When you walk away from a discussion or a fight it tells me you don't want to fight. If you tell me you need space it let's me know I'm suffocating you. If you hang up on me it makes me think you are done with me. I know these aren't necessarily true. I know space can be good. Iknow walking away to clear your head can be healthy. But it hurts me so much. My emotions come and go very fast so for me talking things out works great. But I can talk things to death which is also not good. I can keep talking until there is a problem where there previously wasn't one. And I know I need to let my partner have their space but it's so hard for me. Because I want closeness when things aren't going great to let me know we're going to work through it and it's going to be okay. If you walk away it feels like it's the end for me and it hurts.














