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DNI if: "MAP", any form of radfem or "exclusionist"~ ze/hir~ gen z kid~ LibSoc, christian, neurodivergent~ aroace~ search for "intro"~ i don't censor or tw for "queer"

[brightlotusmoon]

[libertarirynn-deactivated202006]

Look I clown veganism often enough but really, truly, don’t ever fucking feed somebody something without their knowledge or consent. It’s hugely fucked up and not OK.

[gotinterest]

also if someone hasn’t eaten meat in a while… or ever… they will get incredibly sick if they just start eating meat again.

[penny-bites]

|| Please don’t do this. Not just with vegans/ vegetarians, but with ANYONE you don’t know very well. You never know what they may or may not be allergic to, their abilities o(or lack thereof) to digest certain things, dietary needs and restrictions, religious beliefs requiring them to abstain from the consumption of certain foods and about a thousand other things.

Some people are legitimately allergic to thd proteins in certain meats and can’t even eat anything cooked in the same pan as X meat product/s.

I’m vegan but couldn’t care less if others aren’t, not an overwhelming number of (not all, just alot, unfortunately) non vegans find things like this funny.

[jhscdood]

Quick reminder: Sometimes people say “I’m vegan” or “I’m vegetarian” because its easier/faster/begets fewer annoying questions than the longer explanation.

As an epidemiologist I can list a few of the more annoying longer explanations that no one wants to have to explain to every person who ever offers them food:

- You drank water contaminated with giardia, which gave you 3 weeks of diarrhea followed by 3 years of lactose intolerance

- You were bitten by a Lone Star Tick and developed an allergy to beef and pork because the Lone Star Tick is a bastard

- You are Jewish and the meat isn’t kosher, but you don’t want to say that because antisemitism is A Thing and you don’t want to get bombarded with questions about the Middle East while you’re hungry

- You are Muslim and the meat isn’t halal, but you don’t want to say that because Islamophobia is A Thing and you don’t want to get bombarded with questions about the Middle East while you’re hungry

- You are on a restricted diet for medical reasons and don’t want to get bombarded with questions about your medical history while you’re hungry

- You are on a restricted diet for reasons that *are nobody’s business* and don’t want to get pulled into Potentially Triggering Diet Talk while you’re hungry.

Listen. Food can be very very complicated for people, and a very very very sensitive subject. Respect people’s food restrictions. None of it is your business.

[blackqueerblog]

This is how you listen to someone before you hit them with facts.

This deserves endless reblogs

[lgbt-tiktoks]

Caption:

[Man: So a couple people had some questions about my tiktok from the other day. So when you say that a girl is (We Fell in Love in October by girl in red), that’s actually more of an umbrella term.

She could be a (Someone New by Hozier) or more (1950 by King Princess) or even a (Girlfriend by Avril Lavigne). And the same thing goes for people that are (Sweater Weather by The Neighborhood) because they could be more (Watermelon Sugar by Harry Styles) or more (Bad at Love by Halsey).

(tongue click) Or even (lorde). Same thing applies to guys that are (YMCA by the Village People). They could be more (Born This Way by Lady Gaga) or like (Troye Sivan). Or the classic (7 rings by Ariana Grande).

But when it comes to people that are (Sweet Home Alabama), its all (Renegade) And (Closer by The Chainsmokers) and (The Box by Roddy Ricch) Where’s the flavor? Does that clarify anything?]

[transed-deactivated20210424]

i never see enough tips for trans women/transfem people so. here’s a video that came up about tucking :] (don’t worry she doesn’t use tape at all despite the thumbnail)

[lgbt-tiktoks]

Caption:

[ (duct tape noise) How to tuck for trans male to female. Or if you’re just really curious. First off, take that fancy dancy duct tape, that electrical tape, that athletic tape, throw that shit in the trash. It kinda works but for the most part it frickin hurts, you gotta shave all the time and its very bad for your skin. Instead, go to Walmart, get yourself a pair of high waisted tights and a pair of Dr. Scholl’s travel compression socks. 

(package pops) Cut the waistband out of your tights. Like so. (tears packaging) You’re gonna take your socks and cut to right about here. Then you get this cool little cuff. Feed waistband into said cuff. Step into each loop of the band and pull up. Your thingie should lay nicely in the cuff, pull up and put on a pair of cute panties and some shorts. And its like you’ve never even had a penis!]

[arodirk]

Dunno ‘bout ya’ll but I personally love and support every single arospec identity without exception. This INCLUDES but isn’t LIMITED TO:

Aromantics

Gray-aromantics

Demiromantics

Cupioromantics

Quoiromantics

Lithromantics

Aroaces

Alloaros

Arospec polyamorous people

Arospec acespec people

Arospec people who are in or want to be in QPRs

Arospec people who aren’t in or don’t want to be in QPRs

Arospec POC

Arospec people regardless of whether they enjoy or are repulsed by affection/flirting/relationships

Arospec people who date

Arospec people who don’t date

Arospec people who don’t know they’re arospec

People questioning being arospec

Arospec people questioning their identity

Arospec people of all genders and orientations

Arospec people who like being arospec

Arospec people who don’t like being arospec

Arospec people who struggle with their attraction and/or identity

The arospec people reading this fucking post

[davidpincher]

if you’re lgbtq+ please rb with the amount of cishet friends you have.

[oli-verwelke]

should i turn on the news or

[allthingsgerman]

[Source]

I mean, the news don’t make it less weird.

[something-something-sonnschein]

Who ever is writing the series finale for 2020 is really going all in.

[oli-verwelke]

should i turn on the news or

[allthingsgerman]

[Source]

I mean, the news don’t make it less weird.

[something-something-sonnschein]

Who ever is writing the series finale for 2020 is really going all in.

[useless-austriafacts]

personally i love the word Lebensabschnittspartner. Lebensgefährte is cool, but saying "yo that's Karl my LAP" immediately puts Karl in his place. He knows he's there for a Abschnitt and if he fucks up he'll be abgeschnitten

brutal 

[lgbt-tiktoks]

[lgbt-tiktoks]

Caption: [My name is Alex and today I will be presenting you my types of me lm to avoid. I am a man, albeit I haven’t been a man for as long as other men, but the point is I’ve been on the inside and I know what kinds of traits I see in other dudes to know that they are not good and you should avoid them at all costs. Let’s start off with number one! A man.]

[lgbt-tiktoks]

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[toxictiktoks]

POV: you go to the office to change your name in the school system and Ms. Connie helps you out