happy Birthday Maya, I love you lots <3

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”god loves you” if god REALLY loved me , she would let me take over the job . #meforgod2027

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A reminder that histrionic personality disorder isn't just about wanting attention from friends, but also involves:

Needing attention to self-regulate: relying on external validation to stabilize your mood and sense of self

Feeling numb when you're alone: experiencing profound emptiness or a lack of identity when not interacting with others

Acting impulsively out of boredom: engaging in reckless behaviors just to escape under-stimulation

Doing dangerous, controversial or degrading things to get attention: going to extremes just to ensure you're being noticed

Reacting in an overly emotional way, regardless of what happened: having intense responses that are disproportionate to the actual situation

Not knowing how to communicate your emotions beyond displaying them: struggling to verbalize how you feel, resulting in dramatic outward expressions instead

Being called dramatic, egocentric and egoistic by your family: frequently facing criticism from loved ones regarding your behavior

Struggling with honesty and lying without even knowing why: engaging in compulsive or automatic deception without a clear motive

Forgetting many things, especially the moments you acted differently to catch others' attention: experiencing memory gaps or dissociation regarding past attention-seeking behaviors (only remembering others' reactions)

Being irresponsible and self-indulgent to the point of being a dysfunctional adult: struggling with daily responsibilities due to a need for immediate gratification

Not knowing how to face stressful situations: lacking healthy coping mechanisms for dealing with pressure or conflict

Being highly dependent on others: relying heavily on others for emotional support and decision-making

Being so easily influenced that you forget your own opinions: lacking a solid internal compass and shifting your views based on who you are with

Having highly volatile emotions, opinions and thoughts: experiencing rapid, unpredictable shifts in how you feel and think

Being so focused on others' reactions that you ignore your own internal monologue: prioritizing how you are perceived over your own genuine thoughts

Feeling like you're not really living, but acting in a movie instead: a constant sense of depersonalization or playing a character

Trusting the wrong people and ending up being exploited or abused: having a compromised radar for red flags due to a desire for connection

Thinking others see you as a friend when they barely view you as an acquaintance: misjudging the intimacy and depth of relationships

Being obsessed with your physical appearance to the point of avoiding activities when you feel unattractive: letting body image completely dictate your social life

Fearing aging much more than people usually do: a deep dread of losing youth and the attention that comes with it

Constantly seeking others' validation: an insatiable need for approval to feel worthy

Fearing that you didn't really suffer as a child, yet wishing you had a different, calmer childhood: conflicting feelings about past trauma and upbringing

Flirting with people you don't even like: using seduction as a default mechanism for connection or validation

Feeling upset when others don't react to something you said: experiencing distress or rejection when your words don't get a response

Being self-absorbed to the point of having difficulty maintaining relationships: struggling to sustain bonds because your focus is primarily on yourself

Struggling with boundaries, both yours and others': having a hard time setting, recognizing or respecting personal limits

Thinking in extremes: viewing the world, yourself and others in black and white terms

Fearing that people will never notice you if you don't entertain them enough: believing your only value lies in being interesting or performative

Wanting to heal but hating the idea of changing who you are: the painful paradox of wanting relief while fearing the loss of your identity

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Grooming 101 (Awareness post)

What is grooming?

Grooming is a method used by offenders that involves building trust with a child, teen, or adult with the intent to gain alone time and create a relationship built on manipulation. Offenders often use grooming as a prelude to committing sexual assault or otherwise abusing an individual. (source)

What do predators look for in victims?

Low self-esteem or self-confidence

Busy, unavailable, toxic, or abusive parents (if a minor)

Disabilities

Neglected and in need of emotional support

Lack of supervision online (if a minor)

Social isolation

Otherwise vulnerable or lacking support

Stages of grooming:

Identifying and targeting a victim

Gaining trust

Filling a need

Isolation

Sexualizing the relationship

Maintaining control

Red flags someone may be grooming you:

Giving you special attention: spending more time with you than other people, giving lots of compliments, offering extra help or time, buying a lot of gifts or treats, helping you with homework, giving you rides to places; generally giving you a lot of attention and affection

Trying to spend a lot of time alone with you, without anyone else around

Telling you to keep a lot of things secret

Trying to gain your trust: offering advice, offering to be there for you, giving you lots of compliments and validation, giving you special treatment, revealing personal information about themself, pretending to be interested in the same things you're interested in

Filling some need you have (including emotional)

Trying to gain the trust of those around you or your shared community

Isolating you: telling you that they're uniquely trustworthy (unlike everyone else), saying that they're the only one you can turn to for some things, telling you not to talk to other people, guilting you or getting jealous when you talk to other people

Pushing boundaries to see how much they can get away with: disregarding your limits, pushing you to do things you don't want to do (even innocuous things)

Gradually introducing sexually explicit conversations or touching you (e.g. hugging you) despite your discomfort

Threats to share private information, hurt you, or hurt themselves

Signs and symptoms of grooming abuse:

Mood swings and changes

Behavior changes (e.g. becoming less outgoing, wearing different clothes)

Sleep disturbances (e.g. insomnia or nightmares)

Avoidance or fear

Decreased interest in school, work, friends, or hobbies

Change in academic or professional performance

More unexplained health issues, such as headaches or stomach issues

Feeling like you can't tell other people things about your relationship

It may feel like falling in love

What to do if you are being groomed:

Tell people: tell any friend or family member who you trust to support you

Save evidence: take screenshots of messages, usernames, dates, requests for secrecy or images

Report them: report them on all platforms and file a report to local authorities (for online, use the national cyber tipline)

Cut them off: block them on all platforms. Increase security by changing your passwords and enabling 2-factor authentication, as well as changing your username if you feel it's necessary

Do not confront them! This can make the situation worse or provoke them to lash out.

You can get support at RAINN's national sexual assault hotline.

What to do if you think someone you know is being groomed:

Speak up: Tell the potential victim why you think the situation is unhealthy, and express your concern.

Stay on their side and show that you'll keep supporting them even if they don't listen to you or take your advice. Make efforts to stay in contact with them and spend time with them.

Do not directly confront the suspected abuser/predator. This can make the abuse worse.

Keep a record of suspected grooming behavior in as much detail as possible: dates, names, clear descriptions, and save any evidence.

If necessary/appropriate, report to local authorities.

You can get support at RAINN's national sexual assault hotline.

Sources:

https://www.wikihow.com/Identify-Grooming-Behavior

https://www.pollyklaas.org/how-to-recognize-signs-of-grooming-by-predators/

https://www.familyeducation.com/kids/safety/signs-of-child-grooming-and-abuse

https://rainn.org/get-the-facts-about-sexual-violence/get-the-facts-about-grooming/

https://helpingsurvivors.org/faq/grooming-warning-signs/

https://endsexualviolencect.org/grooming-101-how-to-spot-it-how-to-stop-it/

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happy world water day! here's a reminder that access to clean, potable water is a human right. here's some links to donate to if you want to provide drinking water to people across the world:

Gaza Water Fund - Clean water for people in Gaza.

Afghan Relief - Clean water for people in Afghanistan.

Water Aid India - Clean water for Indian communities.

Armenia Fund - Clean water for people in Armenia and Artsakh

W4W (Waves for Water) - Clean water for Ukraine

FACE AFRICA - Clean water for communities across Africa.

Water Aid Mali - Clean water specifically for people in Mali (and a reminder that even today more than 70% of Mali is controlled and/or contested by terrorist groups. stand with the people of Mali just as you do with the people of Afghanistan)

Water for South Sudan - Clean water for people in South Sudan.

Smile Givers International - Clean water for Sudanese refugees + Sudan.

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as if we needed more evidence researchers are desperate/pushed by biased funding sources to force biological mechanism claims (even sideways ones like this). of course animals can sub in for psychotic humans. no reason that wouldn't work (if you think of psychotic people as rats in a cage).