All of my kinks are rooted in wanting to feel wanted so intensely that someone cant stand it. Regardless of which side of the dynamic I'm on it's all about aggressive desire
This! ๐
@littlemssapphire
All of my kinks are rooted in wanting to feel wanted so intensely that someone cant stand it. Regardless of which side of the dynamic I'm on it's all about aggressive desire
This! ๐
My Dom Shows Me Respect By...
Hearing me out even when he disagrees with me.
Backing off when I say something is really too much.
Keeping his ego in check when making decisions for us.ย
Respecting my limits.
Loving me for being me.ย ย
Handling tough discussions with care and a calm tone of voice.ย
Being my safe place.ย
Staying on top of his responsibilities within our relationship.
Seeing value in my personality, including the soft, cautious and sensitive parts.
Double-checking his views or decisions if I voice concerns.
Following the D/s hierarchy.ย
Recognizing and accepting our differences.ย
Working hard to earn my trust.ย
Holding me accountable.ย
Understanding that somedays submission is hard.ย
Using D/s to help me grow in ways I find meaningful.ย ย
Believing in me.
Showing up to support, guide, or discipline me as needed, even when itโs hard.ย ย
Trusting that I am trying even when I fall short.ย
Giving me boundaries.ย
Protecting my sensitive heart.ย
Being patient with me.ย
Setting goals for me that are achievable.ย
Building me up.ย
Considering his impact on me.ย
Trusting me.ย
Being dedicated to me.ย
Encouraging me to sayย โnoโ when I need to.ย
Doing his best to make the best decisions.ย
Staying loyal to me.
Speaking kindly of me.ย ย
Advocating for what is best for me.ย
Caring about my pleasure.ย
Being clear about what he expects from me.ย
Analyzing his perspectives, beliefs, andย actions regularly.ย
Being open and honest with me.
Forgiving me when I make mistakes.
Viewing us as a team.
Keeping his promises and commitments.ย
Remembering the value of my submission.ย
i just want possessive sex but like lovingly you know? fuck me into the mattress while you grip my hips so hard you leave bruises like fingerprints but call me your precious angel in that soft voice while you do. pull on the collar with your name engraved on it so hard that it leaves indents on my throat like a claim but hold my hand and rub your thumb across my knuckles at the same time. leave hickies and bruises and bite marks all over me but kiss them each gently as you hold me to your chest. show me i'm yours and show me i'm loved and i'll do the same for you
i love.... attentive doms,, yano the ones that try to figure out exactly what you want and give it to you?
you're feeling soft and subby and wanna give them head and space out for a little while? okay, they'll guide you and pet your hair while you do ๐
you're sleepy but you still wanna get intimate with them? okay, they'll sit you on their cock and give you kisses while you watch movies together โ๏ธ
you want them to fucking rail you? okay, they'll tell you how good you are for them while they fuck you to tears ๐
Oh god yes please ๐ฅบ๐ฅบ๐ฅบ
skirts and dresses are cute but theyโre even cuter with someoneโs head tucked under them
One of my biggest wishes ๐คค๐คค
if someone could come over and put their tongue on my clit for just a few minutes (or hours), that would be greatly appreciated
Aww, what's the matter, baby? Are you feeling a little needy? A little desperate, horny enough not to focus on anything else and embarassed enough not to do anything about it?
Do you want me to pin you down? Tease you until I decide you're begging enough to earn relief? Kiss away all those needy little whimpers?
Oh, you're blushing! You're so cute when you're all flustered like that. If you want it, you're going to have to ask...
like this? ๐ฅบ
Signs of a fantastic Dom
We always talk aboutย โsigns of a terrible Domโ so letโs talk about some signs of an actually good Dom
They ask you about your day: They show compassion and actually want to listen about how your day went
They ALWAYS want to keep fields of communication open: Whether youโre in the middle of a kinky-as-fuck scene or you two are in a heated argument, the means of communication is ALWAYS open. Once you give your safe word, IT IS DONE
Aftercare is a top priority. No matter what this is for you in particular, they put a lot of emphasis on aftercare (cuddling, movie watching, bath time, etc.)
They arenโt afraid to scold you when you actually mess up. Sometimes we fuck up, both with our dynamics or we screwed up something at work or school. Doms will scold you, put also help cheer you up and might even offer ways to make it positive
Sex might be apart of the dynamic, but itโs not the focus. I get the fact some people get involved with other BDSM partners for the sole reason of sex, but outside of those VERY SPECIFIC DYNAMICS, sex is NOT the sole focus. It might be a funย โadd onโ, but itโs NOT the primary objective (penetrative sex or other forms of sex acts).
They are concerned for your safety, but donโt overdo it. They want you safe, but donโt take it to the paranoid level where they need to track every little thing you do.
They respect your privacy. EVERYONE has secrets (โskeletons in your closestโ), even among romantic partners who have been partners for a long time, people have stuff they just donโt feel comfortable confessing every little thing in their life. A respectful Dom understands this and doesnโt need to go spying on you or attempt to invade your privacy (track internet history, track phone usage, track where youโve been, etc.)
They trust you. A Dom who doesnโt trust you will purposely try to fuck up the relationship/dynamic, they will show severe jealousy, and other negative aspects. A Dom that trusts you will respect YOU as a person as well as you to keep your word on different things.
When disagreements happen, they use constructive language. There is not a healthy relationship on this earth that is 100% argument/disagreement free. However, whenever these do happen, it is NOT aย โme against youโ style argument (โI WON THE ARGUMENTโ, none of that). It is done in a way with minimal accusatory/hurtful statements
They respect your hard limits.ย Doms know hard limits donโt meanย โconvince meโ. They know to stay the fuck away from hard limits with a ten foot freaking pole.
We always talk about what to avoid, I thought we could switch it up and share what we should be looking for
I started recording this after she had cum several times and this is me finally cumming inside her and her begging for it.
Holy shit ๐คค๐คค๐คค
Wow ๐๐๐
im full of softness n love but i am also full of trauma
You can bet that I'll steal your hoodie.
Reblog if your tumblr is your nasty little secret ๐
ok but can you please take cute polaroids of me sucking your dick??
i really canโt stop thinking about stretching out someoneโs ass and slapping their pretty cunt every time they whine
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