No DNI other than minors but I block liberally. Im responsible for my own experience on the internet and you should be too, especially in a kink space.
Hard kinks, largely untagged follow at your own risk.
Engaged, poly, my attraction heavily leans toward men & masc people but there are occasional exceptions, switch & verse
I follow (and sometimes spam like if you're hot sorry 😅) from m***********_****t
DMs and asks open to anyone willing to respect my limits even if we aren't mutuals
Limits & likes under the cut
Hard Limits -
Unsolicited dick pics, interactions of any kind from anyone not of legal age, interactions from anyone who is pro C unethical para, scat, doxxing/blackmail, scenes without safe words/negotiation, raceplay, sending my face pics or identifying information unless we're VERY close, threats of abandonment, you smoking is hot), playing with people who identify as lesbians, chasers and terfs/trfs, and eating restrictions/body shaming
Soft Limits -
Deadnaming/gender play (can be super unfun with strangers on the internet but if its properly discussed I'm down), smoking (me smoking is the soft limit, mommy doms, feet, and religious play
Sometimes I'll see a radfem posting about how giving a male a blowjob is a uniquely degrading act for a woman to endure and like yeah they're right that's what's good about it
It's hard to breathe, it hurts your jaw, it stinks of ball sweat and dried piss, it takes forever, your neck cramps up, he makes you gag every time his hips twitch, he keeps grabbing at your hair, it's not just work it feels like you're at work with another hour to go and there's a huge rush of customers, and at the end you're rewarded with a mouthful of liquid that tastes somewhere between odd and vile with a texture somewhere between spit and snot. It's insanely degrading. That's why it's so much fun to make you do it.
And if you work hard and get good at it, your only reward is that it becomes expected of you! In fact, half the guys you blow will treat you as rotten or untrustworthy for giving good dome.
On the topic of fetish gear in public I think it is very telling when parents who are against it say "well how am I supposed to explain it to my kids??" Because it shows they aren't actually concerned about any psychological effects it will have on their kids (probably because they know seeing a guy in a pup mask will not lead to any negative psychological effects on any child because that's dumb), what they are concerned about is THEMSELVES. How am *I* going to explain that to my child (if they even ask). THEY don't want to have to have uncomfortable conversations with their kids, and they think it should be other people's responsibility to make sure they won't have to. But that's stupid! Uncomfortable conversations are part of parenting. And if you really don't want to explain it to your kid just lie. Say "oh they're just dressing up for fun honey". That isn't actually really a lie anyways. "But what if they keep asking???" I don't know man you're the parent! Figuring out what to say is your job! What do you do any other time your kid keeps asking questions you don't know the answer to/don't want to answer? Do what you do then. Either way not anyone else's responsibility
Ownership that is not confined only to sexual scenarios is very hot I think. Someone else making every day decisions for you, wearing a necklace with their name on it, them grabbing you and pulling you against their side when you’re walking together, having a hand on your thigh when you sit together, grabbing your chin and making you look at them while they tell you that you belong to them, just as a gentle reminder. Yes hello that sounds very good to me
It's incredibly transphobic to deny a trans man access to your body. If a trans man says he wants to fuck you, anything other than giving him full, unrestricted access to do whatever he wants is transphobia.
There is something really good about collapsing into sobbing and pleading until you realize there's nothing you can do to stop it, so your captor doesn't even need to beat you into submission anymore. You just lie there gasping and weeping in their arms as they comfort you, weak and fading. The "please no no no" becomes broken silence, gazing up at them, maybe clutching at their arm for a scrap of comfort as it happens.
This is normally like a snuff thing but it should be applied to many more settings. It's a delicious flavor of forced orgasm, leaving time between accepting you can't fight it anymore and it actually slamming into you. That endless moment of agonizing dread, suspended in despair and anticipation, cringing in pain and disgust. You'd almost prefer to just cum and it to be over with but even that mercy you're denied. You must wait to suffer.
Obviously there's also forced intox. There's nothing like realizing you're coming up and helpless to do a damn thing about it. You can panic, scream, sob, bite and scratch, tell them how much you hate them, but it's inevitable. You'll be weak on the ground soon, too dizzy to fight, too confused to argue. This is where brain breaking can come in! They can mind fuck you and turn you into something else inside, and all you can do is watch ❤️
I want to make you feel violent. I want you to want to ruin me. To feel the urge hurt me every time you look at me. I want to hear the need to destroy me in your voice. See the desire to break me in your eyes. I need the aggression to feel wanted.
it's absolutely absurd how choking is such a common thing that people (even kinksters!) will try to just Do That Shit without consent on a very regular basis even though it's like. potentially life threatening and high risk and a big indicator of willingness to do domestic violence. like if you wouldn't hold a gun to someone's head during sex without talking with them about it first you shouldn't choke them idk HOW this isn't the common understanding of what choking is.
Rape is kind. It’s a compliment. It means they want you enough to give you what you truly need, even if you don’t know it yourself. Keep that in mind when your face is being pressed painfully into the cold concrete and you’re being fucked dumb.
I understand the appeal of stoic doms, but shout out to doms (like me) who get excited about domming. Doms who smile when their sub says "please". Doms who beam when their sub whimpers and moans and cries out. Doms who are visibly thrilled when their sub says "I'm yours I'm yours use me". Doms who laugh in delight when their sub rambles "so good, it's so good oh my god". Doms who say "oh, you're so perfect. so gorgeous like this, yes baby"
Not enough talk about intox doms tbh. "Get me so drunk/high I just lie there while you grope me" what about dom who hits you too hard because he can't control himself. What about dom who is too crossfaded to pay attention when you tell him to stop. What about sloppy drunk dom slobbering all over you
It's incredibly transphobic to deny a trans man access to your body. If a trans man says he wants to fuck you, anything other than giving him full, unrestricted access to do whatever he wants is transphobia.
