Sugar is Sweet

"Become so financially secure that you forget it's payday" Spoiled gf

[virgoassbitch]

My ultimate goal is to not end up like all the miserable people around me who settled in life and are perpetually bitter about it

[seductr3ss]

You can never let a man disrespect you, even if he’s supporting you financially. You have to speak up, call him out, and be prepared to walk away. You have to show him you demand respect and that is priceless.

[8thstellhell-deactivated2019012]

Big ups to the girls who know what they want, know how to get it, go after it and make no excuses for it.

Be a queen. Be a boss bitch. Be selfish. Be yourself.

[theluxeblonde-deactivated201601]

The hardest part of being an Sb is this

(In my opinion) All of your fairy tale moments.. The ones you swear would be with the perfect guy? Some will happen with an old man you’re using for money. Sex doesn’t matter, faking emotions is whatever, but when he creates a fantasy that you wanted with someone else, be it a candlelit beach dinner, a private jet flying to Maui, or even your first apartment - it’ll be him. And it will be bittersweet. So just be ready.

[citrine8-deactivated20160610]

I’m sorry but holy shit. This. This is it, put into words. Too real

[seasugarsea]

I wouldn’t say it’s the hardest, but it definitely leaves you shook.. just experienced this in Thailand

[hollywoodbelle442-deactivated20]

I’ve never related to anything so much on the sugar baby tag ever. Thank you for posting. This really gets me so down sometimes and is the reason I consider flaking on dates and giving up on the SB life. But you have to keep going. Stay in the trenches. Maybe it’ll get better, we tell ourselves. Maybe.

[gemsandluxe]

the reality of this lifestyle isnt as glam as you think

[fucklovepayme]

Even for my followers who are not sugar babies, don’t settle for a broke fuck boy who is getting more out of the relationship than you. If you can’t come over his place, ride in his car, go out with him, or spend anytime with him that don’t involve sex, then cut him loose. If he’s crashing with you, spends your money, just wants to “chill”, and is literally only good for is dick, then cut him loose. You can’t expect these men to treat you right if you don’t demand it.

[gemsandluxe]

for all my lovely followers who deserve the best❤️ this is crucial advice

[lisugarbaby]

I would love to learn to sugar but I don't think that my body type is one that SDs are looking for (I'm a little more fluffed) have you seen any success with girls like myself or have any friends similar?

Girl, yes! I’ve come across plenty of posts and blogs for (as you call it) “fluffed” SBs. In my opinion, it’s all about confidence! Men do have preference, but I believe confidence is a selling point above all else. Celebrate the body type you have and flaunt off your beauty! And just remember that men’s opinions should never bring you down. You are beautiful, always.

[seasugarsea]

Babies, don’t let yourselves be manipulated by men like this one. They’re operating on the hope that you hate the money talk more than they do. They’re hoping you’re too uncomfortable. I wonder how many times he’s used the line about true love on newer SBs, and I wonder how many times it’s worked. Hopefully the ratio is shit. Stick to your guns. Remind them that your time is valuable and that if they’re a man of real means, they should have no problem with what you propose. I’m newer, but I’m not so new that I’m naive or desperate. 

[chanelsugababy]

When an ugly old man asks why your pretty young self is interested in him, you can say something like this. It works for regular dating sites, where you can’t say outright that you’re a sugar baby. It’s also good for men who say they aren’t interested in a “gold digger”. Obviously don’t use this exactly, we don’t want to all be out there saying the exact same thing, but it’s very effective. Good luck out there sugar sisters!!

[unbotheredmuse]

[mielparaoshun]

This is the most romantic thing I’ve read

[mitten]

[lisugarbaby]

Vagina is sore from extra long sex with Lawyer 😫

[lisugarbaby]

Unrelated to sugaring but I am really getting sick of my vanilla job. 

[nycsb]

you and me both

[lisugarbaby]

Ugh, yes girl.

[lisugarbaby]

SA is literally shit these days, any idea what parameters to set on tinder to freestyle?

Well, when I was freestyling on Tinder, I set my age limit between 45 and 65. I also put up a few good pictures of myself, including a full length picture, not just selfies. I also wrote a short but concise bio stating I wasn't on Tinder for romance.

[lisugarbaby]

Do you ever get like this sick feeling in your stomach when you're negotiating with POTs? Granted my biggest struggle in sugaring is not letting any man make me feel small or less capable, but whenever I have to sort of manipulate these men, I get this ball of tension in my stomach that makes me feel like a 5-year-old trying to play with grown ups. Any tips on overcoming this?

Just remember YOU have the upper hand here. YOU are the beautiful, young, desirable woman he is looking for. Don’t let these old men lowball you for anything less than you deserve.

[lettersfromadreamgirl]

in the mood to be sitting in the window seat of an airplane looking down at city lights while a deep/serious song plays in my earbuds as I think seriously about the fresh beginning I’m about to have 

[softheartedsuggestion]

you’re not selfish for wanting to be treated well

[fiftythreecrimes]

Students walk out of Notre Dame’s commencement during VP Mike Pence’s address

[dicksplit]

[big-chief-woodenhead]