Law of Attraction for All

The purpose of this blog is to share stories and advice about the law of attraction.

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Hello everyone.

Could you be so kind and like this post if you follow this blog and see it? I haven’t been on Tumblr for a very long while and I’m curious how many people are still active in there.

Thank you, and have a good day, a good night, and a good life.

Eva

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My manifesting process

Step one: If I get this I’ll be happy. So I ask for it.

Step two: Kinda sorta visualize. The picture in my mind isn’t always clear but that’s okay.

Step three: Do things that make me happy…no matter how silly. From walking in the rain, movie marathons, baking, sleeping even..anything

Step four: Now that I’m happy I don’t really care about getting it.

Step five: Get hit in the face with it. (Literally manifested that fast!!!)

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What you need

On your journey with the law of attraction, you won’t always manifest what you want, but in a sense it will almost always be what you need.

Before going further, let’s explain the difference we mean between wanting and needing. Wanting comes from the mind, it’s a goal you’ve set, something you wish you had. Needing is different and comes from a higher, deeper, and simpler level. You have basic needs, like food, air, water, sleep, and then you have other needs that are important in your life otherwise you wouldn’t feel like living, and those other needs are what you’re manifesting, what you need in order to learn and grow, and eventually what you really need to be really happy and joyful.

When you’re at the point where you got rid of your negative beliefs, what you want and what you need will match, but in the meantime, you will manifest things that don’t seem to match what you wanted, but it doesn’t mean it’s not the perfect manifestation for you right now. See what you can learn here, how you can use this manifestation to know more about yourself and what you really want and grow.

Also, don’t assume that if you manifested something that doesn’t match what you wanted, it’s because you did something wrong. It may not be the “final manifestation”, but more like a step to get there, to help you get clarity and define even better what you want.

I’ll take an example that happened to me recently with a relationship. For the first time in a long while, I have room in my life for a loving relationship, and because of that, it’s pretty easy to manifest encounters and new experiences. Then I met a girl and everything went well until at some point we realize we want different things and it won’t work out. In this example, it doesn’t mean that I failed in my manifestation, but it actually helped me define with more clarity what I really want in a relationship and I’m really grateful for the opportunity I was given here. I chose to see this experience as positive, and now I can move on with peace of mind and co-create the next manifestation that comes my way. Maybe it’ll be true love that will last many years, or maybe it’ll be another clarifying experience. In any case, it will be a positive thing and approaching life this way makes it a joyful experience every new day.

Have a good day !

Quentin.

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How To Be Authentic - Teal Swan -

Teal Swan on How To Be Authentic, explains that most of our lives in this society is lived in pretense and fakeness and inauthenticity. In self-development w...

I love that one, so much truth about what it means to be authentic there.

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The law of attraction is like a special game. As long as you play and have fun, you win! If you forget it’s a game and start taking it so seriously that you don’t have fun, you may feel like you’re losing. But you can always take a step back and remember it’s a game and start winning again !

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Law of Attraction for All turned 6 today!

How time flies ! Six years ago my journey was only beginning, and I wanted to share what I was learning so I created this blog. I’m so happy to have been able to answer questions about the law of attraction and help other understand the principle and manifest joyful things in their lives.

I’ve got a little lost on the way, but I needed to explore more of who I was not so I could find who I really was more clearly. Now I’m whole and happy and I want to keep sharing anything I can. Let’s celebrate those 6 wonderful years and rejoice for years to come !

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When to get help and why

I wanted to point out a very important subject, and that’s when and why you should seek professional help if you’re having anxiety issues of depression. I know it has been said a lot here and there but it’s always important to remind it.

While I think it’s important to connect to something bigger than yourself, to understand that you’re never alone in this world and you’re always supported, I also know sometimes everything can be too much to handle, and concepts like this one can be seen as too good to be true, and you can buy into the belief that life is hard, that being happy is a luxury only a few can achieve.

At some point it can become overwhelming. It can become so hard on you that you don’t see the point of anything and all you can think of are negative thoughts. That’s when you should really consider help from either psychologists of psychiatrists. 

If you’re having lots of doubts, if every day seem like a burden, and you feel like no matter how hard you try, you won’t achieve happiness, then I suggest a psychologist/therapist. They will help you finding out what’s dragging you down and will give you tools and techniques to find some peace and integrate aspects of yourself you were fighting against.

If it’s so hard on yourself that you’re questioning the point of living, if you ever wanted to harm yourself or if you did, then let a psychiatrist help you. You can’t figure everything out while your brain is a mess. There are medical solutions that exists that can take some of the pain away so that you can find some relief and start working of those inner conflicts.

And in some cases, your brain might not function properly and you may need constant care from a professional but that’s okay too, realize that there’s nothing wrong in seeking help.

We’re all unique and we’re all given unique challenges, even extreme in some cases. How we respond to them and decide to act them help us define who we are and who we want to be. Within any of these challenges, your higher self watches you with unconditional love, and will support you no matter how you decide to face adversity. If you decide to look at the positive within the negative, it will give the strength you need to overcome anything. If you aren’t able to see the positive, then it will hold it for you while you explore your options and realize trying too hard isn’t necessarily the fastest way.

With unconditional love to all of you !

Quentin.

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Quick update, more coming soon

Hey there !

I hope you guys are doing fine ! And if you’re not that’s okay too, remember that all experiences can serve a purpose if you let them.

I’ve received a couple questions about depression, how to deal with it and how to manifest when you don’t feel like anything excites you. Answering those questions require more than one post, because from outside of depression, things can seem clear and it’s easy to get into simple process of manifestations, but when you’re deep in depression, everything you’re being told can seem hard to understand and tedious, and you may not believe you can achieve anything. Of course you always can, but depression is serious and it’s hard to get the so much needed perspective to realize that.

Trying to manifest with depression is like trying to swim with a heavy plate armor. 

I’ve had depression at varying degrees for the past years, I’ve suppressed many emotions and I’ve denied who I really was, I didn’t think who I was had his place in this life. So I’ve tried to become someone else, I’ve tried to do fit in what was expected of me. But I couldn’t, all the ideas of what life is supposed to be lived didn’t make me happy. I didn’t find any passion into finding a job I didn’t like so I could afford to live and buy stuff I didn’t really need.

But then, with great help from a therapist/psychologist, I’ve been able to make peace with who I really was, to end any inner conflict I’ve had, and to strip down that heavy plate armor so I could finally swim with joy without anything slowing me down. Now, I’ve manifesting like crazy and I’m having a lot of exciting synchronicities. I’m so happy I finally took the so much needed time to look what was happening inside of me.

I’m gonna start a new blog very soon, I want to make a lot of articles to help people identify their inner conflicts and realize there’s no need to fight to win those battles. I wanna help others find out who they really are. 

I’m still gonna use this blog for answering questions and reblogging inspiring stuff, and I’m gonna use my new blog (won’t be on Tumblr) for more detailed articles on all kinds of subjects, and it’s all gonna revolve around personal development, and maybe more personal stuff like my travels of what I love to cook (yummy vegan food). I may do vlogs too at some point if I make peace with my French accent. All that in the service of making my own experience be useful to other people if it can.

I’m planning to publish this new blog in May. Right now I’m still trying to find a suiting name for this new blog and I’m open to suggestions ;)

In the meantime, I wish you the best of times, and hope that you remember that every negative event can be a blessing in disguise, it’s all up to you to decide to see it that way.

Sending Love !

Quentin.

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Hey! So my problem is that i attract fuckboys and i really want to get in a relationship now but most of the guys are players and like to play with feelings and i’ve been hurt a lot of times and now i want to get in a relationship but everytime i keep attracting the wrong ones :/

Hello!

The quick answer would be to say that we have to focus more on what we want than on what we don’t want. While it’s true, it can also be a little challenging because thoughts of what we don’t want and the emotions associated can resurface at any time and we may feel like we’re stuck with that inner conflict.

Emotions are messengers, next time you find yourself thinking about how keep attracting the kind of guys you don’t want, look at the emotion underneath. It’s telling you that you’re not looking at this in a way that’s beneficial to you. You’re here because you know about the law of attraction, you know you’re the creator of your own reality. Now look at your statement, how you always attract the wrong ones and how are guys all players. It’s not a fact, it’s a belief, meaning that if that’s what you keep repeating yourself, that’s what you’ll experience. But as a creator of your reality, you can always change a belief to one that’s more beneficial. 

I can suggest two steps to do this. The first one is to recognize that in order to know what you want, life will often present you challenges and contrasting experiences. And sometimes, you will not like those, and that’s okay. The thing is to not get caught up in thinking you did something wrong and attracted something bad, or thinking that’s how life is, but to look at that at a blessing that allowed you to define more clearly what it is you really want. Eventually, where you used to feel negatively about those previous experiences, you’ll feel gratitude for showing you that you now know more precisely what you want. By doing that, you’ve turned around the emotion, and the vibration associated with it.

Now that’s done, you can get to the second step, which is finding ways to generate the feeling of having what you want. Do whatever works for you, like thinking or talking about it, visualizing, or doing vision boards and stuff you’d enjoy doing. The important part is that you enjoy doing it and you feel like it’s helping you. And then trust that the universe has your back and knows exactly what you need, so no need to be too specific (you can use specifics to generate good feelings, but don’t insist that your vision has to come exactly the way you pictured it).

The second step I just gave is basically the way you’ve been told how to use the law of attraction. But the first step is also important, because we all got story we keep repeating ourselves about how life is and how those negative things keep happening to us, or how we can or can’t do some things. But those are just beliefs, not facts, we can always change them. Try and become more a spectator of your own thoughts and talks, and look at the story you’re telling. Is it serving you to believe that or can you see that there’s another way to define your reality ?

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Hi ! My boyfriend and I juste broke up and even if i'm doing my best to concentrate on what makes me happy and let go of the bad feelings that go along with the breakup, I often find myself thinking again and again about what we had together and the lack of it now. I really want him to come back and I don't know what to do in order to feel good and let go since I try so hard and it doesn't work. Can you guide me through this please ? Thank you so much for your blog.

Hi !

I’m sorry you’re going through a difficult time, let me try to help you a little.

Emotions can serve a process :

The first thing you need to consider is not trying to feel better too fast, or to move away from the bad feelings. Our emotions are messenger, they’re trying to tell us something, and not taking the time to feel them is risking not getting the message.

So here you have your higher self, who looks at everything about you and your experience with unconditional love. When you look at things the same way it does, you feel really good, and it translates with pleasant emotions. When something bad happens and you look at the situation with a stand point that’s not unconditional love, it translate in bad emotions, the ones we call negative and that we don’t feel comfortable staying with for too long. But this emotion is only there because there is a difference between how you see it and how your higher self sees it. It always sees what’s beneficial for you, it always sees the positive things hidden in what you see as negative. It loves no matter what.

So take all the time you need to feel those emotions, don’t hesitate to write down what you’re feeling or to talk about it to a trusted friend who won’t judge you or tell you how you should feel. This way you make sure you can feel all the emotions attached to what happened. While doing that, you may have a lot of negative thoughts coming to you. In the case of a break up, there can be about guilt, blame, regret, worthlessness or many more. Don’t try to avoid the thoughts, but observe them neutrally. It’ll be hard at first, and it’s something you can practice in all areas of your life. The more you observe your thoughts, the more you can decide that they don’t have a built in meaning. A negative thought is just a temporary opinion, it’s never a fact. Because if you remember, your higher self knows everything that’s best for you and looks only with love. 

Once you’ve identified those thoughts, you can now know that they’re not really true, and you can begin to turn them around and try to see positive aspects in what happened.

Before I go into this, I wanna say that you can apply the process I just described with any negative events or experience you may have. A big problem we have in our society is we don’t take time to own our emotions, and we carry them around buried with great effort only to find them coming back to bite us later. So better deal with them as soon as we can. We can even revisit previous past negative events where we didn’t take the time to do this process. Please not that in some cases, the emotions can be too strong and overwhelming, and that’s when it’s wise to engage with a therapist or a similar professional.

Now back to how we can find positive aspects to this event. The first question you want to ask yourself is :

Were you being your true self in the previous days or weeks before the breakup ?

By your true self, I mean the version of you that’s pursuing her dreams, acting on what excites her, moving through life with peace of mind, with love for herself and for her significant other. Take time to answer that honestly.

If the answer is yes :

If the answer is yes, and if you have no doubt about that, then there’s little you could have done to prevent what happened. Being your true self is the best way to attract what’s always relevant and best for you, but sometimes that also means having to see what’s no longer relevant go away. It can feel really hard, but if you understand that your higher self always works with you to manifest what’s good for you, you’ll know that after the storms passes, the sun will shine even brighter.

If the answer is no :

If the answer is no, if you’ve not allowed yourself to be who you really are, to do what excites you, to be your happy and joyful selfs, you can ask yourself what prevented you to be this way. It’s not about finding any for or blame or guilt, it’s about discovering negative beliefs you may have had. Ultimately, there’s never anything preventing you from being yourself other than yourself, it’s never external, it’s all in what we believe to be true. Our negative beliefs will always try and scare us not to do what we want to do. They will try to convince you that your happiness also depends on other people happiness, or that they may judge you, or that your loved one(s) may not join you once you’ve allowed yourself to be truly yourself. 

Often in relationships, we sacrifice being really ourselves to make sure the other is happy because we’re not sure they would follow us or still love us if we allow to be who we truly are. That’s even how most relationships begin, with all the flirting and the romantic gestures, until time passes and both parts begin being really themselves and find out they’re not entirely comfortable with what they find about one another. While there’s nothing wrong with dating and starting relationships this way, it’s better to always be your full true self from the start, because that way, the law of attraction will work with you and bring you someone that resonates with that. If the person walks away while you were being yourself, that could mean that there’s someone else who’s a true match for you on his way.

So try to think about the relationship and what your negative beliefs could have been. Identify those, don’t be afraid to dig, even if the answers seem stupid or silly. You will realize they were just there to scare you and there was nothing to fear into being more of yourself.

There is good in realizing this, it’s what we mean we find the positive hidden in the negative. Everything that happens to us is an opportunity to know more about ourselves.

Trust in what’s next :

Now, I know you may want to focus on wanting him back, but your real focus should be on being your true self again, and if there’s room for him then, the law of attraction will make sure you two are reunited, ready to discover who you both really are. But don’t insist that this is what should happen, your job is to find what’s preventing you from being truly joyful and excited about life and trust that the universe will support you all the way. You can use your good memories of the relationship to generate good feelings of love if you want, but don’t focus too much on what the future should hold. Be yourself and it will hold what’s best for you !

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(via The Basics Of Meditation - An Infographic)

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You are like a radio and you can receive many stations. What you receive depends on what you pay attention to.

Sanaya Roman, Personal Power Through Awareness (via icreatewhatibelieve)

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I'm always alone and I'm so pro group. I want friends that add to me as I do to them, I want considerate, healthy mutual bonds. And this whole time I've been without squad?

How would it make you feel to be with such friends? Take some time each day to think about being part of a group a friends where you feel like you belong, focus up to the point where you can actually feel like it’s a true thing, and then let the thoughts go, just keep the feeling with you throughout your days as long as you can, it’s okay if you lose it on the way, just remember to practice it daily.

Practice the feeling, and you’ll become a magnet for what you want. The feeling is what’s important, don’t get lost too much in the thoughts, use them to generate the feeling, but don’t assume it will come exactly the way you’re thinking it, trust that the law of attraction will bring you what you need.

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Hi! So i started wishing for this specific person when i learnt about loa (a month ago) and in the beggining i used to dream about him and his girlfriend and the next day i would see them like everytime, it was as if i was receiving a warning. But it stopped and last night i had a dream about him but he didn't havr his accent. What do you think this means or do you think this has nothing to do with loa?

Hi!

You can say that by definition, the law of attraction allows you to manifest anything you want. It’s all about vibration, and how the law will bring to you what is matching the vibration you’re sending out.

When it comes to something specific, and even more when it’s a person, you have to look at what’s going on vibrationally. When you want something, like a relationship, it’s because you believe it will make you feel good when you have it, we can all agree on that; it’s good to love and to feel loved. So when you think about the idea of a relationship, you generate the feeling state of being there already, and if you’re consistent, and if you don’t have any contradiction belief or any kind of resistance within you, something that matches the vibration will manifest.

If you focus on a specific person, and you want a relationship with them, what’s important here is not the result, but the feeling you’re generating when you think about the idea. The universe offers unlimited possibilities, and stating that the result has to be this one person is actually reducing that scope. You have to trust in the fact that your higher mind knows perfectly what will match your vibration, and it will work with the law of attraction to bring it to you.

The idea here is using the person as a way to feel in advance what you would feel if you had it already, and let go of any expectation on a particular outcome. Trust that the result will feel as good, or even better. Don’t suppose it has to be one way, when there could be a dozen better ways in line for you.

With our tiny human brains, we have little understanding of what’s going on and how the universe works, but we’re non physical first, our higher mind is always there, knowing exactly what’s best for you, and will work to bring it to you should you clear the way by letting go of resistance and negative beliefs.

On the note of dreams and signs, they don’t have built in meaning, you just have to decide by yourself how to use the information to get in state of non resistance and just be your happy self.

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What are you grateful for today ?

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Hi!

How are you, dear friends ? It’s been a while since I last logged in on Tumblr, and there’s a lot I miss about the time I used to spend there. It was for me a place of inspiration and a way to find content and people matching my personality or my current mood.

And then life happened, and I fell into forgetfulness, I’ve put all the little things that made me feel good on hold, thinking that I had something more important to do. I tried to make things happen without seeking alignment first, I acted from a place of anxiety, which led to only more anxiety. I forgot how to trust in the good things coming, without seeing that’s what kept it all at a distance. I was looking for happiness in all the wrong places.

In the end, I decided to drop off coding school, because even though I've enjoyed what i learned and I’m not bad at that field, I was trying to achieve success without taking my well being with me. 

I don’t know what’s the next step for me, but it begins with connecting back to my source, letting go of all the resistance, and trusting that I will be inspired about what to do next, from a place of inner peace and contentment.

See you soon around here :)

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