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21 | MN | she/her/hers just going w the flow

[parmessy]

[racial]

might fuck around and drink the daily recommended amount of water

[catchymemes]

Life of Crocodile

via https://imgur.com/gallery/mG5O6pR

[imaslave4u]

Hilary Duff on the set of “A Cinderella Story” (July, 2004)

[slopaganda]

when are we gonna stop using the word “abusive” as a synonym for “just being an asshole”

[slopaganda]

hate 2 break this 2 yall but the world isnt split up into nice people and abusers. being cruel or manipulative in the absence of an observable pattern of behavior and an established power dynamic isnt abuse. sometimes people are just shitty

[totalspiffage]

My therapist suggested replacing “is there anything I can do” with “what do you need” when comforting someone as the first kind of assumes you as part of the equation in helping someone which isn’t always helpful. It also kind of pressures the person suffering to kind of come up with something FOR you to do. Like I get so frustrated with that first question as a person who gets it a lot.

The second not only takes the pressure off but also might help the person really consider what their actual needs are like hey I haven’t eaten, maybe that’s a reason I feel crappy. It kinda takes the asker out of the immediate picture so the person struggling can focus on what they actually need, and then if you CAN help, you can offer it.

We’ll see if this works better!

[heckoffmate]

That’s more like it.

[strawberryspoons]

Interviewer: where do you see yourself in 5 years?

Me: I used escapist fantasies as a coping mechanism to get through years of trauma and therefore never learned how to plan for a real life future

[mossbug]

u ever go take a piss at a party and as soon as u close the door u feel like ur in a different dimension

[bitchycode]

‪What part of “i don’t wanna spend anymore money” don’t I understand

[oldergod-deactivated20191130]

edward: you better hold on tight spider monkey

bella: put me down im going home

[expressions-of-nature]

[thedailyharry]

11/02

[egberts]

looks like october is…. octover

[nickbianco-la]

The Decorating Book by Mary Gilliatt, 1981

[cutejewishgirl-deactivated20200]

shawn mendes and timothy chalamet and harry styles were all made from the same experiment they just kept changing the independent variable and honestly i’m guessing the one they meant to make was shawn

[getfawked120-deactivated2023053]

I am screaming

[the-devil-wears-zara]

[cyberscully]

as a procrastinating overachiever i feel like i don’t necessarily “half-ass” things, it’s more like a “3/4 ass”. like overall did i do pretty well? yeah. did i reach my maximum potential though? i think the fuck Not.