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Hi! I'm Alex!(She/her) All hate is blocked I like cats LGBTQ+ Friendly

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Hello! Recently my friend has come out as agender. I am new to this whole gender issue and need help! I am not sure how to approach my friend without accidentally offending them. What im trying to say is what do I call my friend? Do I say a boy since he was one before? What should I say? I am so confused! I don't want to offend and hurt my friend. Can someone please help me? Thanks!

ask them what their pronouns are and be polite about it. just be like “hey since you came out, what pronouns do you prefer to go by” they won’t gee upset. my friends asked me the same thing when i came out.

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you guys!!!! i cut my hair!!!!!

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I don't know what is happening with me, I don't like when people call me beautiful and I want to feel handsome, and there are soany thing that I wanna try, like drag or being androgynous but I'm so scared and I need help, can somebody please tell me what to do??

experiment! Tell a close, supportive friend “Hey! I rather be referred to as he” or “I rather be referred to as they” trying dressing more masculine one day. start practicing drag makeup. it may seem scary at first, but that’s okay.  it may take some time, but you will eventually will find what’s comfortable to you

[lgbtqokay]

I've found so many aces on Tumblr but since I'm 14 (15 in less than a month) I have to be "Internet responsible" (which I understand, my mom has a good point) but I just want to connect with other aces and not feel so alone. Do you know what I mean? Have any advice? ~lonely ace

I totally know what you mean! I understand why your mom wants you to be internet responsible, but sometimes, you meet the best types of people on the internet(sometimes) my best friend lives 500+ miles away from me and i met her through the internet. you do have to be careful sometimes though. If you feel uncomfortable talking to someone on the internet, be internet responsible and block them. Making friends in the lgbtq+ community is so much fun. Good luck!! 

[lgbtqokay]

I'm asexual panromantic, but I don't feel comfortable coming out as ace, I was much more comfortable coming out as Pan. It just felt better, like I woke up happy to know I was pan. And I'm very much ace it's just idk I don't feel as good coming out ace. And I always make a point to emphasize that I'm panromantic when I come out and it's not that I don't like being ace or am ashamed I just feel more pan than anything. What's your advice.

come out as pan, if it is what you feel comfortable with, then go for it, follow your heart!!

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Today’s Mood

Gay and Overwhelmed

[lgbtqokay]

day two. I ID as queer and non binary!

[lgbtqokay]

Hi! I wasn't sure but thought you might able to help me out with this... but uhm I'm 16 and I was wondering if I'm too young to label my sexuality? And do you have any tips about coming out to a unsupportive family? It's cool if you don't I'm just at a loss and looking for help. I have a girlfriend and I am scared my parents would react wildly if they found out. So far I've been able to hide it easily though.

Hey anonymous! You are never too young to label your sexuality, I’m 16 and identify with non-binary/genderfluid and queer and like i said, I’m only 16. Coming out to an unsupportive family is difficult, my family isn’t that supportive. Start by coming out to people you trust and feel the most comfortable with first. Trying to start big by coming out to your family is very stressful. So start with 1-2 people at a time and have small simple conversations can make it easier.

Also makes sure you have somewhere safe to go if things don’t go well. Most importantly, make sure you are ready to come out. Things might seem difficult and remember, everything always turns out okay in the end, and if its not okay, then it’s not the end. 

Stay strong lovely! I hope this helped and everything goes well!!

[lgbtqokay]

Christmas

Let’s do something fun! inbox me what you got for Christmas! I’m excited to see what you guys got!!

I got this new Chromebook, a bunch of makeup, white converse, and some video games(i.e. animal crossing) 

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I love you guys!!

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Hey!

Hey guys! I hope everybody had an amazing Christmas and I wanted to say so sorry for not being so active :/ I thought it would be a good idea if you guys could tell me what you guys want from me/how to keep me more active because I am sadly running out of ideas. I just got a laptop so I can hopefully be a lot more active. Please feel free to inbox me suggestions or message me. I’m always open to things. I love you guys!! Stay strong lovelies!!!! 

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How did you find out you were LGBTQ+?

I took this and thats kind how i found out

[lgbtqokay]

hello there! i was wondering if you wouldn’t mind giving me some advice on something.. basically, i’m just confused about my sexuality. i thought i was bisexual but i always keep questioning myself. i don’t know if it’s my mind messing with me or there’s a chance i’m not bisexual, you know? i know that it’s okay to question yourself, but it frustrates me since it happens so often. i would love if you could just give me some advice on this! thanks!

being bisexual can be confusing at times. i was bisexual and then i thought i was straight and it just kept confusing me. but figure out feelings first before you put a label on yourself. it helps a lot. and if people ask. just be like “i don’t know” try not to feel forced to put a label on yourself because you don’t. labels are so overrated

[lgbtqokay]

Hey, so I thought I was aromantic a couple months ago but as of recently I've been wanting to experience a relationship and idk if that means I'm not actually aromantic and just confused?

you are young, you don’t have to stick with ONE identity. you can do what you want. it’s YOU. you do you boo

[lgbtqokay]

What should I do if a really nice boy likes me and I agreed to date him at first but now I think I might be a lesbian? He's been a very good friend to me for years and I don't want to hurt his feelings, but I want to leave the relationship before it becomes worse for both of us.

just say “hey, i don’t think we are gonna work out as a relationship, i think we are better off friends” (come out if you are comfortable) “i am not sure yet but i might be a lesbian. it’s nothing to do with you, i promise.” just something on the lines of that. don’t do it over text, that’s a little too much

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Message to all pre-T dysphoric transboys who get periods: On your period, your body pumps lots of testosterone into your body to flush the period blood out!! I just thought I'd share because this knowledge helps me feel less dysphoric on those days!! Hope this helps somebody?

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[lgbtqokay]

If someone who was cis identifies as nonbinary/genderfluid/demi girl/demi boy etc does that make them trans?

not totally. that makes them whatever they want to label themselves as. if someone is trans, then they are.