[liveinparallel]

due to Recent Circumstances, college, along with selfshipping not being as much of a huge interest of mine as it was when i was hyperfixated on snorpy, the activity on this blog will likely be empty moving forward. as much as i loved my time here and as much as i'd love to keep this blog as a simple dump where i post my selfship related stuff, that'll probably occur Very rarely anyway, and i feel safer just posting my stuff in groupchats with trusted friends in it. thank you so much for being here!! main is @chorbie if you wanna keep in touch 🦋🦋🦋 love and joys keep kissing your fictional loves, yeah? peaceeee

[liveinparallel]

the day 3/20/26 scares me soobad you have no idea

[liveinparallel]

f/o tier list for anyone interested (im bored) (includes romantic and qp f/os)(only 13!)

[liveinparallel]

temperature wise i am an easily cold person so its very comforting to think of my f/os being warm. i just hope that me being cold doesnt bother them. mels a kind tv rabbit i think she's very warm

[dogpuppy]

[jame7t]

im like a lava lamp you can fuck

[cryptotheism]

Im not falling for that a third time

[liveinparallel]

i am so sleepytired this valentines day. i require snuggles

[liveinparallel]

acts of service has got to be my favorite love language i love thinking of stuff being done for me, even the smaller things. been thinking of lotsa morning scenarios recently ... the tumblr top 100 ships included lacenet and like. i dunno how outward theyd be with their affection but they'd help me feel very cozy in my nest i think, especially in the early since id definitely wake up last. i need 2 buges

[azurfishe]

Sea Adventure

[sp00ky-sh4rk0]

Hashtag fweakin awesome,,,,,

[all4theluvoflizzy]

What do you do if your F/O dies in canon?

Rewrite canon so that my S/I saves them

Rewrite canon so that they faked their death

Rewrite canon so that the events that led to their death don't even occur

Drop them as an F/O

I don't have any canonically deceased F/Os

Other/nuanced/depends on the character

Voting ended onFeb 13

[dracwife-deactivated20241217]

becoming an integral part of your f/os casual life/story is really one of the best things about selfship honestly. like, just imagining them nonchalantly bringing you up in conversation, and their friends & family knowing who you are and how important you are to them. thinking of all the nicknames you give each other and all the ways youve changed their life, all the memories they must have associated with you. them talking to someone and vaguely referencing their significant other even if youre not there and knowing theyre thinking of you. thinking of all the ways their routine would change for you. the smiles they reserve for when its just you and them. the inside jokes you share. someone mentions your favorite food or song or movie or anything and them going "oh, thats my s/o's favorite" and just knowing youd be on their mind always no matter the time of day or situation and them being able to express their love for you in even the smallest of ways!!!!!!

pr*ship/c*mship dni

[dreamersofcolor]

HAPPY BLACK HISTORY MONTH, SELF SHIPPERS!!!!!!!!!!!!

support your black mutuals! your blasian mutuals! your mixed black mutuals! your afro-latina mutuals! your afro-caribbean mutuals! your LGBT black mutuals! your non-sharing black mutuals! your ficto or objectum black mutuals!

EVERYONE LETS GET MORE SUPPORTIVE AND ANTI-RACIST NOW!!!!!!!!!!

[liveinparallel]

very simple reasons for my inactivity

ALTERNATIVELY:

[mrs-goemio]

What’s the hardest part about being a selfshipper?

Seeing doubles

Feeling like your F/O doesn’t actually love you back

Overthinking canon, timelines, and “what ifs”

Feeling embarrassed or judged for self-shipping

Hyperfixation burnout

Feeling like your happiness depends on them

Worrying you’ll “grow out of” your f/o

Multiple/Other

Voting ended onFeb 3

[liveinparallel]

tadc 8 drops on world frog day by the way and thats really scary and makesme nervous

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spacefrog