Spending a successful sunday with liv
Sunday Scaries are no joke, but the way you approach it can change the way the week ahead goes...
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@livvyliveslife
Spending a successful sunday with liv
Sunday Scaries are no joke, but the way you approach it can change the way the week ahead goes...
Hey Divas,
Livvy here, the past 6-however many (ive been 🌿 & losing track of time) months have been chaotic, to say the least and I'm thinking of a rebrand, well, planning more like.
I hate to say that one of the best things I've learned over the past months and weeks is that during these trying times (haha I'm not one to get political, I'm British, I'm not getting into it, but those on the right side of history know how scary the world is right now) but what i've learned is that to keep sane we need to create without the pressure of it being perfect (trust me, i know the pressure of perfection has stopped great creators from even beginning to try to get to a start)
im thinking of using this space to:
highlight book recommendations (i have a lot of crime fiction books i want to read and need to have someone or some place to keep me accountable) and feel free to include more in the comments.
share links to Ted Talks / Podcasts / YouTube Vids that are either educational (ok ill be so fr i was gonna list loads of uh genres but itll be a weekly / biweekly updated list of cool sh*t i find) because hot girls stay smart, don't be fooled, knowledge is power)
incorporating spirituality into a daily log (if anyone knows any good apps then let me know.
have a short diary log either daily or weekly because i think i need to at least vocalise somewhere how i feel / what i do / random thoughts.
i also want to highlight the other amazing creators on this app who i wouldn't be able to work up the courage to create a blog that helps others the way they have helped me.
I'm gonna do a full rebrand/facelift, starting with a face reveal, because part of the chaos of the past few months has been being single before my 22nd birthday (June 21st, Gemini stellium, and it shows) but with that came an inevitable post-breakup glow-up (i broke up with him trust im okay)
Oh, also, with the diary log, I want to post pictures of the week on Instagram. If you want to follow my specific Instagram account for this (@livvy.liveslife) If u want to be mutuals, dm me and I'll give you my personal account. xx
stay tuned x
What have i been doing to feel better?
Something I don't think I'll ever be quiet about is the way that every day feels different for me, i don't think i can ever predict how i'll feel the next day but these are some of the little habits that have made me feel a little bit better recently.
1 - Taking Time - This is something that is very important to me, something that has allowed me to find what areas of my life i have been neglecting. So recognising that I need time to fully rest, recover and ultimately, glow up.
2 - Making Time - Finding the time can be difficult, so blocking out time for myself has been so helpful, recognising what i need and when i need it and actually making time. This is usually on my work days when i get home, i spend a little extra time unwinding when i have a day off the next day, so that i can sleep as long as i want, which usually isn't longer than 7-8 am anyway. On Sundays, just before work, is THE perfect time for a sunday reset, orrrr a sunday snooze.
3 - Self Care - Being a girl comes with its cost, for me at least, if i don't feel like i look my best, then i know i won't walk with my head up high, talk with confidence and ultimately, i will end up comparing and bringing myself down.
My self care routine may be different to yours but it has 5 core elements - Aesthetics, health, movement, nutrition and environment. If you look good, you'll feel good, if you feel good, you'll move good, if you move good then you'll eat good and once you're in bed with a clean and happy environment, then you'll know you did good.
With that said, work with what you've got. My brain won't always allow me to get on with taking time or even making time for all of my self care but its all about trying, its not about doing it 10 days in a row if that's not what consistency means to you, if it means 10 times in a month or in 2 weeks then thats more than enough to reward with a lil treat xxxx
Affirmation of the week
I AM GRATEFUL FOR THE EVERYTHING I HAVE ACHIEVED AND EVERYTHING I WILL EVER ACHIEVE.
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what would you guys want to see?
i have so many ideas for this blog but i’m wondering what content would you want to see me do x
lmk if you want to see something new xxx
reintroducing myself
Hey, it’s been 3 months since i’ve started tumblr, and i’ve remained pretty consistent if i do say so myself, i have a lot of new faces on this blog and i was just wanting to reintroduce myself to everyone so you guys have a bit of a better understanding of where im coming from
My names Liv, obviously haha. i’m 20 years old and i am neurodivergent, specifically, while not officially diagnosed, i’m very very likely to be audhd, getting a diagnosis in the UK has been proven to be a little inaccessible. not that it’s impossible but it’s long through the NHS and expensive to do privately. i hope that once i have enough money to cover my diagnosis i will.
i made this blog because i for the longest time have felt alone in the ways that ive been experiencing this life, nothing ever made sense and the idea of being called sensitive pains me more than anything, its all i’ve ever known. i’ve spent a lot of my life gaslighting myself into believing im functioning like everyone else is. But in the end i know im not, because if i was then i wouldn’t feel such shame and guilt for being who i am, of course they’re not my thoughts and im not my thoughts but navigating the thoughts can be so exhausting.
im currently studying forensic psychology through an online university that makes it easier for me to manage my time, even though that’s a tiny bit of a lie because i also work 40 hours a week, as well as live on my own in a shared accommodation with people i can’t really talk to (language barrier + age differences) so time management is something i really struggle with and it makes me feel a little overwhelmed but im just taking every day as it comes. i have a lot of anxiety about the future only because ive got such big goals for myself and for the career i want.
i never really had anyone to guide me through the big feelings i’ve felt, over the years. but i felt as though making a blog to share how i try to navigate through the struggles i have, i could maybe inspire others maybe idk haha. i’m a high functioning audhder who is unmedicated and not even diagnosed so if there’s anyone else like me out there feel free to reach out to me, we’re trying and that’s all that matters, we have time and we are strong enough to face anything x
where are you from? <3
hey! originally i’m from Latvia but i moved to England when i was younger but im half Russian and half Latvian xx
Polll timeeee
silly one but i’m in 2 minds about going to the gym today, it’s raining and i wanted a bed rot day
gym or not to gym
hell yes girl go get it
you deserve a bed rot
who knows i might just go anyway
listening to subliminal music while i sleep to wake up feeling my best self >>
Affirmation of the week
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What belongs to me is already mine and what no longer serves me, i release.
Sundays and Self care
Hey girlies,
Despite being on my period, i have managed to get my self care routine back on track.
i had a quick midday nap, a 30 min clean of my room and managed to change my sheets despite desperately just wanting to get back into bed.
Made myself my sleepy time tea and went for a well deserved self care bath and have managed to do a little bit of journalling for becoming my best self, the perfectionist that i am meant that i started over from the very beginning of the areas of my life that im going to be focusing on but trust that i will add the rest of the pages that i had already written. i just like things to be in as much chronological order as possible x
minor change to the lil notebook but instead of seeing myself as a project or someone that needs a “plan” necessarily, i am just going to be actively working on myself becoming “my best self”
Gratitude and Comparison self talk x
Something that i struggle with is being grateful for everything i have in my life and comparing myself to others (esp neurotypicals)this has meant that i’ve detached from myself and feel like i can’t begin to describe myself with good qualities, even when i can see and understand that i am doing good (having moved out at 19, doing uni and working, it’s a lot, and when mama tells other people they’re so proud of me)i feel as though my whole childhood i was left wondering and craving hearing everything that im good at. The grown version of this feels like im looking to outside validation for my sense of self and identity, as well as not being able to maintain friendships, it hurts to say but genuinely i dont have many if any friendships and it hurts but i know my time will come. Being neurodivergent has given me a completely different perspective of the world and it has its ups and downs but ultimately it has given me such a unique perspective that i would love to pursue in my career. All this to say is that my main priority is how i talk to myself and think about myself as well as being grateful for everything i do have. understanding that there will be dark days but the next day the sun will rise and so will i. so will we. you’re not alone, i’ve felt so alone all my life that i’ve never realised that not only am i doing much better than i thought i would be but also that people can relate to my yap and that there are people out there that will listen and be there for you.
today’s big wins
managed to go to the gym, do uni work and now i’m going home to sort my room out !!
My full glow up plan
Yesterday i bought myself a small but very thick notebook and if you know adhd you know notebooks are such a kryptonite. i have a love / hate relationship with them, meaning i have so many (4/5) and have so many ideas to fill them with but as soon as the dopamine leaves my body i buy a new one to fill it up again.
will you guys help me be consistent enough to share this plan with you all weekly or as often as i can? x
after these past few weeks i’ve needed this gentle reminder. i hope everyone recovers from their inner battles that they face, however long that may take x
what’s on my mind?
why can’t i sleep? my body is aching and my mind is exhausted. but why when i try to sleep i just fill myself with thoughts about how i wish i could wake up and be literally anyone else, have different experiences, be able to regulate myself better, not have to battle with the feeling of knowing i cant bully myself into becoming better but only ever being bullied into becoming someone im not. i lost my formative years to not understanding why i can’t be myself and why i feel like i have to pretend to be other people just to inevitably fail and burn out. its disabling. i fear that tomorrow i will just wake up to feel the same. i blame it on my period but when its 2/4 weeks of the month i fear that i think its just me. anyway i have work tomorrow so the mask cant slip just yet. let’s hope for a better morning. x
i’m sorry for being so down btw i just don’t really have anyone other than my boyfriend to talk to. i’m so grateful for him but i can’t burden him anymore than i have so ur turn i guess. i know there’s a lot of you who read this. i’m not sure how many of you feel like this but i know i mustn’t be alone. i know there are people going through worse, which only works to invalidate me. anyway i’m rambling goodnight x