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Mike Driver
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@loveharmonyhealing
I think you need a break
alternatives to “i want to die”:
i want things to change
i want a different life
today was a shitty day/week
i don’t want to live like this
i want to be somewhere else in life
i’m not where i want to be yet
+ much more
when kosinski wrote “i’m sure there are aspects of my personality buried within me that will surface as soon as i know i am completely loved.”
"Just because I'm right, doesn't mean I'm being helpful" is a vastly underrated thought process that I strongly encourage others to get comfortable with
People who are sincere, on the other hand, won’t just apologize; they’ll also make a clear statement about how they intend to do things differently.
When you tell people that they’ve hurt or disappointed you, observe their response. Do they just defend themselves, or do they try to change? Do they apologize just to appease you, or do they understand and care about what you felt?
-Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents, Lindsay Gibson
The Dialectical Behavior Therapy Skills Workbook
Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents (Lindsay Gibson, 2015)
"Growing up in a family with emotionally immature parents is a lonely experience.
These parents may look and act perfectly normal, caring for their child’s physical health and providing meals and safety.
However, if they don’t make a solid emotional connection with their child, the child will have a gaping hole where true security might have been.
The loneliness of feeling unseen by others is as fundamental a pain as physical injury, but it doesn’t show on the outside.
Emotional loneliness is a vague and private experience, not easy to see or describe.
You might call it a feeling of emptiness or being alone in the world.
Some people have called this feeling existential loneliness, but there’s nothing existential about it. If you feel it, it came from your family.
Children have no way of identifying a lack of emotional intimacy in their relationship with a parent. It isn’t a concept they have.
And it’s even less likely that they can understand that their parents are emotionally immature.
All they have is a gut feeling of emptiness, which is how a child experiences loneliness.
With a mature parent, the child’s remedy for loneliness is simply to go to the parent for affectionate connection.
But if your parent was scared of deep feelings, you might have been left with an uneasy sense of shame for needing comforting."
“Traumatic events of the earliest years of infancy and childhood are not lost, but…are often preserved lifelong. Time does not heal the wounds that occur in those earliest years; time conceals them. They are not lost; they are embodied.”
— VJ Felitti, The Impact of Early Life Trauma on Health and Disease
do your thing and be quiet about it