Hello oh my goodness I'm so sorry about my mixed racial ask. I didn't think it came off weird nor had the intent of wanting you to "comfort" and "reasure" me??? I was just trying to genuinely say sorry because I thought maybe I worded the ask poorly, and it seems I have. Also to that anon talking about my ask: I'm racially mixed too?? I now understand how they naturally assumed I was white though. so its ok😭The reason i said that was because the type of area I'm growing up in people rarely say anything positive about me being mixed. And whenever people did say that it's great that I'm mixed and wanted a child like that, I thought it was normal. It never occurred to me that it could be that they were fetishising what I am. And I've never heard someone say it is until you did, which I was trying to thank you for in the ask😭. I was just genuinely trying to tell you that, although you were talking about your own experience, it made me realise something and helped my perspective. If that is selfish, I am so sincerely sorry and VERY sorry that I mightve hurt you or made you uncomfortable😭 and I understand you may not have wanted your experience to have even helped someone out - i didnt realise that at the time. it's awkward to say this now but, I do genuinely hope you don't let people's words get to you. Oh also don't uhm worry about "comforting" me on this💀 I don't need to be "reasured". I was just explaining this because i didn't want you to ?? I don't even know how to explain it atp. Just hope the damage I may've done doesn't affect you too deeply, once again very sorry, Momo.
