This is a Ross Geller hate blog

Muireann|20|Irish|Gay|Tired| student of history, politics and human rights

[fashion-runways]

Olympia Le Tan Spring/Summer RTW 2016

[trashcatlesbian]

everything thats traditionally supposed to be for men is always 100000x better on women like… buzzcuts.. jawlines.. dating other women.. girls just do it better

[heylesbianlove]

[huuuhh]

[hotcommunist-deactivated2019032]

butches are the tenderest lovers

jul. 2018, pride day.

[hotboyproblems]

[marxpussy-deactivated20180726]

Fun forgotten lesbian terminology: butches used to be called sergeants and really exceptionally lazy gay girls were called slothgirls.

[inkfemme-moved-deactivated20190]

This is true

Mid 1990s butches were called sergeants and lazy lesbians were called girlsloths

Also Fusion (also called merging) is an actual lesbian term

“FUSION: “In lesbian love relationships, an intense intimacy between the two partners that causes them to be over-involved in each other.”

[quaercre-deactivated20180306]

tag yourself i’m a fucking girlsloth

[shyandgay-deactivated20190118]

girlsloth defines me so much I feel called out

[violet-lesbiann]

whenever i talk about my girlfriend around straight people, a few things usually happen; they go quiet, the atmosphere changes, someone changes the topic very quick, etc. (which are similar “methods” for people to ignore and distance someone they feel doesn’t belong in the group, you know?) i usually say things like “oh, my girlfriend loves that movie!” or “my girlfriend is great at computers so she always helps me when mine is acting up”, ya know, regular everyday things that relate to the topic we are discussing. lately i’ve really started to realize why the entire mood usually changes with me mentioning of my girlfriend - straight people always feel like gay people are oversharing just by mentioning their partner. to straight people, i’m overstepping some kind of boundary just by mentioning that i have a girlfriend. to them, me saying “my girlfriend” is entirely synonymous with me out of the blue saying “i am a lesbian”, a statement that is somehow inherently oversharing and too much information, as well as a real quick and easy way of involuntarily distancing myself from the group that i in that moment am not fully a part of anymore.

[lykoian]

I’m like…incessantly uncomfortable with the idea that men look at me in public and decide for themselves whether I’m attractive or not. like men looking at me makes me feel so uncomfortable I can’t breathe even if they’re just being friendly or don’t care at all. like I want to be invisible to men I don’t want to exist to them I only want to exist to women.

[icingburns-archive-blog]

women writing horror that focuses on the fears of women in a society that is a constant danger to their mental health and well-being? genius. men writing horror where women suffer for shock value? garbage.

[bi-trans-alliance]

From Manchester Pride 2018 (source)

[butchstudsubmit]

so glad they did this – transmisogyny within the lesbian community is unacceptable

[splendidland]

professor x: “no magneto, police deserve to be at mutant pride. they’re there to keep us safe.”

[ok91]

[brbjellyfishing]

my left and right brain hemispheres communicating

[beachdeath]

i don’t know what’s worse: the producers of sesame street actually taking the time to rebuke an openly gay former writer’s gentle and moving admission that he’d based several bert and ernie sketches on his relationship with his late partner OR this person waltzing into the middle of a discussion about homophobia to make a completely fucking irrelevant comment accusing sesame street of hating asexuals

[chadlesbian-inactive]

I went on their twitter to see if context would help but oh god

it’s so much worse

[pxssionflxwers]

[heroiny]

[uncannychikage]

uh oh

[yekkes]

Why not both