Welcome to my blog.
I go by Cynthia. I'm in my twenties. And I am a spectrophile.
What does that mean? A spectrophile is someone who experiences attraction to ghosts. Most spectrophiles claim to have had sexual encounters with ghosts, usually in dreams. However, when I refer to myself as a spectrophile, what I mean is that I am in love with a ghost. Although I have spoken to him, I try not to bother him too much. I just try to be kind and friendly to him.
On this blog, I refer to him as Philip. He was a real person who died more than a hundred years before I was born ( interestingly, I was born in a hospital very close to the site that he haunts ). Rumors of his apparition started soon after his death and still circulate. I found out about him when I was 12 and I've secretly been in love with him ever since, though for a while I ignored him. I've had roughly 3 to 5 paranormal experiences with him, and none of them were bad. But, then again, he was a friendly person in life and a benign ghost after his death.
I don't intend to give away too much information about Philip or myself, so expect lots of cryptic posts and tags. However, I want to connect with other spectrophiles and hear their stories: it's pretty lonely being in love with a dead man! LOL. Feel free to anon me and tell me about your ghosts and ghostly relationships. While I can't promise I'll be able to answer everything, I'll try my best!














