Growing up
There’s something about growing up that just doesn’t feel right. It doesn’t feel right because it’s so foreign, it’s so new. But there comes this moment where you want to engage with people not to compare yourself, but to genuinely participate in an adult conversation about each other’s successes and failures on a level of maturity that hasn’t been utilized until now. But when you are faced with people who only judge your actions and can’t contribute to this level of conversation, you are faced with a decision to wither humor them or let them go. And this is a crossroads no one tells you about...
However, I urge you to go with your gut. If you love the judemental person and can see past their shallowness, hold on to them and stick it through. But if this level of judgement is too much, if it weighs you down.. let it go. You will be lighter for it.
