Lupe Accalia

Hi there. My name is Lupe. Or at least you could call me that. I'm just a normal girl with certain ideas and interests. This is my personal blog in which I simply express myself. Expect some artcicles, photos, and rants. :) -Lupe #personal #asks #fitness #fashion

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A lot of it is really rude.

Maybe I’m missing the point, but something like: “Thin privilege is being able to walk down the street without being laughed at and called a fat-ass.”

……is that really a fucking privilege?? Or should that be fucking human decency to not do that...

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That's true. Bullying isn't restricted to just fat people and it seems we all forgot that at some point. Privilege is something more restricting, and to be quite honest, there is a fucking privilege for everything so yeah. :/

People only choose to fight was is convenient for them.

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“Nobody deserves to be cyberbullied. As far as the not making her beg, she said she was sorry several times.”

You obviously did not see the way she “apologized.” She apologized in an “I’m sorry for caring” sarcastic sort of way. You are relatively new, so I wouldn’t expect you to know that.

“They said she needed to know what they wanted to hear, only a mind reader can do that. She admitted she made mistakes, that was not good enough for them.”

Of course she is not a mind reader, but she could read and she could the difference between right and wrong. And her “apologies” were even more insulting than her original insults.

“Good people accept sorry.”

No. Because then, good people wouldn’t be taking a genuine “sorry” they’d be taking a fake one and the offense would be repeated.

“They do not gather an army of anonymous Tumblrers on their blog to gang up on someone.”

You mean her victims standing up to their bullies as one? She was not taken down for no reason.

“Lookoutpinkie had told me (How, exactly?) she was angry because all her life her feelings were not validated, while other people’s feelings were.”

So she invalidates other people’s feeling, okay, nice approach there.

“Once she realized this she tried to apologize (she didnt), but those who wanted their revenge did not accept her apologies. (there was no revenge to be exacted, she hardly did a thing.)”

“Perhaps if you really care about finding the bullies in this situation, look for those whomever apologized. Those who continue to find others they can hurt. Those are the real bullies. Lookoutpinkie was not a victim, but she realized she had done wrong and tried to make things right.(With fake apologies, may I add??) The ones who made her feel her only option was to leave Tumblr,  they have yet to apologize for the damage they have done.”

She didn’t leave. She was taken down for bullying and harassment. The ones who took her down (AKA tumblr STAFF) ought to apologize, not her victims.

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Well she told me she wanted to make sure that people understand she truly was sorry. There was a lot of confusion towards the end of things, and I told her it would be a waste of time because those people never cared in the first place, they just wanted to have a target to place their anger on to. I think the problem was she didn’t understand that you can’t help everyone, and that sometimes you have to block people. Instead she became frustrated with the people who demanded they had a right to do what they wanted with their bodies, even if that meant destroying them.

I suppose everyone got hurt by this. Nothing can come of dwelling on that pain. I want to apologize on lookoutpinkie’s behalf, as long as it doesn’t mean people will demand of me to guess at what they would consider the perfect custom-tailored apology for them.

Part of life, is learning that sorry is the best you can hope from some people. The tragedy in all of this is, that another person was made to learn the hard lesson, that sometimes caring is more trouble than it’s worth. I’m sorry lookoutpinkie was sarcastic, but sarcasm is a common defensive tactic one develops after what seemed to be a lifetime of bullying. Everyone makes mistakes, and no one is perfect. Maybe lookoutpinkie has another account somewhere, I don’t know. I know that they honestly did learn that they were hurting others because they felt pain themselves.

Now it is time for those who are still upset to try and understand what motivates them to continue this. Even if lookoutpinkie was still on here, she would never reveal herself after what occurred. Sometimes people do deserve a second chance, and it takes something upsetting to help them learn. So I hope those of you upset by lookoutpinkie will be able to move on.

I hope this has wrapped things up, because this is the absolute last thing I will say about this. Perhaps lookoutpinkie is in someways a better person than I am, because she tried to help others. I have only been further jaded against trying to help those likely to refuse it, I’m not a fan of that drama. So here’s to moving on, taking a right at the fork in the road, water under the bridge, and other euphemisms I cannot think of.

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Apparently she told you a lot of things, considering she's gone and you were made shortly afterward...

Mind reading.

Anyways, I agree with much, but you are doing the same thing she did: call her victims trolls and bullies. You are not defending her you are defending yourself, so this is going to play a huge part on you.

But whatever you want to promote hate, be my guest.

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"Nobody deserves to be cyberbullied. As far as the not making her beg, she said she was sorry several times."

You obviously did not see the way she "apologized." She apologized in an "I'm sorry for caring" sarcastic sort of way. You are relatively new, so I wouldn't expect you to know that.

"They said she needed to know what they wanted to hear, only a mind reader can do that. She admitted she made mistakes, that was not good enough for them."

Of course she is not a mind reader, but she could read and she could the difference between right and wrong. And her "apologies" were even more insulting than her original insults.

"Good people accept sorry."

No. Because then, good people wouldn't be taking a genuine "sorry" they'd be taking a fake one and the offense would be repeated.

"They do not gather an army of anonymous Tumblrers on their blog to gang up on someone."

You mean her victims standing up to their bullies as one? She was not taken down for no reason.

"Lookoutpinkie had told me (How, exactly? mind reading are we?) she was angry because all her life her feelings were not validated, while other people’s feelings were."

So she invalidates other people's feeling, okay, nice approach there.

"Once she realized this she tried to apologize (she didnt), but those who wanted their revenge did not accept her apologies. (there was no revenge to be exacted, she hardly did a thing.)"

"Perhaps if you really care about finding the bullies in this situation, look for those whomever apologized. Those who continue to find others they can hurt. Those are the real bullies. Lookoutpinkie was not a victim, but she realized she had done wrong and tried to make things right.(With fake apologies, may I add??) The ones who made her feel her only option was to leave Tumblr,  they have yet to apologize for the damage they have done."

She didn't leave. She was taken down for bullying and harassment. The ones who took her down (AKA tumblr STAFF) ought to apologize, not her victims. Otherwise, it would be pretty hypocritical of her to post a long post about she stood up to her bullies and was not going to go down without a fight. BEFORE being taken down. (or deleting.)

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Alright, let's break this down:

How can you even compare paying people who grow plants and paying people who kill? I was not comparing pay, ma'am, I was comparing the work and effort it takes to eat the meal you make. there is nothing wrong with buying something someone else worked for, there’s a reason why you pay money for. Killing is wrong, I will attest to that. But that was not my point. As for the painless slaughter, I am jewish and I saw how this animals are being killed, it’s anything but painless(I added as painless as it could humanely be). Also Judaism is not the only religion out there. There is Hindu, Pagan, Islamic, all of which have different views on meat and how it is hunted, butchered, and such. But that’s not the point.. it doesn’t matter how we use them because we shouldn’t be using them at all(says who?), they don’t belong to us. Tell that to the rest of the animal kingdom. and if you’re still convinced it ok please watch this-http://www.chooseveg.com/kosher-slaughter.asp

a trigger warning would help here, but whutever, it's cool, because only jews kill their animals differently.

“being vegan is expensive”- no. meat is a privilege. (You are so wrong here. EVERYTHING is a privilege nowadays, and guess what, so is veganism.You mean to tell me people in cold climates have what it takes to be fully vegan considering plants and fruits are damn near impossible to grow, or the fact that being a vegan is only an option open to first world countries? Really?) it is totally up to you to decide what kind of products you consume. processed food will always be more expensive! vegan or not. What are you talking about?? Organic food is WAY more expensive, and that's not supposed to be processed- AT ALL. I can’t see how a vegan diet could hurt anyone,

here is a forum: http://www.veggieboards.com/t/131360/is-there-any-legitimacy-to-people-saying-they-cant-be-veg-n

This discuss vegetarianism, a lesser of the two evils, and even some people have a health problem.

http://www.beyondveg.com/nicholson-w/veg-prob/veg-prob-scen1c.shtml

And lastly, here are the pros and cons of the health of veganism:

http://serendip.brynmawr.edu/biology/b103/f05/web2/shunt.html

as long as you eat healthy and make sure it’s balanced(with the help of supplements.). you can get everything your body needs, no need to use and hurt others.

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hold on, washing dishes, and I like the arguments you posted. so hold on... ok? <3

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I have doubts, although similarity is uncanny. But this? Really? Just gas that flame why don’t ya?

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I cannot make those who wish to persecute me over their hate obsession with lookoutpinkie choose the right path, I was hoping this might help guide them. You should be more concerned that due to Tumblr’s lax control over repeated trolls and bullies, that these people will go on to hurt others.

They made lookoutpinkie beg for forgiveness, they did not accept her apologies, they expected her to somehow know what they wanted her to say. Not giving someone a way out is bullying, intimidation is bullying. I’m sure if they looked through the My Little Pony Friendship is Magic tag, they’d find other “lookoutpinkies” too. They are fixated on me because I refuse to back down at their attempts to bully another person who unlike them has the ability of caring for others. I would have never known about her if one of those obsessed trolls didn’t fan mail me with their paranoid suspicions that I was her.

I’m willing to let this go, but I will not stand for a certain malicious troll who keeps creating personal attack sites claiming I am lookoutpinkie. They are adding fuel to the fire, as well as a Tumblrer named Shitxue. Perhaps you should be telling them to put this to rest.

If people remained silent about bullying, it would never stop. Consider this next time you claim someone who is standing up to those who build themselves up on those they can bring down, is adding fuel to the fire. They are being brave, instead of weak as the bullies would want them to be.

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I don't know. In my personal opinion you should be writing that to "lookoutpinkie is fluttersparkles." instead, you wrote to shitxue.

They didn't make LOP beg. They tried to make her see what was wrong and she blantantly insulted them by calling her victims bullies...

If you don't want people bugging you, I would suggest you stop promoting the individuals and ideas going behind this.

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Just in case.

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Suicide Hotline: [phone]

LifeLine: 1-800-273-8255

Trevor Project: 1-866-488-7386

Sexuality Support: 1-800-246-7743

Eating Disorders Hotline: [phone]

Rape and Sexual Assault: 1-800-656-4673

Grief Support: 1-650-321-5272

Runaway: 1-800-843-5200, 1-800-843-5678, 1-800-621-4000

Exhale: After Abortion Hotline/Pro-Voice: 1-866-439–4253

Reblogging because you know, someone out there could use one of these.

[vingardiumlesbiosa]

People who say veganism is not that important because there are so many huge problems with our world.

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One argument I always heard from vegans is that anyone can do it. (Mind you, I am not saying that this is what you as a person says, rather what I most hear.)

Not everyone can do it. There are factors; main one on my few reasons is that it's expensive as fuck. There is also the fact that where you live has a lot to do with those prices.

Second argument: It's healthier. I can see where it is healthier for most, but it is not for everyone. Most can do so no problem, some can, with the help of supplements, and other just can't.

Mind you, these have nothing to do with the ethics dealing with animals.

If you want ethics, I can bring them in: 

Animals feel pain. Well duh. We all do. This just "solved" with painless killing, as they do in some religion, where they slice the animal's neck open and REALLY try to kill them painlessly (as painless as they can), because they respect animals so much.

Humans are not above animals so that we eat them(or the we are animals also argument). Well, neither are tigers, I guess. I feel as human we feel so high and "mighty" by making a choice in a certain diet because "we are not above them" but totally ignore the carnivores in the animal kingdom. Want to really put yourself in their level? Hunt your meat, is my thought. Same goes with plants, stop buying them from stores, because you did not put the work nor effort to eat what others have grown for you. Grow your own garden.

The only reason I would seriously consider going vegan for would be health. But at the moment, I do not have the means to afford that diet.

I am not dissing vegans, I do not think they are wrong, but the reasons they all (or most, lets not lump them all together) get so "high and mighty" for, are very flawed and can sometimes be very insulting.

Edited to add: Note I am not stating these as facts, I am stating them as opinions. Try to refrain from calling dumb and ignorant as another person did, yeah?

[vingardiumlesbiosa]

People who say veganism is not that important because there are so many huge problems with our world.

OH I’M SORRY, tell me again when was the last time you did anything to fight wars? global warming, human rights, world hunger? how about racism,...

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I can stand for caring for animals and understanding that they too can feel pain. I am opposed to animal cruelty. I am not saying veganism is wrong all out, I give them my out most respect, but rather there are aspects to it that seems wrong to me. Please, refrain from trying assume what those reasons are and jumping to conclusions, hun. <3

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Ah, ok. lol In my head I was all "I really made no sense? Maybe I accidentaly insulted her then... ;o;"

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People who say veganism is not that important because there are so many huge problems with our world.

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Thanks. I’m glad you got it.

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I don’t … understand this person. Are they maybe not all there? Like, nothing they’re saying is making sense.

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Me or the Moon one? D: EDIT. Oops. meant darkness. lol

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People who say veganism is not that important because there are so many huge problems with our world.

OH I’M SORRY, tell me again when was...

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Thanks. I'm glad you got it.

[vingardiumlesbiosa]

People who say veganism is not that important because there are so many huge problems with our world.

OH I’M SORRY, tell me again when was the last time you did anything to fight wars? global warming, human rights, world hunger? how about racism,...

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?? I disagree with veganism and you tell me I'm dumb and ignorant, without even knowing my reason? H'okay. Well, nice to know this vegan is just one stupid person. <3 I'm so sorry for attempting to converse with someone of your level.

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HOSPICE HELPS DOGS IN THE LAST STAGES OF LIFE - “If the pet is dying, but still has quality of life and is happy, we’ll try to keep them comfortable…We’ll also help bring the family come to terms when it’s time to let go.”

An organization called Tracey’s Hope Hospice Care and Animal Rescue is the only pet hospice in Pennsylvania.  The dogs under the care of this group are terminally ill or elderly, and most are too sick to be adopted. The group also provides pet loss support and many other services.  Read more from psdispatch.com:

Currently, the agency has seven dogs up for adoption and 10 dogs in hospice care…It is also a no-kill rescue, adoption and foster care service. They also offer pet loss support services, euthanization performed in the home of the pet owner, animal rescue for elderly and terminally ill pets, home-environment boarding, help reunite lost pets with their owners and participate in investigations and court hearings concerning dog abuse.

They only have a veterinarian perform euthanasia if there is no hope for the animal and the animal is sick and suffering.

It seems like a very difficult job, but thanks to the hospice these dogs are able to meet their end in a loving atmosphere. Click here for the full story and here to learn more about Tracey’s Hope Hospice.

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oh yes before I forget

The Enchanted Forest Network is up and running. It has to do with magic, nature, mythology, and….FAE <3

http://the-enchanted-forest-network.tumblr.com/

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Kell fell asleep on the couch one night so we gave him a pillow and a blanket Which we made out of kleenex because we always have those around on our coffee table for when we watch feely stuffyou use all of them though

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MY HEART

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doesn’t even go with my blog but i can’t scroll past this without regretting not reblogging it. also, liam, you’ll probably like this.

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#how does a cat with a kleenex pillow ‘not go with your blog’#what the fuck are you doing with your life

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Awww he looks like my cat Simba!