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I look at you, and I just love you, and it terrifies me. It terrifies me what I would do for you.
Liam Stewart (Alexandra Bracken, Never Fade)
Sometimes home isn’t 4 walls, It’s 2 eyes and a heartbeat
It’s you (via bl-ossomed)
Quite a lot, it seems. If you’re an up-to-date, vibrant and successful organisation, you need a name that captures who and what you are. In as few syllables as possible. The ‘Hotel Catering Personnel and Training Association (HCPTA)’ hardly trips off the tongue and we knew we needed something more contemporary and energetic.
Besides, people tend to describe the profession as HR (human resources) rather than P & D (personnel & development) these days. HR in Hospitality is simple, easy to remember and describes exactly what we are about.
A responsive re-launch
The HCPTA was formed in May 1975 as an amalgamation between the Hotel & Catering Personnel Managers Association and The Hotel & Catering Training Association, both founded in the sixties. Both organisations were originally formed in response to the increase in UK employment legislation affecting the hospitality industry.
The re-launch as HR in Hospitality marks a more streamlined service and we’re exactly the forum HR professionals and other interested parties in the hospitality industry need to come together. In addition to the obvious benefits of networking, HR in Hospitality provides information and support in a variety of ways. For example, one of our aims is to facilitate members’ professional development through a programme of speakers on relevant topics. Another is to assist members newly appointed to the HR function. We liaise closely with trade bodies, government departments, trade and professional organisations and education and training. We want to be considered the leading forum and voice for HR in the hospitality industry and I believe we’re getting there. On 17th September, we held our first and very successful HR in Hospitality Awards for Excellence at Claridge’s Hotel.
We definitely want to expand our reach beyond London. Now through the refocusing of our activities together with the support of our partner, caterer.com, the UKs largest hospitality job board, we’ll be able to implement an expansion programme. Good news travels fast and HR in Hospitality is very good news!
Professionalism and leadership
Hospitality employs some remarkable talent. Every day people in this industry are faced with a unique balance of challenges. Day in, day out they use their skills, knowledge and other personal attributes to give people great experiences. Hospitality HR professionals are the ones who are responsible for attracting, engaging, developing and retaining this talent – it’s a major responsibility and also a privilege.
HR in Hospitality is about bringing out the best in our HR professionals. In my view, the truly great and successful HR practitioners have a very diverse range of skills and attributes.
"In my view, the truly great and successful HR practitioners have a very diverse range of skills and attributes."
They’re able to see the big picture but also have the ability to look at the detail, balancing concept, structure and planning with being practical and seeing things through. They have the skills and experience that makes them expert negotiators and excellent listeners. They are accountants, marketers, interpreters of the law, strategists, masters of team dynamics, operations managers, leaders and, occasionally, peace envoys. They are emotionally intelligent, bright, organised and able to communicate with clarity. They work hard, are dedicated and get things done. They balance empathy with nerves of steel.
I can always tell a great HR practitioner by the position and profile they hold within their company – they are key board players. A good example would be David Fairhurst, Senior Vice President and Chief People Officer at McDonald’s Restaurants Northern Europe, who was recently voted, for the second year running, HR's most influential practitioner across all UK industries.
Another who immediately springs to mind is Sean Wheeler, Group Director of People Development at Malmaison and Hotel du Vin. Amongst his many accolades, he was the winner of the CIPD Talent Management for Business Benefit Award. (Editor’s note: Leader agrees! We featured Sean in our second issue.)
Well run businesses always train
A recent study showed that 25% of hospitality businesses in the UK are doing more training in these challenging times. In my experience, such companies seem to be weathering the recession better than others. Is it a coincidence or just indicative of the fact that they have well run businesses all-around and wouldn’t consider dropping such an important part of their business activity?
In the UK, management and leadership development were casualties of the recessionary nineties. Businesses never really caught up again, with consequences across the board. Now we know that management and leadership are even more critical in the noughties because standards need to be higher, service offers are ever more diverse, competition is tougher, employees have higher expectations, and things move faster.
"Unless businesses have really good, well structured development options then the best applicants simply won’t be interested in them."
In a recession where competition is tougher, unless you go into ‘suicide pricing’, the only real differentiator is service. It’s the people who know what they’re doing who make a great impression on the customer. Everyone in this climate should be investing in ‘sales through service’ type training. There is always an increase in sales from this (usually by 10 - 20%) so why would anyone not be training in a recession?
Companies should make the most of their own resources by getting people to cross-train, buddy up, run mentoring schemes and so forth. This has the added benefit of bonding teams, improving motivation and engendering the ‘feel good factor’ critical in challenging times.
Transformation and development
For me, talent development is all about ‘Transformation’ and this is the over-riding purpose of learnpurple, my talent management consultancy. It’s what led me to HR in Hospitality in search of like-minded people. It’s about transforming organisations so that their people can grow towards their potential. For the individual, it’s probably planned or accidental development that enhances that person’s attitude, skills, knowledge and prospects. Development is everyone’s responsibility – not just someone’s line manager or the HR department.
Research shows that when looking for a new role, one of the key criteria for applicants is development opportunities. Unless businesses have really good, well structured development options then the best applicants simply won’t be interested in them. And employers won’t be able to assure them otherwise because they’ll be asking their friends and consulting internet forums before they even come to the interview.
The hospitality industry, and all HR professionals, must look at how they attract, harness and retain, full stop. Bright and young or otherwise, there is much to be done when it comes to employee engagement and retention. Some of this is about communication and understanding the talent at our fingertips, but it’s also about development, succession planning, and, most of all, I believe, leadership – at all levels.
Jane Sunley, President of HR in Hospitality and Managing Director of learnpurple, is a Fellow of the Institute of Hospitality and a member of the Talent Foundation. To find out more about HR in Hospitality, visit www.hrinhospitality.co.uk. You can contact Jane [email protected] and access a free employee survey to help organisations measure how well they are doing at engaging their people at www.learnpurple.com/purple-revolution.
you know, we’ve all got battle scars.
You all need to be honest with yourselves and more critically evaluate the ethics of the people you associate with, because your tolerance of their fuckery speaks volumes about your own ethics
I have always been brutally honest. Completely transparent. Almost to a fault.
For the first time in my 26 years of life, I was fired from my job.
I'm writing this for people who may be in a similar situation. I want to let them know they're not alone.
Here is my story:
I have always felt very blessed. Growing up I excelled in school. High school was a dream-I was ASB president and Valedictorian. I was terrible at sports. Simply terrible, but I still tried. I attribute this to always having an incredibly intense work ethic. It was how I was raised and I am thankful. I was told I could achieve anything if I put in the work. Doing less didn't even occur to me. I've had a job since I was 15 years old and put myself through college.
When I graduated from Chico State in May 2011, I packed up my tiny Celica with all of my life belongings and moved to Los Angeles-where dreams come true. I was from a small farm town in Northern California and quite sheltered. But I had always been fiercely independent. I never let somebody tell me I couldn't do something. If someone told me no, I always asked why.
Flash forward to present day:
I had been in staffing over 2 years and been very successful. I had a competitor head hunt me for a similar sales role. I'd never done solely sales and I enjoy a challenge. So I thought, "why not?" After a year of talking, I felt like it was the right choice and I accepted an offer. It was exciting to be head hunted, it was exciting to be wanted, and it was exciting to try something new.
For the first time in my life, I felt completely out of place. From day 1, something was off. It was clear right away that the person they hired was not meant for the role they assigned me to. I thought I would be going into a 6 month training period and assigned a mentor. When I got there I was handed a target list and told to go sell. I was very forthright about my lack of sales training and I'm not sure how wires were crossed. But I gave it my all. I worked as hard as I could every day. I came to work with a smile on my face, ready to conquer the world. My activity was high. I was committed to the role 100%. But what I was doing took time. Time they did not have to spend.
On Wednesday afternoon, I was sat down in front of my boss and told I was no longer with the firm and that today was my last day. It stung. It hurt. I was slightly in shock. I was embarrassed. I'm still processing everything. But I also had been feeling something was off for a while. I truly felt like I was given up on. I was told I was not performing to standards and they needed to bring in someone who could.
For the first time in my professional career, I failed. I failed miserably. It wasn't until I got to my car (with my box full of belongings) that I realized this was the best thing that could have happened. I felt free. I had been really unhappy the past few months. I felt like an outsider and like I didn't belong. It was clearly not the right fit and I realize that now. I was fighting so hard for something that didn't make sense. I had such a fear of failing that giving up wasn't an option.
I have learned that a nice salary is less valuable than happiness. I learned that being at a company where you don't belong is toxic. I learned that a boss that supports you and believes in you is CRUCIAL to your success. And I learned that there are jobs that are not meant for me. What they needed and who I am were two different things.
When I got home on Wednesday, I bought a new laptop (mine was broken), updated my resume, and started applying to jobs immediately. I am fortunate enough to be starting a new position on Monday. It's just the way the universe worked. I was not expecting to start a new position so soon. But it could also be a sign that this was meant to be. I support myself 100% and have mountains of bills to pay. As we all do.
I am lucky to rebound so quickly. I know it's rare. I am thankful. And I am humbled by this whole experience. At 26, you want to conquer the world. But if it's not the right company, with not the right manager, it is simply not worth it. And that's okay. I am not perfect. I have flaws. But I always want to improve and better myself.
I refuse to be told I'm not good enough. I refuse to be told I don't have what it takes to be successful.
Don't be afraid to take risks. Don't be afraid to fail.
I have no regrets. I take responsibility for my mistakes. For anyone out there who may be in a similar situation: it's okay to get fired. I know this won't be the last time! I was so afraid to tell anyone, but we should embrace it. The fear of failure is the worst part. No one wants to be fired, but in the event that you are, you'll be okay. You have to believe in yourself and put the effort forth to do so. It's a very unique experience that is hard to describe. But ultimately, it's for the betterment of yourself.
**Update-This article has become bigger than me. I had no idea this would happen. But it's very exciting. I wrote this so others could relate. Not everyone will. This is my story. Everyone has their own. Be proud of yours :) I'm not perfect and neither is this article. Not every detail is written (as that would become a novel) and I didn't want to name names in a negative way. I just wanted to give an honest account of what it was like to be fired and how anyone can persevere when hit with adversity. If you believe in yourself, no one can stop you.**
by Katy Bruce
chemistry. is you touching my arm and it setting fire to my mind.
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Don’t let people treat you like a cigarette, they only use you when they’re bored and step on you when they’re done. Be like drugs, let them die for you.
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I wonder why I don’t go to bed and go to sleep. But then it would be tomorrow, so I decide that no matter how tired, no matter how incoherent I am, I can skip on hour more of sleep and live.
Sylvia Plath (via observando)
Protect Me From What I Want
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Jenny Holzer
Learn to say ‘no’ without explaining yourself.
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You need just the right amount of ‘Fuck the world’ and the right amount of belief in something…and you need the right amount of love.”
― Gerard Way (via psych-quotes)