plz read my pinned! | pfp art by @yuri-on-arts and header art by @saracrossing02 | my main + self-shipping blog | call me void or (a) disappointment | they/them only plz | adult | dogman + petey's lover | moodboard + stimboard commissions are open!
void/disappointment | they/them | adult | aroaceflux bi genderqueer gendervoid enbyflux failure | timid af self-shipper who cusses a bit too much | dogman + petey's actual lover
romantic dogman + petey doubles please dni! i'm genuinely sorry ;; honestly, you're probably supa awesome and kind, but this is for my own personal comfort and mental health. sorry again...
my whole f/o list can be found here, but tldr my other main f/os are meta knight (kirby - selective sharing), jessie (huniepop + huniepop 2: double date - selective sharing), ame/kangel (needy streamer overload - nonsharing), and gramble (bugsnax - nonsharing)
moodboard commissions are open!
more about this blog down below lol
dni: dogman + petey romantic selfship doubles, com/dark/proshippers and variants + neutral, terfs/exclusionists/zionists, other basic dni stuff. tbh i sort of just block freely. im just trying to get through life one day at a time, ok? here's your free "block me" ticket 🎟️ go create some art or smth /srs
as you may or may not notice, i tend to use "text lingo" and have a few other typing quirks. i also sometimes use tone tags if i feel like they're needed. unless it's stated somewhere on your blog, please lmk if you don't want me to use tone tags when talking to you. i understand that some people have their reasons for not liking/using them
im too stupid, lazy and forgetful to do individual f/o tags (sorry!), but here's some frequent tags you'll see me use here:
#boost: for any commission or adopts post, but may also be used for donation or mutual/financial aid posts (unless they specify not wanting their post to be tagged)
#important commission info, #important commission info: for any posts about commissions
#important adoptables, #important adoptable, #important adoptable info: for any posts about adopts
#void rambles: for rambles about stuff that isn't self-ship related
#voids stupid lovesick gushing, #voids dumb lovesick gushing: for gushing/rambling about my f/os, and/or other self-shipping related stuff
#void vent: for when i vent about whatever's troubling me. i also use #vent, #vent tw and #tw vent for these posts. i will also do my best to add any specific tws if necessary. feel free to blacklist this tag if you don't wanna see my vents (trust me, i won't be offended), and please lmk if i need to add a particular tw (like i said, i try my best to add whatever tws i see fit, but better safe than sorry)
#void answers: for when i answer any asks or reblog chains/games im tagged in
#void games: for when i reblog an ask game of some kind. also used for when i make my own reblog games and reblog back people's entries
#supa cool self ship!: for any mutual's/person's self ship
#void commission: for any commissions i receive from artists i commissioned teehee
#commission for supa cool person: for any moodboard comms i make for others
#shouting into the void: a sort of "filler" tag ig? basically, if i find smth important, supa cool, or for whatever other reason i may have, ill add this tag to make it a bit easier for me to find lol. i also usually add this to other posts that may contain other tags of mine
#😺🐶😼 world's ohkay-ish polycule: OKOKOK so. that whole thing above abt me being lazy + stupid + forgetful and thus not doing f/o tags is still true. but due to currently fixating on this and almost seeing/treating it like a real/non-fictional relationship, i decided to make a tag for my bfs! i can assure u tho that it... did NOT take much effort to come up with this so hold your applause lol
uhhhhh i think that's it. congrats if you read this whole thing, you've earned my respect lol. if im missing anything then ill just add to this or whatever
They should invent an F/O plushie that you can actually cuddle with and isn't in this overused style that has 50% of its features made from cheap felt and the other 50% just printed on and also isn't overpriced as balls
Reminder you can draw ur f/os or whatever in any outfit you want, yes even if you wanna draw ur man f/os in dresses and stuff. Do NOT let anyone stop you, life is so free when you dont have some bastard yelling in ur ear abt how the character wouldn't wear (insert outfit here) DO NOT LISTEN!! ESPECIALLY IF THE YELLING IS ABT GENDER!! BC CLOTHES ARE NOT GENDERED!! SO WHO GAF
Sending love to everyone who is just… tired. Life is a lot right now. Whether it’s decision fatigue, anxiety fatigue, information fatigue, career fatigue, social fatigue, financial fatigue, or the exhaustion of getting your life back together, give yourself space and grace. Be still for a bit. You deserve to recharge.
I think one of the best things I learned from my last therapist was the idea that when there's a box in your mind you need to open, you don't have to open it all the way on the first try.
what I mean is that she said "you didn't deserve <bad thing that happened to you>" and I said, "I feel like I know that intellectually, but I don't really believe it deep down". and she said, "do you think you can try to believe it just a little bit, as an experiment?" and I started crying lmao
trying to change a core belief entirely all at once is scary, especially when it exists as a protective measure. try giving yourself a cheeky bit of plausible deniability! you're just dipping your toes in the water of self-esteem, you're just having a little wade! you don't have to go swimming right away, and you can always step out if you want. (but the longer you spend in the water, the more you start to understand you're actually safe there...hm, who could have predicted this...)
so that's my advice: if there's something real and true you can't seem to believe, take some time to try and really believe it just a little bit, even if you're only pretending at first. climb the staircase one step at a time instead of trying to put one foot all the way at the top!
once you think about a Character too much you reach a certain state that i like to call "looney toons understanding" where you just start making posts like this
Like there is a difference between "My trauma creates impulsive urges and has changed my instinctive reactions to be irrational, I need to relearn shit." vs "I'm traumatized so I Can't Help It and you're not allowed to expect better of me"
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