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" city of stars , are you shining just for me? "
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helpful post from successfully iranian shifter on reddit all credits go to u/No_document5821
Whenever I read success stories of people in much worse circumstances than me, It truly makes me realize how stupid mine are in comparison.
oh wow i havenât checked in on this account in months iâm so sorry đ i hope everyoneâs doing okay <3
for anyone wondering, i havenât really put my mind into shifting in a long while :( i have so many things going on in my life lately that i donât feel the desperate need to come back to it. iâm sure i will, because it never really goes away, but until then iâm just living my normal life, enjoying all the new movies and tv shows and books coming out and having fun with my friends and more. hopefully iâll also graduate this year !! but yeah, iâm doing great and i really wish you all are as well, may it be here or in another reality ^^
(you all can catch me yapping about pjo or other hyperfixations of mine on my main !!)
i have yet to say this but happy new year everybody !! <3
may this year be full of shifting experiences and happiness đ
MERRY CHRISTMAS FRIENDS đ©·đ©·đ©·đ©·
iâll log off again until new yearâs probably but for now i just wanted to wish you all a joyful day filled with love and happiness, each one of you deserves it <3
look how far youâve come
genuinely. look! yes it might been years or months but truly do you see the version of you that just learned what the word âdrâ mean shift at that time? see all the progress you made. everything you've learn, your every 'fail', and understanding of shifting and of your realities!! i believe even your "fail" made you closer to shifting. every up and down and toss and turn. and maybe it wasn't then for good. maybe you don't see yourself shift without knowing all that you know now, right. you've come from so far: went from thinking you could only shift in a starfish position with every methods invented to knowing you are already in your dr and that shifting doesn't require any efforts and is stitched to awareness.
sometimes progress isnât always visible. but it is constantly happening. i donât think we realize how closer we are than we think. and one day very soon this version of you will only be a soft ghost youâll want to wrap your arms around and scream at âYOU ARE SO BRAVE AND YOU WERE SO MUCH CLOSER THAN U THOUGHTâ or maybe youâll be too busy planning your wedding to even think of that distant memory . maybe not everything makes sense but that day everything will make perfect sense.
either way i am telling you what i wish i could listen sometimes: you will shift eventually there is no escape to that and everything will be okay, it was already written for you the moment you've decided to shift. i am proud of you for persisting cause i donât think you realize how admirable it is, how many people would have scoff and turn but you didnât and now you have an infinity ahead you
you are already in your dr, remember!!! it can happen at any time cause it is now. simply know and let go
icb this is my life à«źê°àŸàœČ Ìà¶ .Ì« à¶ ê±àŸàœČá i made a silly lighthearted comment yesterday in response to lola after mentioning the myriad of zombie dr related lucid dreaming dreams in my time away ê° basically iâm aware that iâm having a dream but iâm not rly lucid for real ,,, iâm just basically dreaming of lucidity if that makes sense (â„áŽâ„)(â„áŽâ„) ê± && i went to sleep looong after making it and def thinking nothing of it only to have my silly wishes granted LMFAOAOAJAJAHA
to cut a long story short , eren and i were out grocery shopping when i became â lucid â and it was so domestic that it made me seriously consider making the most self-indulgent and sappiest of drs with him hwahahaha (â„áŽâ„)âĄâĄâĄ i was rly sad when my dream was cut short bc it was so awfully cute BUT all the more reason and motivation to experience it irl right ? pfft à»ê°àŸàœČÂŽ Ë ` ê±àŸàœČá
THE SWEETEST EVER
omg i havenât been on here in so so long i swear i havenât forgotten about you mootsies âčïž
iâm on a little break from shifting and itâs doing wonders for me, i fear iâm liking it a bit too much lmao but itâs always in the back of my mind ofc and i will get back into it sooner or later !! (iâm letting supernatural consume my mind first, then well ⊠you can guess whatâs gonna happen)
i hope all of you are doing so well and shifting and just happy all around <3
GET TO KNOW YOUR MUTUALS!
rules: answer and tag six people you want to know better
thanks for the tag @dovewhoreofbabylon ILY POOKIEEEE
1- favorite color: sage green
2- last song: like real people do / i, carrion - hozier
3- currently reading: the pandava quintet by roshni chokshi (i'm rereading it)
4- currently watching: the yin yang master
5- currently craving: pizza, dumplings , milkshakes- (pardon me i am what poets call, a big back)
6- coffee or tea: tea!!!
no pressure tags!!!: @fragments-ofkimdokja @bambiezz @slygirlshifts @maricorez @luxange @cinnamonstargirlxxx+ anyone else wanting to join !! <333
Tysm for the tag!!
1 - favourite colour: leaf green
2 - last song: Lilith - Saint Avangeline
3 - currently reading: The Wise Man's Fear by Patrick Rothfuss
4 - currently watching: Spy x Family (season 3)
5 - currently craving: chicken katsu curry
6 - coffee or tea: coffee!
This was really fun to do đ«¶
No pressure tags <3 : @hinaxii @daydreaminglilac1128 @thatmysticalshifter @serenvious @fawndipity + anyone else who wants to join!!
thank you for the tag!!! this is so cute đ
1 - favorite color: any shade of red
2 - last song: novel by skz
3 - currently reading: six of crows by leigh bardugo (rereading) and the handmaidâs tale by margaret atwood
4 - currently watching: ap chem unit 3 review by jeremy krug
5 - currently craving: extra spicy drunken noodles and fries dipped in ice cream
6 - coffee or tea: tea!!
đ·ïž no pressure tags! : @eternal-stay @binniemyluvv @easyboyrecliner @delicatelullaby @angeliqirl @anwirshifts and anyone else wanting to join!!!
thankuu for the tag love!! đ
âą favorite color: pink and cherry red
âą last song: i dont understand but i love you by seventeen
âą currently reading: the power of awareness by neville â â â â â â â â goddard
âą currently watching: when i fly towards you (rewatching)
âą currently craving: i really want a boba tea rn đŁ or some â â â â â â â icecream ...
âą coffee or tea: coffee!!!
ê° my tags (np!) : @aeinthe-void @fragments-ofkimdokja @yunspidey @09eonho @stxrryluv @reality--shifter @reyaint @miainbetween @bunniedior @inthenao @mydeerestdoe @daydreaminglilac1128 @beayoonkang ++ anyone who wants to do it! ê±
thank you both jane and nadine for tagging me đ«¶đ»đ«¶đ»
1. favorite color: midnight blue / wine red / sage green.
2. last song: take a chance with me by niki / who lives, who dies, who tells our story
3. currently reading: once upon a time: regina rising by wendy toliver
4. currently watching: stranger things / merlin bbc / once upon a time / smallville { what can i say, iâm a multitasker (im struggling) }
5. currently craving: pasta and ice cream.. and chicken.. ( i just ate btw yet. )
6. coffee or tea: tea !!
đ·ïž ( no pressure ! ) : @aeinthe-void , @intimidaid , @timelostheart , @deepinthegroves , @cautswp , @rynnest , @chaaistained + anyone who would like to join!!
rin ty for the tag bb !!
i. fav colour ; light blue and burdundy
ii. last song ; logging field by annabelle dinda
iii. currently reading ; the spellshop by sarah beth durst
iv. currently watching ; the mentalist, scooby doo mystery incorporated, bosch
v. currently craving ; vanilla soda and gobi manchurian
vi. coffee or tea ; đ«„ (itâs tea)
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đ·ïž ; @faeriemarie . @timelostheart . @bunniedior . @elysian-fawn . @lolashifts . @laylasverse . @l22na4 . @rynnest . @ms-alyssa . @raven-shifts . @withluvvenus . @l1ttlejellyf1shy . @dracuthea . @girlfanged + open tag !!
^^ no pressure
thank u for the tags chaai and @marcellasdiary <3
1. fav color : blue and green !! literally any shade, i adore them
2. last song : the rocks by 5 seconds of summer
3. currently reading : the dark descent of elizabeth frankenstein by kiersten white
4. currently watching : supernatural and welcome to derry (+ rewatching stranger things đ)
5. currently craving : tiramisĂč âŠ.
6. coffee or tea : tea butttt i do like cappuccino !
tagging: @elysian-fawn @l22na4 @shifterin @junoshifts @easyboyrecliner + open tags as usual đ
you want a step by step guide for shifting? here you go.
intend -> connect -> act -> go
avenues to take for intention
think , affirm . doesnât take much, a mental image of what youâre aligning with is enough .
avenues to take for connection
imagine , visualize , feel . anything that gets you emotionally connected and shows your subconscious your dr is familiar and safe for your awareness to slip into .
avenues to take for action
let go . thatâs it . there is no other action you take to shifting but surrendering. stop the visuals, affirming, checking. let go .
and then? what next?
SHIFT. SHIFT. JUST SHIFT.
the secret of shifting or that âsweet spotâ that people keep talking about is not one thatâs found from excess emotion. you do not need to be hyped or crying from love for your dr to shift. you also donât need to force constant affirmations or visuals. you just want to be in that calm neutral state where you know what you want, youâre not grasping at it, youâre open to receiving it, and youâre okay with relaxing into the unknown. thatâs how you shift into any circumstance, any state, any desire. it doesnât take hoursâit doesnât even take a minute. itâs just a choice. you can bypass steps 1 and 2 but a lot of people need those steps to make themselves neutral. and thatâs okay. just donât get stuck at step 1 or 2. theyâre great to prepare you but theyâre just ways to keep you relaxed. they arenât what make you shift. 3 is essential. the surrender is essential. thatâs why i preach self trust so much! hope this helps.
this has to be one of the sweetest things anyone has ever made for me iâm gonna SOB @chaaistained I LOVE YOU you captured the vibe so so perfectly, look at us being all cute ughhhh đ€§đ€§đ€§
IM SO GLAD YOU LIKE IT DARLING !! đ€đ«¶đœ
ME RIGHT NOW
this has to be one of the sweetest things anyone has ever made for me iâm gonna SOB @chaaistained I LOVE YOU you captured the vibe so so perfectly, look at us being all cute ughhhh đ€§đ€§đ€§
shifted to my better cr last night:
properly this time. i didnât see myself in the bathroom mirror and freak out and shift back like last time. (pats myself on the back)
i was there for two days, and when i shifted back here, i had a good and long sob session. let me explain: seeing this version of my cr mom who wasnât held back by patriarchy, the version who actually got to pursue her passions? it was... i donât even know how to put that into words. i mean its not like we aren't happy in our cr. but it was enlightening to see regardless.
she was thriving. she had her own restaurant business, sharing her amazing cooking with people who appreciated it, with lines around the block. she was glowing. and our relationship there? fuck, it was everything i ever wanted. we got to go out together, just us girls, seeing her buy whatever she wanted, living her life to the fullest, not, âthatâs too expensive,â or worse, âwe canât afford two, why donât you get it for yourself.â those words used to break my heart when i was little. she was always so self-sacrificing, always the one to offer food off her plate, to skip the vacation, to work full time while raising two kids, especially my angsty ass - the woman is a goddess who deserves everything and more.
and my dad? in my cr, when i was a kid, he missed out on this huge opportunity. like, life-changing for future generations kind of opportunity. it used to be his one big regret. the kindest and smartest man i know who never let anyone hold him back was held back by fate. and in my better cr, he got the opportunity. everything he worked toward paid off; he got to pursue his teaching passion in a space that appreciated him.
which meant my sibling and i werenât separated, we grew up together, really together. we knew each otherâs passions, insecurities; we celebrated life together and cried together.
my better cr wasnât even that high on my list of places to shift to. its also the one i hadnât scripted much for, just my old void list - but i hadn't even looked at that thing in a year and when i checked pretty much everything had come true. i feel like iâve been healed in a way i wasnât even expecting.
also for how i shifted, i usually don't focus on this but it was so weird(for me anyway i don't have that much successes with wbtb) that i need to keep a record of it. i had woken up like i usually do at like 4ish am. normally i get on my phone immediately. this morning, it was raining, it was so pleasant and the chill in the air felt amazing, so i kinda just laid there, and thought about how perfect everything felt. i don't know when i drifted off but i woke up there.
leaving this here while i go cry some more. iâm so permashifting there itâs not even funny.
â„ Nya
what a gift to know more, and be meant for more. i say sobbing. no really i am meant for more, for better, for love. i have it in all its form. i was to find my true life and know that there is more. i deserve better. i am in tears at this point. it is so beautiful to know that no matter what i am not to worry ever again. i could have not know about it but i do, it has find me not the other way around. why does it make me cry. the way he found his way back to me in every life. it makes me happy okay. i love him. i love my dr. i love my family. and i love pipin and my friends and my pink house. and the fact that i have always been there and meant to know home. i love how i have my rose field and pansy and i are probably gonna try to cook back and it will end in catastrophe and i love it. i love that i am listening to whatever gossip and really a doubtful story blaise found this time and i love that i am already laughing with pansy while draco is telling him to stop that and it bring out an interaction coming funnier than it should have been and now i am in a irrepressible laugh with pansy. and he watch me laugh and now he is smiling. cause he is so smug about him being the cause of my smile. he adores it. seeing me smile. and i love him. and i love that long before everything during those trivial matter argument in the snow with blaise and pansy by our side wining a complain fizzles into care back to their respective side. they spoke of unspoken attraction and we were denying the plain please. i love that. cause it is home. and cause we really never stopped. just zoned out on us Iâm back. all the moments we just. I canât finish this sentence without crying. and the yearning⊠how did I survived. no real question to myself cause what. whaat. was always present heavily. sight. i love us. i love that i could admire him forever. eyes to heart. I love that i am going everywhere and this will end in my draft. what was i even talking about. anyways. that was my bed report.
shayâs LENGTHY advice
literally everything i could think of that iâve said, done, thought or been told that i currently align with⊠DISCLAIMER: this will not be revolutionary or new. everything i say has likely been said before, either by me or someone else. regardless, repeating things can penetrate the subconscious mind so i figure this can help at least one person finally âget itâ when it comes to shifting. enjoy xo
there is no key but if there was one for shifting intentionally, itâd be to trust. trust your subconscious to know what its allowing to enter your sphere. trust that your mindset, as imperfect as it is, is still enough to shift. trust that shifting is meant for you. trust that this hasnât been all for nothing.
those expectations you have need to be dropped. shifting will live up to everything you imagined and more but itâs not a movie. itâs just life. the moment you start viewing life through the lens of shifting and vice versa, that pedestaled, idealized version of your dr doesnât seem so far anymore.
intention grows. it strengthens. it combines. never worry about whether youâre setting intention right because every connection youâve made to your dr solidifies that intention.
intention is technically not the only thing you âneedâ to shift. sometimes we have anxiety. sometimes we need intention + familiarity. comfort. tethers. so keep that in mind when shifting to your drs. if you feel confident in your intention but still havenât seen that âmovementâ⊠are you comfortable? does your dr feel like home?
use senses and emotion to embrace your dr. your surroundings. yourself. embody it wholly. not to shift but to familiarize. make your subconscious know that your dr is safe.
stray away from intense emotions when imagining but donât run into the arms of something that bores you. unless you truly find an emotional connection constantly visualizing the place youâre waking up, use a different emotional tether or connection to shift to your dr. mine, for example, is my mom. sheâs been my tether for both shifting to my dr and shifting from it back to my cr. i think of her and everything around me settles. it soothes. i know i am home. find something like that.
shifting is not physical. so using physical crutches (whether that be scripting, methods, night time routine, etc.) arenât the things making you progress in your journey. not to say theyâre pointless but if you find yourself putting your trust in those things over your own mind, you need to step back and re-evaluate. ie: âi have to do [ ] before i can shift to my dr!â
stop looking for what you did wrong. curb it and just feel. intellectualizing your perceived failures is keeping you in a loop of blaming yourself for not receiving your desires. there is no intellectualizing not shifting because itâs nothing you did wrong. shifting isnât something you do, itâs something you are. you are constantly shifting, evolving and aligning. even when it seems like nothing happened, something did. believe that and allow it to be the thing you remind yourself of when youâre frustrated.
speaking of, frustration and anger will not stop you from shifting. desperation will not stop you from shifting. any negative emotion you have about shifting will not stop you from shifting. what stops you is the assumption that it will. the assumption that youâve just âmessedâ up and now you need to start again. the overcorrecting. the constant checking. all of it is just rooted from a limited self belief already. when i say nothing is stopping you from shifting except yourself, i donât mean your emotions. you arenât your emotions but the observer of them. i am literally talking about the you thatâs observing this. thatâs processing this. you are capable of observing and processing your emotions without taking them on as who you are.
usually when i shift, i donât affirm anything related to shifting. i just really focus on belonging in a dr. i use trigger words that put visuals in my head without me needing to force it (because i find the more natural and at ease i feel, the easier it is for me to slip).
shifting begins the moment you decide it does. in this year alone, i have not taken more than 10 minutes to shift. when i decide iâm going to my drâeven if i donât end up shiftingâi feel the immediate click. that immediate transfer of awareness, of connection. itâs hard to describe but when you know, you know.
symptoms are a byproduct of shiftingâyes! but theyâre more a result of resistance to shifting. shifting is internal and not a physical process. itâs not meant to be felt as much as itâs meant to be embodied. the less symptoms you feel (in my experience) = the more aligned and in flow you are with just being in the dr. i mean think about it, when youâre here do you randomly feel symptoms? no. so they shouldnât be a marker for how close you are. and if you need more convincing, look back at past attempts. iâm willing to bet that the moment you looked for those markers in your shifts, those external symptoms, youâd lose em just as fast. itâs because you grounded yourself here.
now this wonât be the case for everyone but iâve found more success in not attempting than trying to. literally just rolling over and saying âfuck itâ. i think the reasoning behind that is thereâs no resistance that iâve built. iâm not attached to any outcome AND shifting is always in the back of my mind ANYWAY so boom. because of this, i havenât âtriedâ to shift since late august/early september lmfaoo
success is not only about shifting or not shifting. the journey of shifting is so much greater than getting to your dr. getting to your dr is guaranteed aa long as you donât quit but while youâre walking towards that inevitable fact, you should also be walking towards self sufficiency. having grace for yourself. talking yourself down from spirals and listening to your intuition.
how can you expect to trust your intuition when you call yourself a liar mid sentence? when you immediately believe the âhah, you know youâre not shifting tonight, just go to sleep.â stop operating under logical fallacies and hold yourself accountable. instead of spiraling every time an undesirable emotion pops up, use it as your time to build your intuition and self reflection. why did it come up and when exactly did it happen? during what word? journal, process and release. be just as intentional about your trust as you are about shifting.
shift for whatever the hell you want. script whatever the hell you want. but understand that shifting is still real life. while itâs not something you can tangibly transfer from here to there and vice versa, reckless shifting habits can still consciously affect you as if you experienced it in this reality. youâre breaking down barriers by shifting. by refusing to accept a single awareness as home. so be sure to take care of your mental health by viewing shifting as reality and not fiction.
the past can inform your current decisions but do not allow it to dictate them. donât allow a perceived failure from your past to keep you from experiencing your desired present.
stop being a fucking martyr. i said it best in my dr but, âyou don't have to die to matter. you don't have to be covered in blood to deserve a warm bath.â stop taking on others trauma. stop trying to be a fucking hero. if youâre meant to be that, you will be that, you donât need to script it. allow yourself to step up to the plate in the moment instead of planning to do so just to sit in your bed, procrastinating shifting because youâre too goddamn scared to go experienced what YOU wrote down.
for the last time, you are not moving your consciousness, itâs not going anywhere! youâre just aligning your awareness to something you desire!! consciousness is everywhere so it doesnât require movement.
donât micromanage each moment, sometimes itâs okay to just do nothing in it. feeling symptoms? do nothing. observe but do not engage. donât over analyze in the moment because thatâs what doesnât allow the flow. think of the symptoms like your subconscious testing if this is a safe mental state. if itâs safe you arenât going to overreactâyouâre just gonna let it pass through.
instead of striving for the perfect experience, focus on the joy and fulfillment of the process. remind yourself that the outcome of shifting is inevitable (you either shift or you donât) so detach from results. focus on the feeling of already being there instead of the method. truly emotionally align yourself more with your dr self than the want to shift.
do not rush imagination. if you get lost in a daydream, feel it fully with no expectations of how long or short it needs to be. you donât have to finish before sleeping. you donât have to rush through it because youâre tired. if you fall asleep, you fall asleep. youâre set. trust your connection.
donât go into shifting acting as though you know what it looks like if you havenât experienced it yet. that blocks off so many avenues of how you can you shift, where you can, what you can shift into etc. this is one of the reasons i stopped scripting. it felt like i was blocking off the when, where and how of shifting. i didnât want to write down my destiny, i wanted to live it. to figure it out in the moment instead of making an epic story before even experiencing it.
gratitude gets you farther than youâd think. back in april, my guides showed me in a dream that i can shift by simply listing off the things i was grateful for in my dr and allowing those feelings to fill me. itâs something i go back to when i want an easy connection.
understand that youâre not a product of reality, reality is a product of you. when you experience a circumstance that is unsatisfactory, it doesnât have to be real unless you confirm (through your assumptions) that it is. so if you wanted to shift really badly and woke up here, rewrite that circumstance. you did shift. maybe you just forgot? allow that to be your truth and move on.
so many shifters succeed through repetition, emotional attunement and energy work. and those are little shifts within themselves. shifting for a lot of us is very healing. and sometimes the journey we go on to reach this destination is apart of the medicine that aligns us with our highest selves. as you continue to subconsciously integrate the work youâve put in to build to a full shift, you may find that shifting happens quicker. but you must understand that even if shifting is not universally instantaneous for you, it doesnât mean youâre doing anything wrong. continue to persist. donât doubt your capabilities.
shifting can come to you effortlessly. you donât have to work for it. no physical routine is going to guarantee you a shift, itâs your alignment to the place and your willingness to just be. to flow.
divine timing does not have to apply to you. there doesnât have to be a higher source controlling when you shift. if anything, you can be that higher source. you can be the divine thatâs deciding.
if you are doing anything that resembles chasing a shift, you are creating underlying resistance. shifting is natural. we will do it forever and ever and ever. making decisions to try to force it into happening is just you contradicting the natural ability you were born with.
many people have probably shifted and they thought they were dreaming because the shift wasnât long enough for them to fully comprehend and realize they were living in reality. sometimes shifting feels so natural that you donât get an âaha i shifted!â moment until you come back but donât let that deter you. usually if you feel like you shifted, you did (in some capacity).
as much as you may complain about not having shifted yet, youâre very comfortable and familiar with this reality and uncomfortable with your dr. you may live too deeply in the âi wanna shiftâ state and not the âi wanna be my dr selfâ state. your dr does not have to be as far away as you make it seem in your head. itâs within you. thatâs never far.
the emotions you feel around your dr cannot just be made up! thereâs a reason you feel so strongly and so connected to the people of your dr. theyâre meant for you. youâre meant to know them. to know shifting.
you donât have to keep focusing on your dr until the absolute last second before you fall asleep or shift. not only is it impractical and asks you to have perfect thoughts but also itâs just false? i donât know why some of you have it in your head to do that but itâs wrong! just do what comes naturally to you. even if thatâs doing nothing at all.
Thatâs all for now! I hope this post helps you in some way. Iâd really appreciate it if you could reblog and like it so that it can reach anyone who might need it. <33
3 things Iâd tell past me who was struggling with shifting/manifesting
This is pretty harsh and definitely not sugar-coated, because itâs legitimately what I would tell MYSELF in the past. If you donât like yelling ⊠please skip this one lol. Iâm the pseudo-target, because she had some ridiculous views of herself, her journey and reality. Written after reading some old journal entries, so this is what Iâd tell that past version of me to snap myself out of it if I couldâknowing what I know now that I shift frequently. Could be helpful for someone else too, but donât take anything to heart, because these are pretty opinion-specific <3
1) Why are you accepting anything else?
Shifting isnât some magical teleportation to another place. Manifesting isnât gaining magical powers and being done with it. Itâs a metamorphosis, like it or not. Itâs an identity-level mutation, because now youâre no longer a part of the crowd who has accepted one singular reality. Or that manifestation is âtoo good to be true.â Hello?? Thatâs not you anymore!
Why are you accepting that youâre just lost and the answer is out there somewhere? That youâre this doomed person whoâs been trying for years? Why are you accepting this identity?? And donât even come at me with the excuses that youâve âdone everything but nothing works,â because right there you ARE accepting it as an identityâsaying âhey yeah, Iâm the person who keeps trying but nothing works and Iâm lost.â Why is THAT the identity youâre giving yourself??
For lack of better words: have some dignity! Lead with arrogant pride! Be stubbborn! Inflate your ego and refuse to label whatever youâre going through as failure. This is not the time to be humble and accepting, even in definition. âIâm someone whoâs struggling and canât get anything right.â HELLO?
I know youâre someone whoâs honest and logical, so letâs put aside the law of assumption for a second here and look at it âlogicallyâ because it is basic.
If you say youâre stuckâyouâll talk, think, and act like someone whoâs stuck.
If you say youâre lostâyouâll start moving through life like a person whoâs lost, second-guessing and looking for signs instead of making decisions. Because if you accept that youâre lost, youâre going to take the actions and think like someone whoâs lost.
The way you translate reality cues your mind; your mind cues your behavior; your behavior cues your reality. Like an ouroboros. Yes, Clover, how unfortunate it is that you canât act like you donât know shit 24/7, and then MAGICALLY KNOW SHIT. YOUâRE NOT EVEN MANIFESTING TO MAGICALLY KNOW SHIT WITHOUT DOING ANYTHING.
The moment you decide youâre not stuck, not lost, not tryingâyou will start to take actions accordingly. This means that, for example, youâll decide what needs to be done next instead of searching for the key outside of you. Youâll perceive the lack, mixed signals or signs as part of your intention being fulfilled. Instead of treating it as evidence that you're stuck or don't know what you're doing.
But then you sit there and think âGee, I already did everything. And everything I do wonât give me results, so I need a key, an answer, a light.â WHAT DO YOU MEAN?? WHAT DO YOU MEAN?? THATâS THE IDENTITY YOUâRE GOING TO ACCEPT?? Youâre going to excuse this as âOh, but this isnât helpful because I donât know what to do anyway, so I guess Iâm stuck.â
I need you. To wake up. Like actually wake up.
2) Youâve been given the key a hundred damn times already. A hundred.
Sometimes itâs called the law of assumption, sometimes itâs called letting go and trusting itâs already yours, sometimes itâs a method that tells you to just know itâs already working, sometimes itâs âact as if,â sometimes itâs âlive in the end,â sometimes itâs âpersist,â sometimes itâs try to achieve this altered state through trial and error. But itâs all the same truth dressed in different costumes: what you want is already yours in some form, and you align by knowing that. YOU. No one else can do it for you.
You sitting there wearing the identity of someone whoâs lost, hopeless, searching, waiting for a savior will not cut it. It never did. Itâs not about effortâbecause effort is hit or miss, and sometimes it happens in the moments you least expect it, without lifting a finger.
But do you know why that happens without lifting a finger?? Itâs because for a split second, you dropped the damn story and you werenât TRYING, you were beingâeven if you were being exhausted and over it. At least you werenât begging and rehearsing that youâre the âone who canât shift.â You just existed in a state where the prediction of failure didnât interfere anymore. Why else do you think you can go to sleep randomly, not expecting anything, and shift?? Manifest without trying??
There is no time, no space, no justification for dropping the assumption, intention, identity, observationâwhatever name you give itâjust because it didnât yield instant results. None. Zero. Why? Because, again, this shit is a metamorphosis. You are no longer the person constrained to one reality, one outcome, one timeline. YOU UNCOVERED THE TRUTH.
Every time that you slip back into the old story, youâre rehearsing your defeat. I do not mean you have to ignore your reality, or your circumstances. Thatâs not necessary. Whatâs necessary is waking up and altering how you perceive whatâs going on around you. Because the moment you intend to have something:
3) You are never not in the process of getting what you want. Never. Ever ever ever ever.
You may hate the term âprocess,â let this be my filthy propaganda to indoctrinate you. Please let shifting be a process. Let manifestation be a process. Because the answer to everything is to treat it like itâs part of the process. And I do mean everything.
âThe shifting method didnât work.â Part of the process.
âIâm manifesting this person but they wonât text me back.â Part of the process.
âI fell asleep before finishing the method.â Part of the process.
âI feel nothingâs happening.â Still the process.
âI reacted. I cried. I spiraled.â All of it, part of the process.
Every high, every relapse, every agonizing day that feels like nothingâs changing and you donât know what youâre doingâpart of the process. Why? Because:
The second you decide youâre in the reality where it works and start acting accordingly. You claim every single thing that happens as part of the process confirming that your intention is being fulfilled, so thatâs now the world you live in.
Awareness begins filtering the world through that lens. Literally. Because youâve signaled to your awareness that âhey weâre in the reality where we get what we intend, so everything we see from now on is a part of that,â now the yellow brick road path opens up and reality has no choice BUT to lead you where you want.
The trick is to stop treating whatâs happening as a mistake. The moment you drop that label, your awareness stops scanning for failure, starts validating progress and observing reality accordingly.
Intention is actionâ not metaphorically, but functionally. The instant you set an intention, awareness shifts its focal point and reorganizes perception, behavior, and probability around the new reference. And action inevitability breeds what? AN OUTCOME. How the flying fuck are you gonna intend to shift and not shift? What are you worried about?? Never learning the âhowâ ?? News flash: the how is born from the intention, never the other way around.
When you set an intention, you create a reference point that awareness now has to bridge itself toward. That bridge (the sequence of events, ideas, coincidences, impulses, whatever) is the âhow.â
But how are you going to cross that bridge if you still identify with being doomed and stuck?? Youâre allowed to have any self concept you want. A negative one wonât stop you from shifting, least of all manifestingâ BUT LEAST acknowledge youâre in the process of shifting.
And donât acknowledge anything else!! BECAUSE NOW THE BRIDGE TOWARDS THAT IS BEING BUILT INSTEAD!!
âI feel stuck and miserable, but at least Itâs already unfoldingâ >> âI feel stuck and miserable, plus I donât know what to do.â
The former is gonna lead you towards the âhowâ.
âBut a process implies that I donât have it yet,â âa process implies itâs not instant.â
Dude, even instant things are a process. Blinking is âinstant,â and yet if you take into account the muscles contracting, the nerves, the brain signalingâitâs still a process. The second you intended to have it, instantly it became yours in your awareness, in your reality. But even if it were to show up 1 second or 1 week laterâ it would be a process either way.
Let yourself breathe and accept that youâre in the process of shifting/manifesting. The alternative is constantly flipping between âshiftedâ and ânot shifted,â âmanifestedâ and âdidnât manifest.â As if itâs that black and white. Itâs not. It never is. What feels better? Sitting there telling yourself you donât have your manifestation yet, that you donât know what youâre doing wrongâor saying that you do have it, youâre just in the process of it unfolding?
Why are you accepting anything else?? Why would you, now knowing that itâs unfolding, approach advice hoping itâll be the key thatâll make you shiftâ and then abandon it 2 seconds later when the words you read didnât magically spawn you into your DR? Do you have any idea how insane you look? When you know that reality is literally whatever you make it to be? Do you? (yâall, I didnât).
The way you observe realityâ be it through the law of assumption, law of attraction, non-duality, idkâit matters. It unfortunately matters. My god I wish it didnât, but it matters.
So at least, AT LEAST acknowledge that youâre in the process of it unfolding. Just like wavering, contradicting yourself, doubting, and crying wonât stop you from shifting, calling this thing a process wonât delay it.
If anything, it makes it happen faster. Because now youâre defining every moment (the wins, the fails, the lows, the breakthroughs) as part of the process of getting what you want. That automatically tells your awareness itâs observing a reality where itâs inevitably yours. So itâs already guaranteed.
Your ONLY job is to not accept anything else. ... OH! There you go again, saying you âdonât understand, donât know what to do, that youâre lostâ when YOU KNOW FULL WELL THAT âMETAPHYSICS ASIDEâ IF YOU ACT LIKE A PERSON WHOâS LOST, YOUâRE GOING TO TAKE ACTIONS OF A PERSON WHOâS LOST MOTHER FUCJCJDHSHS
Anyway yeah this is what Iâd tell myself. And then Iâd go make myself coffee and dump Baileys in it....
ALSO another reminder that (this goes in general but also for shifting) shifters on here don't owe you anything. they don't owe you answers, or information about their private lives and relationships. if you have yet to shift i can understand why it doesn't feel like it would hold as much weight as it does here but trust me, it does, if not more. those realities are our lives, and those people are our actual friends, and partners. don't ask shifters questions that you wouldn't want asked of you regarding your personal life and relationships. i say this because obviously the asks i answer are because i'm comfortable with them (even tho i am behind on my asks im sorry) but sometimes i get some crazy questions in my ask box or inbox about conrad, and it's kinda mind blowing to me. and this is coming from me who's pretty open already about sharing things. anyway that's all thanks for coming to my tedtalk.