a day in the life of a loser

mainly yapping about loser things

[loserdiariess]

Do you think it's normal to eat without feeling guilty?

If you struggle with food then no I don't believe that, I myself struggle with many things, but I believe that if you give yourself some breather, you're able to actually eat without feeling guilty. Let yourself heal. be happy. 🫂🫂

[loserdiariess]

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[loserdiariess]

I got asked this by someone recently. Is it normal for a partner to treat their own lover badly?

The only logical answer to that question is no, no one really deserves to remain in the same space as someone that's mean to them, and for some people it can be hard. Holding on it difficult, but you shouldn't settle for the bare minimum when you're partner is being rude to you. Speak up, if it doesn't work out then leave!

I struggled for so long with so many things and in relationships I found out that it doesn't really help to rely on someone. Going on my fourth year of being single and I've been the happiest I've ever been, sometimes, finding comfort in someone can cause you your own downfall, don't settle for less. Be your own comfort.

[loserdiariess]

the fear of loneliness.

have you ever thought to yourself. 'do i need love to feel whole?'

maybe not, but this is the first blog im about to post around here, and its a reminder that no matter what happens, never let yourself get used just to feel something, or for the fear of missing out. i did it multiple times and it made me miserable.

1 - never force yourself to be around people that don't want you around, even if you're lonely. its better to be alone rather than surround yourself with fake people.

2 - don't let people use you just because you wanna feel special. the right people will come around and make you feel so special.

3 - don't force yourself to be in a relationship you don't wanna be in. people are mean, they are inconsiderate. and no one will understand you better than you and someone that will come when the timing is right.

4 - the right people would never shame you for your habits, your likes, your intrests, they will do their best to make you feel special, ask about the subject even. dont. settle. for. less.

5 - people who are mean to you ARENT worth your time, even if they say they didn't mean it, they are lying, otherwise they wouldn't say something as file and cruel.

these are just some stuff, but the correct amount of love your given should be real, not fake, not something you wanna hear. thank you for taking time to read this, i hope you have a wonderful day. remember that you're valid and so beautiful. welcome home losers <3