[lettersiarrange]

My Facebook meme groups DELIVERED

[saddeus]

I sent this to a boy and he said it was too long and wouldnt read it

[sosuperawesome]

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Follow So Super Awesome on Instagram

[revolutionarykoolaid]

[seriesofnonsequiturs]

Lin Manuel Miranda; Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson; Terry Crews; Fred Rogers

Taika Waititi: Powerfully creative, Knows himself, Good humored, Takes his work and his relationships with other people seriously, Intentional as a creator

John Mulaney: Publicly supportive of his wife and other women in his life, Crafts humor without taking cheap shots at people, Supportive friend, Willing to laugh at himself yet confident

Andy Samberg: Uses platform and humor to publicly call out toxic masculinity and white privilege, Self-aware, Willing to cede the floor to others, Good friend

Will Smith: Very intentional about what type of actions he takes as a husband and father (if you haven’t watched him on The Red Table, you should), Good humored and professional, Dedicated to his craft putting in the hours and energy, Generous with his emotions and vulnerability, Responsive to others emotions and vulnerability

I read somewhere that one aspect of Toxic Masculinity is believing that being part of a “We” will erase the “I”; that selfhood is threatened by relationships with other people. It reads then that Healthy Masculinity (indeed, healthy people in general) create a “We” that enhances the “I”; that we can become more powerfully ourselves through relationships with other people. 

All these men listed (and many more unlisted) live this type of energy, the one that builds connections without fear of losing the self - and in fact builds the self more with the building of connections. 

[theother-will-grayson]

This version of this post is important

[blytthe]

I’m not leaving because I’m scared, or because I think I’m not enough - because maybe for the first time in my life, I know I am. I just love Nick so much, I don’t want him to lose his mom again. So I just wanted you to know: that one day - when he marries another lucky girl who is enough for you, and you’re playing with your grandkids while the Tan Hua’s are blooming, and the birds are chirping - that it was because of me: a poor, raised by a single mother, low class, immigrant nobody.

Crazy Rich Asians (2018), dir. Jon M. Chu

[thegoodplacefans]

Manny Jacinto photographed by Sela Shiloni (2018)

[misshoneywheeler]

[k-worlddd]

Amazing hahaha 😺🍜💕

[hellyeahanarchistposters]

[peachy-political]

The Momo Challenge is fake!

Please stop spreading it.

The media and internet users have amplified this hoax to the point where schools have warned parents about it and parents are taking away childrens internet access or phones altogether.

Even the Safer Internet Centre and NSPCC say its a hoax.

Youtube has said no actual videos involving the Momo challenge have been found, no self harm or suicides have been linked to this.

The mass hysteria over this is harming children more than the challenge.

[cageyblue]

The “spooky figure” attached to this BS is just some nice person’s artwork, they’ve said publicly that they’re really hurt by people using their sculpture for shock value like this

[missymalice]

one of my biggest pet peeves is when people are like, “i don’t care, my significant other can go through my phone. i have nothing to hide.” 

okay. first of all.

wanting a partner to respect your privacy doesn’t necessarily go hand in hand with “having something to hide.” maybe you’d just prefer that they trust you without putting you under surveillance like a fucking prisoner? 

second.

it’s not only your privacy. if you’re cool with that shit, i really hope you’re informing all your friends and family members who discuss their personal lives with you that they should be prepared for your shitty SO to read through all their messages to you, but i’m betting you’re not doing that. 

maybe your bestie from high school doesn’t want your boyfriend seeing her emotional messages about her recent breakup? maybe your sister doesn’t want him reading her messages about struggles with her kids or her marriage? maybe your friend with mental health issues isn’t counting on you sharing their struggles with anyone else? 

maybe you should grow up and realize that if your partner loves and respects you, they’ll believe you have nothing to hide without checking for themself. 

[missymalice]

some of you in the comments are dense as hell. your trust issues brought on by past cheaters do not give you free reign to emotionally abuse your partner. sorry, work on yourself and then get into a relationship because if you feel the need to do this shit, you’re not ready. 

[hellenhighwater]

I see a lot of people who tell young people–especially young people who are heading into college–that they should “do what they love.” And they’re right. You should do what you love.

But there’s a world of difference between doing what you love for you, and doing what you love for a paycheck. 

I went to undergrad for graphic design and 3-D design–art and more art, I usually say–and I loved it. You know what I didn’t love? Trying to collect my fees from clients. Trying to meet unrealistic, over-simplified or over-specific briefs from people who didn’t know what they were talking about. Coming home, having worked creatively all day, with no creative juice left for the things I wanted to do.

You know what I would tell you instead? Do something that you can be interested in, with people you like.

You don’t have to love it. Loving your work can be a lot, and it often means you have to live in your job 24/7. Some people can do that. Not everyone can, or should.  But if you can find work that’s interesting enough that it doesn’t feel tedious, and people you can enjoy spending your 9-5 with, and you can make money, that’s great! It means you can do the things you love for you.

I’m in law school now. It’s interesting work, and difficult, and I like doing it. I like how complicated it gets, and I like the stories it tells. But I don’t come home and read law journals for fun. I come home, and I sculpt, and I draw, and I paint, and I read. I do these things for me.

And I love it. 

[shimmeringecho]

Gods I wish I’d had this ten years ago when everyone was pushing for me to do art for a living. Probably wouldn’t have burned out as hard as I did

[madeline-kahn]

Bao (2018) dir. Domee Shi - Oscar winner for Best Animated Short

[dankmemeuniversity]

[arodudejude]

me at four in the afternoon watching a 2hr video essay tearing apart a movie that i’ve never seen

[killtheteendream]

i can still quote fran’s response word for word

[kohl-yis]

she

she just

she just did that

[winterswake]

Congratulations to Spider-Man: Into The Spider-Verse on winning Best Animated Feature!

[thechanelmuse]

[kar120c]

What a remarkable woman.

[thetattedstoner]

Wholesome

[savethesvmulet]

hey please watch at least four episodes of One Day at a Time on Netflix so we can get a fourth season

some reasons why:

main character is a single veteran cuban mother who deals with ptsd, depression and anxiety

it has mental health awareness!! in this new season we can see penelope (main character) being more open about her mental ilnesses

lgbt+ representation !! and it’s positive !!!

it deals with alcohol addiction too

it talks about feminism, politics and the importance of voting, racism, religion, white-passing, deportation and a bunch of other really important stuff

RITA MORENO

it’s a show about a cuban family, and all the actors and actresses who portray latinx characters ARE actually latinx, meaning no white washing !!!!

watch it! tell your friends!! help us have a new season because this show deserves it, and the people who this show represents deserve it too.