it's-Alex-tho

my blog is all about my life as a gender fluid/transgender, i will give u advice, laughs and more, so check out some of my blogs :)

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My birth name being used

My work college knows I prefer to be called Alex because that's what I have changed my name to and prefer. Instead of being respectful and using my preferred name she introduces me to clients in the salon I work in as my birth name. It makes me feel uncomfortable and when the clients then start calling me by my birth name I almost want to cry because I feel set back. I can't turn around and say no my name is actually Alex because then I will have to explain why My college got it wrong.

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My first hairstyle I did in the salon now out of hair. Quite proud of it

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I made these little cardboard characters on art.

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Relationships as a trans/gender fluid

Sometimes relationships can be hard for people who are transgender or gender fluid, this is because cisgendered people don't really understand or might not feel comfortable dating a trans or gender fluid person. This isn't out of being an ass hole or something it's because they may not know what to call you or gender you, also body parts are a big role in it. A cis person may feel uncomfortable with it because someone who is trans may not necessarily have the desired genitals which means that the cis person could feel like they may not know what to say or do. For example it took around a year for my girlfriend to come around to the idea that I would prefer to be a male but haven't quite yet figured things out, which is totally fine people just need to be educated more on the awareness of transgender and gender fluid.

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Love going. So much fun haha

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This girl is the best thing that has ever happened to me. She's litterally my rock. I don't usually post stuff like this but I felt like it. We've been together for almost two years now and I can't imagine my life without her she's my best friend my lover and I can't wait to spend my whole life treating her like a princess 😍😍😍

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Need new blogs to follow x

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Disabled toilets

So I got told I can only use the disabled toilets. So furious. I specify as male so why can't I use male toilets. Anyway I go into there for a try and it's horrible. It smells like shit and has well shit everywhere and it's dirty and I'm not even sure if they clean it out. I feel so down that my college won't let me a transgender student use the toilets of my gender. 😢😢😢

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My new first binder

I managed to get my mum to buy me a binder the other day. It took ages to persuade her to let me. But I'm very excited to get it. It's my first one.

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When my mum takes my binder

My mum took my homemade binder to wash it. I didn't fancy putting a boob trap on (what I call a bra) so I had to do with what I got. So I get an old swimming shirt and turn it into a binder. I feel so smart. It's a bit tight but it's ok for now.

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male toilets.

ok i went into the male toilets for the first time, and it was horrible, it stank, there was pee on the floor, and shit, yes i repeat shit on the toilet seats. not the greatest thing to see for a first time.

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NOT HAPPY!!!!

So I had a chat with my college today about me using the male toilets hoping they would let me, nope instead they a said that they will see about me using the DISABLED toilet. No that's not right I wasn't asking for that I want to use the male ones. I'm not going to stop till I get what I need. I don't think this is fair making trans people use disabled toilets because of their birth genders.

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Today is a new day

Today I'm going to concer my fear of using the male toilets. I'm going to strut in and do as I do. Wish me luck. Hope you all have something you will feel proud of today.

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when life gives you lemons, squeeze them in your enemies eyes

hopefully i made this up

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So on my way home and it's freezing. I tend to use this effect a lot coz it's nice haha X

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Public toilets.

In my college they promote equality. Which means if you specify as male you use the male toilets or if you specify as female you use the female toilets, in my case I can hardly use any without getting judged by the way I look, I can't go in the female toilets without people staring or sniggering and sometimes whispering to friends, and I haven't even tried going in the male toilets because I'm too scared of what will happen. No one should feel scared of walking into a toilet, but it happens. I asked my college if I can use the male toilets to see what they would say and they said "not unless you have changed your gender by law", what does that even mean, why should a bit of paper decide weather you can use a toilet, it shouldn't. So if you are a male of female or anything in between use whatever toilet you want regardless of what others think, don't be like me.

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i found this picture, it kind of explains gender. its kinda funny too, genderbread person, what a funny name.