if you donât find yourself important, if you donât think you will amount to anything, or have a significant role in anything, if you feel like you have no right to participate in important matters, if itâs hard for you to believe that you could be vital and central to anything, if you feel like nothing you do is important, or could possibly mean anything, if you feel like youâre expendable and it doesnât matter if you live long or not, if youâre scared that youâll be killed off, and that it would be justified by one reason or another, if you feel like only good that could ever come from you is to please someone or make someone happy or help someone, if you automatically assume in every group that youâre the one who is obliged to make everyone happy and satisfied, and be there for their needs and wants, and otherwise youâre a burden and worthless, and shouldnât bother everyone with your presence,
all of these are features of âslave mindâ. All of this means youâve been socialized as a slave. Only those whoâve been slowly and long-term brainwashed to find no value in their own lives, in their own freedom, are forced to think like this. It means youâve been treated as if youâre not human at all, as if you donât have equal rights, even worse, someone convinced you that you arenât valuable, that your life shouldnât be valued, not even by you. Youâve been forced to believe that youâre less than everyone else, and that everyone else comes first, and if youâve tried to counter that idea, youâve been abused into terror, or drowned in a sea of guilt, accused of being selfish, cruel, harmful, toxic, a burden on everyone around you. Youâve been hurt really greatly every time you tried to stand up for your human rights, so someone could keep using you for their own benefit, while convincing you that theyâre the only thing that gives you any kind of value, and keeps you alive.Â
They lied to you. You are human. Your life and your work and your words and your thoughts and your well being are just as important and valuable as everyone elseâs. Your life is yours, it belongs to you, itâs not there to serve others or to make others happy, itâs only there for you. Nobody has the right to make you feel guilty for fighting for yourself. You donât owe anything to the world, not to your parents, not to other people. Youâre not obliged to make the world a better place for everyone else but for you. World hasnât given you even the mere basic human rights. Youâre allowed to hate it for that. Your experience is human experience, and anyone who would force a human being to go thru this is a monster by default.Â