rea : she|r : 19 : INFJ : 🇮🇶 + ☪︎ : lawful good : f★ves : palestine.
hiiii friends ! im rea and this is my personal diary of things i like ! i especially ⸜❤︎⸝ kaveh + certified blondie enjoyer overall ! ᥫ᭡ ✧₊⁺ this blog is SFW + will need a tad bit of tidying but i hope you will enjoy your time here regardless ! open to being friends or just chatting ! ⋆𐙚₊˚⊹
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the love express has a delivery ! ! ! ! i hope you’re having a day as wonderful as you – remember to drink up & have a bite if you havent – take a moment to look up from your device and breathe ! ! ! i’m proud of you and for what you’re doing and i think you’re doing amazing :–D keep your head up & keep going ! ! ! ! it’s gonna be amazing bc you are !
awwwh :( Ying thank you so much you’re always the sweetest ever ☹️🫶 I need all the luck I can get rn sobs <3 I return the same sentiment to you a thousandfold !!!! Make sure to take it easy, I noticed you said you got sick some few days prior ? I hope you’re doing much better !!! <3
Rea! I see you're having a difficult time, it's okay. I'm not the best at comforting but please try to listen to me when I say you shouldn't listen to other people's opinions if they are way too critical, negative or wrong. Honestly, I don't even know you so much, and I think you're doing just great in life! If you ever need to, you can talk to me because I won't lie arguments between my parents and me has happened.....wayyyyyyy too much. Of course, that doesn't we don't care about each other. So you can always talk to me if you feel like it and I can try to help <3 I hope you take care of yourself and focus on the things that make you happy. You are such a nice person and that by itself makes you a great person. Believe in yourself, because I believe in you. Whatever happens, make sure you're okay.
Heyyy Rose 🥹 first of all thank you so much you’re honestly super sweet 🥺 I read this over and over and 🤧🤧🤧 aaah !!! ilysm I appreciate it a lot. ( a bit more of an, I guess, personal explanation, under the cut )
But I hope you’re doing alright ? Do you feel any better after what happened some days ago ? Hoping diluc had a wonderful birthday with his favourite girl ( you ! ) ! <3
It’s not really an argument per se, it’s hardly an argument if one side is just loosing their marbles at you and you just sit there and take it, unfortunately my mum just likes to use me as something to take out her frustrations with, esp because of my dad. This happens so many times, I’m more like some puppet to her or some doll to control, it feels embarrassing because I’m 19, turning 20 - that sounds like a big number and yet the way she controls me is genuinely like no other, when I tell people they’re often shocked with the level of control I literally can’t breathe without her permission, so it gets suffocating. I’ve learnt to just let her yell at me because I know if I say a word, not that I have, she would go absolutely ballistic. I suppose that’s to be expected of an ab*sive relationship, I have a bad time with communicating and arguments so I mostly shut down and disassociate. I’m super sorry to just dump that on you, please don’t worry 😭🙏, I just wanted to give a slight explanation so it can give clarity for my previous post. I try not to be so negative on here, and I am super sorry you had to see that, but I do appreciate your words very much ! 🥹🫂 that’s some wonderful advice as well, I’ll keep that in mind 🥺🫶
can y’all stop sending the do you support bfajax asks ITS SO ANNOYING YALL we dont even know yall and me and four mutuals got that 😭
^^^ this. I 100% guarantee that these ppl do not follow me whatsoever. What’s more baffling is the amount of emotional disconnect someone would have to have when a person says they don’t want to talk about something, and yet the other persistently bring it up a thousand times over. It’s not even annoying to me, I have a LOT of patience and I mean A LOT. But to think that all I’m here for is to dispel accusations when I am not remotely involved in the situation, disregarding my thoughts and feelings just for some drama is kind of sad ngl. I’m really so very done with this whole topic, why is it SO HARD to just respect boundaries. Do you think I like being vulnerable on the internet ? Hard NO, but what use is it being transparent if they’re just going to do the very thing which hurts. I can’t even go online to positive things when irl is not remotely any better ;-;
fyi ashe is a minor ! he said that himself so calling him a pedo.. when the 15yrs is gonna be 16 aka one yr age gap from him is insane like.
Hello anon ! I’m a bit confused about this message, to be honest with you, about a few things. I can’t precisely tell if you’re implying I think he’s a pedo or you’re just relaying to me what other people think. In my whole response earlier I never called him one, that was quite clear. I went clearer still about the situation in this one line I said at the very end paragraph, I’d heavily suggest you read that if you hadn’t already !
Also I know he’s a minor, I also mentioned that in my final paragraph too ! Unfortunately I’m not the law. Whatever I say right now and whatever I think about whether or not he’s guilty etc etc will not do anything to resolve the situation. I made my stance exceptionally clear in my opinion but if any clarification is needed do let me know.
Another thing, I’m a little disappointed to be honest. I put the words “HIATUS” as such <- aka in capital letters in my blog title, you can’t miss it especially if you sent an ask. Moreover, I think it was abundantly clear I had mentioned I am uncomfortable with this topic. I didn’t mention those details for silly reasons. I actually rarely get uncomfortable and rarer still do I voice these concerns to others, but this is the one time I do so, it’s just a bit disappointing that you didn’t take the time to consider this before sending me this message. I should’ve closed my inbox to be honest, or at least anon asks.
Even worse, I clearly stated I did not wish to talk about this topic further, because of said discomfort. I’m not exactly proud of getting myself groomed so many times, I feel ashamed and used among other things, I just share this part for understanding. If it was a normal uncomfortable topic, in the sense I had no personal experience with it, I would’ve been like fine, let’s hear it. But the reason I mentioned I have personal experience is not because I wish to insert myself in the situation ( In fact I honestly don’t know why ppl are sending me anons I’m not exactly the most relevant person in this situation whatsoever I’m just so confused ), it’s to communicate to you why I don’t want to talk about it.
Screenshots of where I said I don’t want to talk about it :
So please, I kindly ask of you to leave me out of this discourse. Like I said I’m meant to be in a hiatus, that implies I have things to do or I’m having trouble with something etc. To be greeted with such a message in my inbox doesn’t make me ever want to come back to this site again. I don’t know why I can’t get normal anons, or normal asks, or why I can’t just get anything normal to happen on this site for me. All I wanted was for my online space to be a somewhat better place than irl but it seems I was silly for thinking so. Sorry for complaining. I’m just I don’t know.
I’m sure you mean well ! I hope this message doesn’t sound mean ! Just please, I ask of you to be a bit more understanding with me, is all. I have so much on my plate, not to mention the littlest things just feel like plain torture, and on top of that I barely have the motivation to do these things I have to get done. Things like this make everything else all the more draining. My apologies, again.
Hello anon ^-^ ! I would like to preface this by saying if you want to find out my opinion on the situation you can scroll a tiny bit down on my blog. I don’t want to keep talking about this issue, and this will probably be the last time I mention it ( for personal reasons! ). I think it’s a teensy bit unproductive to continuously ask people these questions now since the person you’re talking about has deactivated, but what IS productive is that we take this as a learning opportunity for everyone involved ( minors AND adults ) :
minors PUT YOUR AGE IN BIO !!! No one will hate you if you’re a minor I promise, this is for your own safety. Or at least indicate you’re a minor to some capacity. Don’t pretend to be older ( the bare minimum if you wish to remain ageless ), alternatively, don’t lie about your age ( for your own safety )
Slightly related to previous point but DO NOT !!! WRITE !!! SMUT !!! AS A MINOR !!! This is so dangerous. I am NOT shaming minors who like smut WHATSOEVER !!! , I mean they are teens etc etc ( I am aroace so I won’t elaborate more than this ) but for your own safety please don’t. I have seen a minor who would write smut getting the most uncouth heinous messages from pedophiles on anon. It was genuinely horrifying to watch unfold. The internet is filled with crazy people, do not trust people online to be sane and to have the best interests of minors at heart … this is a very silly assumption. If you’ve seen the tiktok discourse regarding wren and her mother you would know lots about this. By opening the discussion to others that yes I’m a minor and yes I write smut this can go downhill super fast - faster than you would think.
Do not flirt/call people your husband or wife if your don’t know their age - worse still sending sexual innuendos. Now this one hits closer to home and this is also very important. If you’re an adult and a person doesn’t have an age indicator it is YOUR RESPONSIBILITY to ask for their age. Do not blame minors as they are minors. You’re the adult in this situation, so you have adult responsibilities. Always ask for age, then do whatever you want ( as long as it’s legal LOL ). That being said it’s common courtesy to heed to people’s rules and warnings and it’s sort of in bad taste to not look into them before interacting.
Let’s not start a witch hunt or whatever this is supposed to be when the person of note has already deactivated - it’s pointless and will resolve nothing. I do not know if Ashe had intended to do this purposely or not ( I feel like they didn’t intend to do that and I hope ( for both his and the sake of everyone involved ) I’m correct but that notion doesn’t change the fact that it was quite inappropriate ). If you or anyone else truly cared for the minors involved, this is where you would proactively focus your efforts in. That being said sending rape threats to Ashe was the most insane way to handle a situation. Like genuinely the people who sent that esp considering he turned out to be 17 are the true pedophiles and I hope they get what they deserve. Thanks for the ask, and I hope you have an awesome day <3
