Gender identity, at its core, is not something that can be empirically proven. It is deeply personal and is how an individual sees themselves and the feel that what they believe brings them happiness. In that sense, gender identity is a belief about oneself, a personal reality that is shaped by experience and conviction.
As a believer in Christ and the Holy Scriptures, my faith shapes my understanding of truth and reality. This too cannot be proven empirically. The Gospel brings me joy, and I hold it as the foundation of what I believe to be true. Just as my beliefs are deeply meaningful to me, these too are beliefs about myself, a personal reality that is shaped by experience and conviction.
Secular law is built upon objective principles, things that can be broadly agreed upon to create a fair and functional society. Laws have changed over time to reflect evolving understandings of equality, such as women’s suffrage and civil rights. These changes were made to protect individuals from discrimination based on race, sex, and other characteristics, ensuring a more just society.
While I may not personally agree with every aspect of how the LGBTQ+ choose to live, I do believe in treating all people with kindness and respect. Coexistence is not about agreement, but about maintaining boundaries that allow for both personal beliefs and social harmony. Our legal system, particularly the First Amendment, ensures that we can hold different beliefs while respecting each other’s freedoms.
However, concerns arise when workplaces, legal systems, and media enforce gender identity as an objective truth that all must publicly affirm. When individuals face professional or legal consequences for declining to endorse a belief they do not hold, it raises serious questions about freedom of thought and speech. If my faith were imposed on others in a way that demanded their verbal or behavioral conformity, it would be seen as coercion. The same principle applies in reverse.
Consider this: If an atheist were required, under legal threat, to use specific pronouns based on someone’s self-perception (Two-Spirit for example) despite not sharing that belief, it would be a violation of their rights. The First Amendment exists to prevent such coercion.
History provides cautionary examples. In medieval Europe or parts of the Middle East, religious or ideological conformity was and is in some places still enforced under threat of severe punishment. When subjective beliefs are mandated by law, freedom is at risk.
Ultimately, everyone has the right to believe as they choose so long as those beliefs do not infringe on others rights. I can respect individuals for who they are without being compelled to affirm beliefs I do not share. This is not an issue of fear or intolerance, it is a matter of maintaining the freedoms that allow me to be happy and live free.













