A question for the ddlg and abdl folks.
I've recently started thinking that there's a daddy-mommy axis in identity, that's almost but not quite parallel to the male-female axis.
Is this a common thing? Is this something you could get behind?
Is it reasonable for a woman to be a Daddy? Is that something you'd be okay with? Because I can see myself in the "Daddy" box, but don't think I could fit in "Mommy". And I'd mostly say I'm an enby, could maybe vibe with "woman", but never with "man". (Maaaaybe I can manage "bloke", but that's a stretch; and probably influenced by someone I had a lot of respect for when I was younger)
Is this just my brain being weird?












