lgbtq+ long distance suggestions

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[lgbtldr]

im so excited because my datemate is gonna be visiting me soon and im so happy because i don’t get to see them often (we live half the country away from each other :c) and even tho we don’t have set plans for what days it’ll be or how long I’m just so hyped? I love them so much they’re the best datemate ever and I’m so happy to have them

that’s so cute and exciting, omg !! i hope you guys have a lot of fun together 💕

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[lgbtldr]

omg mod 🌹 tell us about you getting marrieddddd and congratulations !!!!!

i’m so sorry this is late !! for anyone unaware, i got married on september 6th ♥️

edit: apparently read more doesn’t work on mobile i’m so sorry lmao

SO. marriage is so fucking cool, y’all. we’re still long distance & my husband (!!) had to back to the uk at the v beginning of october so we haven’t been able to really Feel Married much but even just knowing he’s legally my person and he can’t just ghost me (i’m so insecure lmfao) is so stupidly comforting omg

i’ll give some details abt the wedding too: it was suuuuper tiny (both of our parents, a mutual friend who officiated, and my brother made a surprise appearance) and we did it at a park that we frequented throughout our relationship !! there was a random pair of people hanging out on the gazebo where we did it so that was. interesting

we kept it very very brief bc neither of us was particularly into the idea of a conventional wedding, we just wanted to be married already lmao. but we drafted a script for our friend to use and then signed the license and then had a picnic at the same park !! it was rlly cute tbh

we hung out w his parents for the majority of the rest of the day and when we finally left to go back to my dorm together we were so stupidly happy and kept going ‘we’re MARRIED’ and then gushing abt it

it’s not all sunshine and gay tho: we have to figure out how we’re going to Live Together and decide who’s going to move where and when. that’s been stressful and depressing, especially since we went from being Together constantly for 3 months to having almost polar opposite schedules (we deadass didn’t manage to have a conversation that lasted longer than 4 minutes for almost a whole week, it’s been Awful) which is extra shitty bc i’ve had a Bunch of stuff fall apart in the last week and a half and all i want to do is crawl into bed with my person but he’s 5,000 miles and a 6 hour time difference away

that being said: i’m so overwhelmingly glad that we got married. i think it’s one of the best decisions i’ve ever made & he keeps insisting he feels like he was born to be married (to me specifically, apparently)

lmk if you have any specific questions and i’ll do my best to answer them !!

-mod 🌹

[lgbtldr]

Gay pride!

tru !! 🌈☀️🌈☀️🌈

[lgbtldr]

guess who got married

[lgbtldr]

Alright, I’m going to be off my laptop now, because I’ve gotta eat lunch. I’ll try queueing some stuff up after I eat <3

[lgbtldr]

UPDATE: I officially bought the plane ticket to see my gf in August. But the thing is I’ll be traveling out the country for the month of July so I’ll literally be landing back in the US to fly to another airport to hop on another plane to take me to the UK. Send help -US—> UK anon

This ask!

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[lgbtldr]

hey I'm the anon whos gonna see their bf who sent an ask about it a month ago. I'm gonna see him tommorrow im so excited!!

Oh! are you the one who talked about landing in the US only to hop on a plane to the UK? Let us know how it goes!!

(I’ll post the ask i’m talking about after this one, so followers can tell what i’m talking about)

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[lgbtldr]

me and my boyfriend live far from each other (both are in the us but I'm in Illinois and he's in Florida. we met while I lived in florida when we were 13) once I turn 18 (I'm 16) I'm moving out of my emotional/verbally abusive family and going to see him!! I can't wait ahhh!!!

(gonna be answering some older asks)

Ooooh good luck! I hope your relationship has gone well since this ask was sent in!

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[lgbtldr]

Anon about the guy I'm in love with: He's really tall and has the cutest hair, and he likes P!ATD. We've been dating for about 7 months now. I call him Moose because he's so much taller than me (I'm super short.) He makes me feel so loved. We're long distance right now but I can't wait for the day I get to hold him and my arms and give him a kiss. I'm so fucking gay for this dude.

(gonna be answering some older asks)

Awww♥

How has your relationship gone since you sent this, anon? We would love to hear!

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[lgbtldr]

The woman I'm in love with is beautiful, even if she doesn't agree with that herself. When she kisses me it takes my breath away, cause her lips are really soft, and I'm very gay. She's shorter than me, but we fit together like two pieces of a puzzle. She's kind and caring, but she also has a temper. I love her and miss her very much, cause she's almost on the other side of the world, and it'll be a while until I can hold her tight and share a bed with her again

(Gonna be trying to clear out some older asks)

She sounds wonderful, anon! This is a bit older of an ask, how has this relationship gone since you sent this, if you’re still following us?

-mod 🍃

[lgbtldr]

Whoops totally read your blog url as "lesbian gay bi trans/too long didnt read" instead of "lgbt long distance relationships" XD fantastic concept, great blog, still wanna follow!

You’ve got me imagining a blog full of tl;drs submitted from various lgbt blogs, from posts of theirs out of context now...

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[lgbtldr]

Gonna try to answer some asks while I’m on my laptop, sincerest apologies if they are late answers.

[softheartsuggestion]

i can’t wait to get to sleep next to you and wake up before you to shower you in kisses and “i love you"s

[lgbtldr]

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

IM GONNA VISIT MY SIGNIFICANT OTHER IN AUGUST DURING MY SEMESTER BREAK!!!!!!!!! IM SO EXCITED & HAPPY!!!!!

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[lgbtldr]

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[lgbtldr]

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