Kink is Art

23 Trans Woman | She/It | Therian | Disabled | Amateur Photographer | Attention Whore | Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/quasi-loki.bsky.social

[lostpuppyquasi]

Dressing someone up is the most intimate thing you can possibly do.

No, I'm not just saying this because I've been wearing the exact same style of outfit for the last decade

...okay that's definitely part of it.

But still.

Like, being put in a cute outfit; something you'd never wear in a million years; solely because your partner thought you'd look cute

Having makeup put on because they wanna see how beautiful you'd look

Having someone who loves you take care of this, sometimes stressful, part of your life

Never having to worry about your appearance, because they make you look perfect. Like their own personal dress up doll.

[satellitedusterart]

scooter 🛵

[greatergirlfriend]

top 5 mutuals whose collars i want connected to mine by a very short chain

[lostpuppyquasi]

Starting a herd ^_^

[valtsv]

"here's my original character, Man Who Sucks But Loves His Daughter Very Much" and it's a guy who worships at the altar of patriarchal violence and the woman he uses as an excuse and an effigy to absolve him

[valtsv]

well i think his daughter should tell him to kill himself

[lostpuppyquasi]

Maes Hughes from FMA

[ashes2caches]

tgirl dom who accidentally switches to her sub alter during foreplay. like a wolf melting into a puppy.

[nikonikonek000]

little pet

[colonthree312]

Lovely girl

[duskwingmoth]

Autistic girl conditioned through a lifetime of trauma to be deathly afraid of waking people up because what if they're loud and angry and violent: uuhm,...,,., ma'am are you okay, the bus is, around the, corner,,,,,, ,, were you, waiting for thhe bus, ,,, ,

[duskwingmoth]

[duskwingmoth]

do Not call me Bocchi-coded i will cry because you're 150% correct

[gumi-megpoidd]

she wants to play goo goo babies

[lostpuppyquasi]

Hot water bottle my beloved

[lostpuppyquasi]

Having some fun before work ૮ ˶⁠ˆ ﻌ ˆ˶⁠ ა

[samipekoe]

snake kisses anyone

[advosart]

Your aura is rancid

[lostpuppyquasi]

I wonder what my aura smells like ......

I'm guessing coffee.

[kayla-denker]

Hey, you, cis girl that's very (correctly) vocal about women being allowed to talk about their periods, do you include trans women in that?

I ask because every single time I've tried to talk about it to anyone that isn't a trans woman they get fucking angry. Which has caused me to have to just suffer in silence every single month. So I really relate to cis women when they talk about literally the exact same thing; being shamed by everyone around them their whole lives for talking about their periods, so they just suffer in silence every month as it negatively impacts their work and social lives. But I don't even feel like I can voice that I am literally dealing with the same exact thing because most of y'all react like you want to throw me in front of a bus for saying it, even those of you who act like your such big great transfem allies.

[kayla-denker]

I guess I'll take this opportunity to talk about trans women periods. The first thing any tme person thinks when they hear this is always "how can trans women have periods? They don't have uteruses!"

The answer is: the uterus isn't what causes your period, it is effected by your period. What causes your period and what causes trans women's periods is the same thing: the endocrine system.

HRT changes the sex of your endocrine system. Feminizing HRT makes it a female endocrine system, giving us a 28-day hormone cycle just like cis women. At the end of that cycle, the hypothalamus floods the body with prostaglandins. Those are what cause all but one of the period symptoms, because they make muscles inflame and contract. They are what make the uterus shed its lining, they are what cause intestinal cramps, they are what cause body aches, they are what cause headaches and migraines. The only period symptom not causes by the release of prostaglandins throughout the body is depression, and that is caused by your endocrine system simply not processing as much estrogen and from simply feeling like shit.

So, the only symptoms trans women don't get every 28 days is menstrual cramps, because yes we do not menstruate since we don't have uteruses. But migraines, depression, body aches, intestinal cramps, and the infamous "period shits" don't exactly add up to us having any better of a time. Except we have to pretend that we're fine and nothing is different because no one believes that we get periods, not even cis women.

"But you can't call it a period then because that refers to MENSTRUATION!" is another one I hear all the time. This is incorrect. You use the word "period" instead of just "menstruation" because it doesn't just refer to menstruation. It refers to a period at the end of the hormone cycle where we experience a host of symptoms. And not all cis women experience all of the symptoms that encompass the period. Not all cis women get migraines, or body aches, or have severe depression. If a cis woman gets a hysterectomy she doesn't menstruate either! In that instance she experiences an identical period to what trans women experience. Yet, I doubt you'd insist that cis women who've had hysterectomies don't have periods.

[kayla-denker]

Oh, another thing that I personally discovered after bottom surgery: vaginal odor changes for trans women during our periods too. I was not expecting that because I always thought it was just from menstruation. But nope, the ph levels of a trans woman's vagina are the same of as a cis woman's vagina, and it changes during our periods just the same.

[lostpuppyquasi]

.....

OH

Is that what that is.

Fuck

I guess I should start tracking that.

[lostpuppyquasi]

Having some fun before work ૮ ˶⁠ˆ ﻌ ˆ˶⁠ ა

[xalatath]

3-5 turkey vultures will soon be dispatched to your location.

[lostpuppyquasi]

Oh thank god