Empathie lernen

Hey, I am Lilli. I would like to help people to become less selfish in specific situations and empathize more with others. Feel free to tell me your story and I try to show you how you could think instead in such a situation. I would like to help :) have fun. Deutsche Version: Ich möchte gerne Menschen dabei unterstützen empathischer und weniger selbstsüchtig in spezifischen Situationen zu handeln. Fühlt euch frei mir Situationen zu schildern in denen ihr vielleicht hättet anders reagieren können oder sollen. Genauso zukünftige Szenarien oder Entscheidungen, für die ihr eine zweite Meinung bräuchtet. Ich möchte gerne helfen :) viel spaß. ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ...

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Stell dir vor

Stell dir einfach mal vor wie es deinem Gegenüber gehen könnte, was er fühlen könnte und warum. Und dann schau ob du ihm helfen kannst oder wie du für ihn da sein kannst. <3

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The Importance of Empathy

Try to understand how other people experience the world. Read more: lifehac.kr/C2ePfNa Lifehacker: Tips and downloads for getting things done. http://lifehac...

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Für Empathen geeignete Kristalle :)

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5 Überlebenstipps für Empathen & Hochsensible

Empathie bedeutet mit den Augen des anderen sehen, mit den Ohren des anderen hören, mit dem Herzen des anderen fühlen und noch viel mehr. Hier sind meine 5 w...

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My second story

Hi,

I went through a breakup recently, it was a long-distance relationship and we didn’t see each other in person since we got together (6 months).

So the guy was travelling and fell in love with somebody else. I was very very angry the last 2 months but recently I thought about why exactly I have so much hatered in me for this situation. I am a reasonable and very realistic person I have to say.

So my problem was not at all that he fell in love with somebody else and that my ego was hurt, because everybody has the need to be important and feel special, so in the beginning I just felt exchanged with somebody else what made me mad. But actually I understand how fast some people can fall in love and that’s why I am not mad about that.

The thing which made me let go of him and this relationship (which was very special to me because he was the first guy since long I made future plans with), is how he treated me and acted while he fell in love with this woman, he tried to keep me while running behind her and he said that he didn’t want to hurt my feelings by telling me the truth but he knew me so well that he knew I would overcome and let go, and this scared him. He kept me in his sphere while telling me that he loves me too (even more) but in a situation he had to choose between hurting her or hurting me he choose to hurt my feelings and express the love to her.

He still tries to contact me with commenting insta story’s even though I told him that I need at least one year without any contact before I am able to be friends with him. So this selfishness of a person is what made me realise that I didn’t made a good choice getting together with him. I don’t care about his love to that woman, but I do care about how he expresses love towards me.

I can let go of my anger now because I forgive myself for getting together with him mostly out of loneliness (also selfish) and not because I really loved his soul how it is every present moment.

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Brené Brown on Empathy

What is the best way to ease someone's pain and suffering? In this beautifully animated RSA Short, Dr Brené Brown reminds us that we can only create a genuin...

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Autism and empathy

Just want to remind everyone that empathy is actually made up of two componments; emotional empathy and cognitive empathy.

Often you will hear that people with Autism or Aspurgers have an empathy disorder, or cannot feel empathy.

That is only half true. People with autism only understand and recognise one componment of empathy; the emotional one.

This means that we can actually feel empathy, but we don’t recognise when we should feel it. The cognitive empathy which picks up on signs of distress, saddness or anger in others is in disrepair. Hence we might not understand that we are supposed to feel sorry for you, comfort you or calm you.

But lets say you flat out told us you were sad, or we read a text saying you were sad. We get that. We can feel empathy for you.

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Have compassion for yourself!!! I cannot say that enough. You are human. You are imperfect. You’ve been wrong in speech and action. You’ve made mistakes and you will make more! But you are still worthy of empathy, understanding, and love. You deserve this and I understand self compassion can be hard, but it is a practice to work at. We deserve that within ourselves. 

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empathy to take away

Opening up the door of a train so that another person can catch it - empathy,

sometimes it's as easy as that.

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Empathy vs Sympathy: Which one are you?

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https://intercessio.de/erfolgreiches-recruiting-im-digital-age-geht-nur-mit-empathie/

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Eine Geschichte

Hallo, 

ich bin 29 Jahre jung und fange einfach mal an über mich zu erzählen bis hoffentlich andere Menschen hier mit machen und über sich erzählen.

Ich war vor Jahren mal bei einem Fotografen um Bilder für ein Visum erstellen zu lassen. Beim warten auf die fertigen Bilder saß eine ältere Dame mit mir im Aufenthaltsraum/Wartezimmer. Sie fing, irgendwann nachdem wir uns höflich angelächelt hatten, an von sich zu erzählen. Sie erzählte mir von ihren 3 Adoptivkindern und wie gut sie sich gemacht haben im Leben, da sie alle studiert haben und wichtige und angesehene Berufe erlernten (einer ist Anwalt der andere Politiker) den Rest weiß ich nicht mehr.

Ich habe ihr ehrlich aufmerksam zugehört weil es interessant war und ich in guter Stimmung. Und das besondere (für mich) kam am Ende, als ich meine Bilder bekommen habe und ihr zum Abschied die Hand gereicht habe, sagte sie “Danke dass sie mir zugehört haben”. Das hat mir den restlichen Tag versüßt und nach 2 Jahren denke ich noch manchmal daran und freue mich.

Also.. das war die erste Geschichte zu meinem Leben und mir, in meinem ganz neuen Blog über Empathie. :) Ich hoffe das es jemandem gefallen wird.