hi!! just realised i saw your posts on tiktok already and i installed tumblr a few days ago. saw one of your posts and decided to scroll past all your blogs only to realise i recognize you from tiktok!!! to start, sorry that this us long a bit but hope youâll read it and answer :), iâve been feeling so frustrated with shifting
i know that iâm just putting a limiting belief by saying to myself i canât shift and other stuff iâll mention rn, but i feel âstuckâ , it feels like everytime i try it âwonât workâ,(iâm putting â because i know itâs a limiting belief) and i need to âlet goâ but, i donât know how to let go, what do i let go of? my desire to shift now? because i do wanna shift now and iâm just completely lost on how to let go, i read your posts, that time doesnât exist and it doesnât matter when iâll shift, that iâm infinite, but my little human brain cannot comprehand that,
i wanna experience it now and iâm not sure. How do i âdecideâ iâm already there, and when i do âdecideâ when i attempt to shift i still see my cr. Iâve been trying methods and i donât know what to do, i know the only key to shifting is âmeâ but how do implement it into âreal lifeâ ,
I KNOW itâs wrong of me to assume that youâll magically help me and solve my issues, i know that this is my journey but still what do i do???, i feel like i know the basic knowledge on shifting on what to do and what not to do but, when it comes to terms of doing the stuff, i have no idea how to actually do it in REAL life. Iâve been so frusterated with shifting i suddenly woke up from my sleep and couldnât fall back asleep and decided to binge on tumblr to find out more on âwhatâs wrong with meâ and why i âcannotâ shift, more knowledge on âHOW TO SHIFTâ , i know nothing is wrong about me, but it FEELS like that, i keep searching for answers and knowledge that will be âmy final pushâ to âmake me shiftâ but, i know in theory that i donât need to do that and that i already have done enough, the thing is it doesnât feel like that.
also wanted to ask, iâve been anxious about this, how do i know people in my cr didnât âleave meâ and shift to another reality, like iâm overthinking about people in my life that they already shifted somewhere else and left me. How can i even tell if they shifted away? Did they leave?
I understand your feelings, shifting is and can be a really frustrating journey. You're not doing anything wrong by letting those feelings get to you. In the end, you're only human, and it's natural for you to overthink these things.
I'll try to answer the all the questions you asked.
How do you let go? What do you let go of? This is a difficult question to answer, especially because you seem very focused on the now. But in most cases, you don't let go of wanting to shift, you don't let go of your desire to shift, but you let go of your expectations of when or how to shift. Letting go is knowing it will happen, and being able to trust yourself in that fact, without constantly having to worry about it.
How do you decide you're already there? This again goes into a similar direction as the other question. You have to realise that shifting is and can be instant, you could blink and shift right now if you wanted. But as someone who doesn't have much confidence in that ability, it's likely it will take you just a tad bit longer.
By deciding to shift, and then immediately backtracking 10 minutes later because you didn't see or feel a change, you're basically persisting again in perceiving this reality. If you decide to shift and know it will happen, even if not immediately, you make it a whole lot easier on yourself to embrace that belief and let it come to you. Which goes hand in hand with the letting go as well.
What do you do? You're right I can't magically make you shift. Especially if you're unwilling to change your mindset or approach to shifting. But you also have to remember that there's not one way to do it. You can shift always, with any method, at any time. If you don't feel like you can let go, or trust yourself, try other things. It's not a crime to look for answers, as long as you don't let it get to a point where you don't have your own opinions anymore. Really, take a deep breath, you already got this. Don't beat yourself up over something you cannot change right now, shifting will always be there. You're not in a hurry, even if it feels like it.
For your last question, remember that we shift millions of times every single day. So does your family, so do your friends. Everyone is always shifting. Do they ever feel any different? They don't, because they're still them. Even if they would shift to one of their drs, you wouldn't know, you wouldn't notice, and it wouldn't affect you. It's nothing to worry about, I promise. They're still them, they always will beđ