Im always surprised when people come up to me asking for advice about relationships and how they picture our relationship the “perfect one.” I always say the same thing because it’s true. “My boyfriend and I are not perfect, we have our highs and lows just like everyone else. But one thing we don’t do is fight! Which I’m so thankful for. We both are mature adults who talk things out and have serious discussions. Sometimes we say things we don’t mean because we are sarcastic assholes and it slips out but knowing that we have this amazing communication and trust between us, that’s what keeps us strong and growing. So no, we aren’t perfect, what you see is two best friends who are obnoxiously in love and aren’t afraid to show it.” I also get asked, “How did you do it? How did you already find the person you’re gonna spend the rest of your life with?!” My answer has never been more clear. “It’s because I fell in love with my best friend!” We’ve dealt with so much when we were just homies/friends and it made our friendship so strong that when we got together, it just felt right. I will always remember our first kiss. It was something I’ve been waiting for and kissing him for the first time…it felt perfect. It felt like this is the person I want to kiss everyday for the rest of my life. We’ve both always had mutual feelings about things, which is scary sometimes how we really, REALLY, know each other. With us, it never gets awkward, we have no boundaries, we are always honest (sometimes too honest), we have so much in common, (except for transformers…honey…that can just be your thing 😉) but overall, as much as I’m mushy and all cute with him…he truly is everything I’ve ever wanted in a man and I couldn’t be happier. I love him. I really do love him. 💕
