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Sugar Baby Guide w/ 200+ tips!

So I recently ran into a sugar “master post” on here but noticed a lot of the links were broken. Since there are so many aspiring sugar babies with a ton of questions I thought I’d make a new one! Here it is: a very long compilation of my favorite tips and tricks from sugar babies all over tumblr. Enjoy! Xoxo

Safety

Deleting yourself from the internet

Sending pictures via google voice texting 

Square cash warning 

Amazon gifts safety

COP or POT?

Tips to remaining safe as a sugar baby

Phone safety

What information should you give your SD?

Verify him

Safety links for sugar babies

All about screening

How SD’s can track where you live

The Miranda warning

Internet safety tips

Receiving packages

Staying safe as a sugar baby

Sugar baby safety 

Sugar baby safety tip

Sugar baby safety & catfishing

Free background check website

Is he the real deal?

Tricking him to keep your privacy

Keeping your privacy

Very important hoe safety tip

Free-styling

Free-stying guide

Eye-contact

Turning vanilla to sugar

How to approach men while free styling

Free-styling and where to meet sugar daddies

Where to freestyle

All about free-styling

Free-styling and how to trigger a mans generosity from the start

Free-styling tips

Top three places to freestyle

Free-styling & staff

What NOT to ask him

Meeting SD’s online

Craigslist title tip

Ashley Madison

Sugar dating and craigslist

List of sugar dating sites

Sugaring using tinder

Tindering tip

How to tinder

Craigslist masterpost

Craigslist sugar

Writing/writing back to messages

The perfect message

How to message men on sugar sites

Sugaring: Tinder and OkCupid

Perfecting your message

More messaging advice

Sugar sites to check out

Weeding through messages on sugar sites

Allowance, financials, and budgeting

How to get the allowance you want

How to ask your sugar daddy for an allowance

Allowance or pay per meet?

All about money

Cash/gifts on a POT date

What form should I take my allowance in?

How to make real money

Sugar baby banking tips

Spending your sugar money

Asking for money on a POT date

Getting him to buy you something

Financial advice

Drain his bank account

When he says he doesn’t feel comfortable with allowance…

Saving money

How much can he really pay you?

Budgeting tips for sugar babes

Tips on spending your sugar money

Allowance and AmEx cards

Let’s talk budgeting

5 questions to ask before agreeing to allowance offer

What to say to get the allowance you want

Sugar banking

Allowance and bank laws

Random cash tips

He pays for what he wants

Investing 101

Allowance negotiation tactics

The art of sugar dating

How to handle a first date with a POT

What NOT to talk about on a POT date

Organizing your POTs

How to: manipulate the conversation 

How to create a positive impression

6 ways to make your sugar date the best date he’s ever had

What the hell am I going to talk to him about?!

50 unusual date ideas

Checklist the night before your date

What you need to do before your POT date

Your first POT date

Dining etiquette

Dining etiquette pt. 2

How to fake confidence

Conversation tips

Confidence

Classy conversation topics

First date conversations with your SD

What to bring in your purse on a sugar date

Bullshit to spit on dates

Things to know about wine

First date advice

How to handle a first date

100 “non allowance” questions to ask a POT on a date

How cheat your way through small talk

Conversation topics

Developing your personality

The psychology of persuasion

Seduction, manipulation & negotiation

Remember: You are an actress/actor

The art of seduction

Strategies to try on your SD

Sugar negotiation

Bullshitting 101

Make him take you seriously

How to make him want to say yes

Body language 

Master guide: Body language linguistics 

Manipulation tips

How to manipulate people into liking you more

Sugar manipulation

How to keep wealthy men coming back to you to give you more

Emotion, seduction and manipulation

Marketing yourself

How to attract a man

Perks of sugaring - power

Being your SD’s fantasy

Manipulation success

The girlfriend experience

Keeping your SD

Treat your SD right… Or someone else will

Keeping him hooked

Don’t become familiar or ordinary

Become his fantasy

Don’t forget the details

Keeping your sugar daddy

 Bedroom tips

Treating your SD right

How to keep an SD interested

Showcase yourself to yourself to your SD

Blowjob tips (for uncircumcised penises as well)

Blowjob tips

Appearance

How to make yourself more attractive

Fashion tips and dress codes

How to dress “sugar”

Hoe products

Fuck-proof makeup list

How to be a kept woman

Looking elegant

Sex prep

Lingerie masterpost

20 beauty tips

Charming cash out of your sugar daddy

Vaginal hygiene 

Invest in yourself

Sugar tote essentials

Contouring cheat sheet

A hoes guide to body care

Sugar baby check list

Platonic Sugar

A tip for aspiring sugar babes

Being a platonic SB

Being a pure sugar baby

Sugar Travel

Traveling with your SD

Travel etiquette for sugar babies

Sugar baby travel tip

Traveling sugar

General tips/info on sugaring

The rules of sugaring

Sugar baby manifesto

Sugar baby academy

How to find a sugar daddy in 6 simple steps

This lifestyle isn’t for everyone

The secrets to being a successful sugar baby

Random sugar baby tip

Great sugar tip

“Thing’s I’ve learned from living with sugar babies”

25 tips to make you better sugar

Being a successful sugar baby

10 golden rules of sugar dating

General sugar baby tips

Sugar baby general guide

Apps every sugar baby needs

Sugar baby mentality

Sugar baby survival tips

Sugar baby wisdom

Sugar baby resources

What being a SB is all about

6 common sugar baby mistakes

Remain calm, cool and collected

Things you need to remember when you start sugaring:

What SB’s often forget

You are not asking for too much!

Beginning advice for newbies

Tips for new sugar babies

Always have a plan B

Tip to new sugars

So you want to be a sugar baby…

What would you tell your newbie SB self if you could go back?

5 newbie mistakes and how to avoid them

Patience

Remember this when you become a sugar baby

4 things every aspiring SB should know

“How do I become a sugar baby?”

How to stand out as a sugar baby

“Learn from my sugar mistakes”

“When is right to start sugaring?”

Tips from a successful sugar baby

6 tips for aspiring SBs

All about him

How to know if he’s the right sponsor

Sugar daddy check list 

Don’t believe what he says

How to get him to raise your allowance

POTs

Filtering the POTs

How to spot a fake POT

Things POT’s say when they’re trying not to pay

Distinguishing sugar from salt

10 questions to ask a POT before a relationship

Figuring out if they’re salt without going on a date

“What should I say?” And personality

Don’t be mundane and predictable

When he asks “What are you willing to do sexually?”

When he complains about paying you

When he asks if you’ve had an arrangement before 

Communicating your standards

How to say “no” to your SD

How to insist on a condom

What to say when he asks “What are you looking for?”

When he says “I’ll pay you later”

Your sugar profile

Writing tips

Make your profile work for you

Face shot or no face shot? 

Random tips/things/misc.

P.O. boxes and why you should have one

“Advice I received from a whale SD”

Long distance sugar

How to be a boss ass bitch

Why love is poison for a heartless gold-digger and a guide to the antidote

How to organize your hustle 

Sugaring from scratch

“Sex is sex, but money is money”

Mandatory sugar tool

No luck finding a sugar daddy?

The official sex worker reading list

Getting your sugar daddy back

Sugar baby texting

Suggested sugar reading list

[yesatlbrownsugar]

[queenaliciajiroux]

[matilda-martell]

I honestly don’t understand how I can fuck someone because they have a big dick, because they bought me a drink at a bar, because they have nice tits, because I’m bored, because I’m stressed, or because I shaved my pussy and I dont want it to go to waste…and everyone’s on board

But as soon as I fuck someone to pay my bills and better my life I’m now betraying women everywhere, responsible for trafficking and deserve any hurt that comes my way… what a load of fucked up standards

[sbmisstaylor-deactivated2020031]

When you hint at your Daddy for that new iPhone X

[islandsugar]

Christian Louboutin Masterpost

“People say I am the king of painful shoes. I don’t want to create painful shoes, but it is not my job to create something comfortable. I try to make high heels as comfortable as they can be, but my priority is design, beauty and sexiness. I’m not against them, but comfort is not my focus.”

The only man who has every really been honest about the extent of his downfall. This post is an update of an old post. Now, for some reason I picture Louboutins being every SB’s first go to pair of designer shoes. Why? Because they are sexy, gorgeous and the bottoms make any man want to bow down. That being said, they are the MOST painful pair of heels I have ever owned. So every little step to stretch/protect them has been worth it. 

How to Make Heels More Comfortable As he said, louboutin’s will never be comfortable heels - they are not supposed to be. But, here are some tips and tricks you can use to make them a little less uncomfortable. Before we start, I have the So Kate that I wear to functions/dinners/events aka events where I can sit for long periods of time without looking out of place. 1. If your pair has a narrow front, you will need to stretch the leather. If you want to be a badass, then you can stuff your feet in and walk around for hours and eventually make them form - you will hate yourself. OR, you can use the extra help. Double up on some socks, stuff your feet in and shift all of your weight to the front of your feet. Using your blow dryer, apply high heat directly to the shoe. Make sure to relocate weight to the front of the shoe, the back will stretch as well! IF it stretches too much (that’s okay), then use fashion tape on the back to prevent sliding of your foot. I think it is better to stretch too much then not as all and with the tape, you’ll never notice the difference. 

2. Beauty is pain ladies and these epitomize both. Bandage your third and fourth toes with some medical tape, removes pressure from the nerves. You’ll hold out longer.

3. INSOLES for these brand of heels are a MUST. I didn’t realize how much of a difference they made until I did not wear them. HUGE HUGE HUGE difference.

4. When you are walking, be aware of your posture. If you’re an SB then your posture should always been good, in or out of heels. That being said, in these heels relocating your weight to your heel with an erect back makes it less painful. If you’re not used to this then this would feel awkward but you’ll get used to it - I promise. 

How to Protect Your Red Bottoms 

Yes, I like saving money. However, I chose not to go to the cobbler because they wanted to charge me 70 for the base. And, they would not have been able to protect my babies in time. You can do this for under $12, without any damage to the red after. 

Buy the ZAGG InvisibleShield Military Grade Screen Protector (I recommend this brand only because it’s the only one I know that will NOT damage the red.)  

You will want to buy the OG iPad case just in case you mess up, you can do it more than once. OK, so what you will do is clean the bottom of your shoes with a damp cloth and then outline them on the non-sticky part of the protector. DO NOT ACCIDENTALLY BUY THE GLASS PROTECTOR. Now, it is arts and craft time and you will cut out the base the outline of your shoes. Peel the plastic away, spray spray spray your shoes with the provided solution and slowly apply the sticky face, while being aware of air bubbles. You will want to use your windshield wiper thing to remove as many of the air bubbles as possible.

These are my protected So Kate that I have worn so many times and they still look perfect. It may have costed me more time but saved me a little bit of cash money. DISCLAIMER: If you are walking on floors in a kitchen/restaurant that could be greasy then you will want to be EXTRA careful. When you scruff the bottom, you get the real grip of these shoes. But when the bottom has the protector on then there is a little less traction. 

[sbmisstaylor-deactivated2020031]

Ha, this post came just in time!

[seasugarsea]

She’s back.

[sugardolll]

Calling all sugar babies!

Having been an sb for some time now, I (and many other woman among us) have realized that most websites that mean to connect sugar babies and sugar daddies, such as Seeking Arrangement, What’s Your Price, SDforme, and etc, are filled with some of the most saltiest, nastiest, men on earth. Not to mention, how many splenda’s there are on these websites too. I’ve gone on too many dates with men that are either so rude, so crude, or so bland and I’m sure many of you have too.

Recently though, a friend introduced to .007percent. The .007percent is a new website seeking to connect the ultra rich with the beautiful, which yeah, sounds like every other sb/sd website but it’s actually different. The website only accepts, literally, only the top .007 percent so the men on it aren’t up to playing games like majority of men on SA do. Not only can you meet the sugar daddy of your dreams, but unlike SA you can make sugar baby friends! As a member, you have access to see and contact both genders. You can make wishlists with exclusive items (Sergio Rossi Crystal Sandals, Jimmy Choo Boots, Fendi Bags, massage appointments, bronzing tanning spray, and etc) that, if bought, will be actually delivered to your door/emailed an Ecard (ps, one of the men who contacted me bought me the tan! i went on a date with him a few days ago and posted the details!). I was honestly surprised when I found the website, after a year and a half on SA, sugaring started turning more bleak than glamorous, but  .007percent turned that around!

In response to the questions I’ve recieved, .007percent is 100% secure. You can google the website itself, but all profiles within it are not visible to the public. If your name is searched on google, this site will not come up associated with it.

So, there’s my two cents on my new find, feel free to try out .007percent for yourself and don’t be afraid to contact me with ANY questions! Signing up is pretty easy too! I used the ‘model’ registration section, which is free! I really hope this helps out any struggling sb’s because god knows, I’ve been in that position!

[california-sugar-queen-deactiva]

SB TIp

Make a setlist of your rates!

Date: 200+ $, open space, all expenses paid (meal, shopping, transportation, ect.)

Video Date: 20$x5m, 30$x10m, 40$x15m, 50$x20m, 60$x25m.

Pay-Per-Meet: 600 $, any space, any activity, all expenses paid, no allowance need be provided – just an exact number determined for each planned periodic date no less than 600.

Fly Out Visit: 1000 $, must be met before, no more than 5 day visit, all expenses paid (first class plane ride, pre-paid meals, hotel, any and all services.)

Pay-Per-Event: 700 $, any event, all expenses paid, come as guest/date/arm-candy. 

Weekly Allowance: 1000 $, dependent on scheduling, twice a week meets, all expenses paid.

Monthly Allowance: 4000$+, arrangement discussed before becoming a reality. 

This is literally just an outline I follow, not a recommended but these are the arrangements I have encountered and been able to get. Sit down in your SB books and decide to make exact numbers about what it will take to make you get dressed up and out the door for this man. I think this helps not lower your worth when you have a ballpark! 

[islanddollii-blog]

This is perfect

[vvspvss]

Reblogging again for the new heauxs

[gjdofkvkvkkc]

Gentlemen Prefer Blondes (1953) 

[brownsugaaabae]

Betch what?

When they slut shame you and say you’re a hoe for sleeping with men for money.

Meanwhile they’re splitting the dinner bill with their whack ass boyfriend.

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[sbmisstaylor-deactivated2020031]

Just a reminder

[seasugarsea]

This has never been more relevant.

[seasugarsea]

Still around

Just taking a bit of a break. Hope everyone is well.

New babies and old, stay safe but be very careful with who you trust with your sugar lifestyle. Best friends in particular. Unless they're sugaring right along with you, tell them nothing. Jealousy and insecurities pop up faster than you can say "secret".

[seasugarsea]

can u post more about how you keep up with your body when sugaring?

This is very dependent on what your look is. I'm about 120lbs and 5'6" but athletic rather than slim. I play soccer and do yoga. I eat everything but I'm active enough. I'll do a couple weeks where I just eat clean, like salads and water only before a meet or before hanging with a SD. But I'm no nutritionist and I have my own shitty relationship with food so this is just what I do. Be happiest with the way you look rather than the number on the scale. Easier said than done I know xx

[seasugarsea]

I got scammed by a sugar mama and I feel stupid? I need words of encouragement to keep going...

I'm so sorry, babe.. Feel free to PM me details. All I can say is you need to trust your gut above all else. Do what's best for you and try to suss out these people as best you can before a meet. Know your worth at the end of the day, block that number and move forward.

[seasugarsea]

how do you get into the sb life, boo?

Tinder, SeekingArrangement... follow the tumblrs and do your research before even thinking of starting. Know yourself well.