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literally what is the appeal of south park

luzagainstbiphobia

ID: reply from @l0vies reading "nothing. hope this helps" end ID

#so real

literally what is the appeal of south park

#what could ever make you want to watch it

someone arguing that pansexuality isn't biphobic just told me "i don't know about the negative stereotypes associated with bisexuality" .one day bi discourse will make me lose my mind

soo much support for bisexuality is performative it's kind of like. i don't know. not to be dramatic but like actually if you support labels like pansexuality and other mspec shit anything nice you say about bisexuals is void and means nothing. you are supporting something actively harmful for bisexuals in favor of seeming more inclusive and don't actually care about bisexuals at all. literally insane that pansexuality is so widely uncritically supported and DEFENDED and no one listens to us. i wonder if things will ever get better for bisexuality

#realizing i already said the thing abt performative bisexuality but whatever. literally just stream of consciousness post

there is no epidemic of young people deciding to call themselves trans because it's seen as cool or whatever that is so made up. no one does that on a whim xenogenders are not turning the kids trans it is literally a rightwing viewpoint to think they're being brainwashed by "promotion" of being trans/acceptance, doesn't matter if you switch the words around a little

#i dont know if people still say this stuff im just reflecting #i dont think xenogenders and neopronouns really do anything but even if you do and think its bad like.#when has throwing the ''weird'' members of an oppressed group under the bus in hopes they accept you #one of the ''normal'' ones. ever worked or been a good thing #just think about it maybe

im not going to go find it but the post thats like "this but jennifer check definitely had a comphet thing going on" "she literally says the words 'i go both ways' with her own mouth" lol

it's kind of interesting to me that whenever a character is implied to have/has feelings for the same gender (not in a way that implies they cant have feelings for other genders) they're immediately seen as canonically gay and it's awful to think of them as bi but characters who are much more heavily implied to be bisexual or are even explicitly bisexual will CONSTANTLY be headcanoned as gay/lesbian without a problem. i wonder what this could be caused by

#sorry this is so fucking wordy god damn #also dont get me wrong. if a character is specifically gay or heavily implied to be i dont think you should hc them otherwise #its just like. when there is nothing else to indicate that besides feelings for someone of the same gender.. they could still be bisexual??#the right to hc a character as bi has to be proven by them expressing attraction to multiple genders or even saying outright but even then #it still gets to be excused as comphet #its just not held to the same standard at all. lol

luzagainstbiphobia

willow canon pan what if we died

luzagainstbiphobia

@voltaicfox idk i just found out lol but there's a video where dana confirms hunter is bi and willow is pan -_- at least we get one bi win

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Fuckign :pensive: It's something sure but I feel like spreading harmful bi stereotypes via spreading harmful labels erases some of that good for sure

#oh yeah i agree. i was worried id be dramatic if i said smthn like that lol but ur right exactly #like it really just undermines it

im normal about this and in general btw if u noticed

Anyways. not to be like um pessimistic as hell but there really is only performative support for bisexuality and even bisexuals won't stand up for ourselves bc we need to make ourselves as small as possible to be included and accepted. we are just thrown under the bus constantly in favor of labels that only implicate harmful things about us and enforce internalized biphobia and no one careessss

#it makes me so fucking insane sorry.#a bunch of lip service about how bisexuality is valid and bi rights!! and whatever but it actually means nothing when you then turn around #and support pansexuality. like sorry.#COMPLETELY empty shit ur saying rn. clearly something else is much more important to u #it's sad bc i see BI PPL THEMSELVES DO THIS SO OFTEN TOO and self hate is Sooo. fucking normal for bis #all the fucking jokes i see ppl make at the expense of their bisexuality to other lgbt people in hopes of approval.#all of the minimizing themselves #even something as small as including mspec labels in headcanons or whatever. there's just so much behind it #it makes me genuinely really sad because i love bisexuality so much. it's such a beautiful thing that exists #and nowadays i genuinely LOVE being bisexual!!!!!! i wish every other bi person cld feel the same :(#being lgbt in any way is such an amazing wonderful thing. god bless

i have way too many thoughts on bisexuality

#i try to talk abt one (1) small thing and then it snowballs into Every Issue bisexuals face. ok #did u know this is probably a spinterest of mine.

luzagainstbiphobia

willow canon pan what if we died

luzagainstbiphobia

@voltaicfox idk i just found out lol but there's a video where dana confirms hunter is bi and willow is pan -_- at least we get one bi win

bi lesbian (or "mspec" lol) is in my opinion a useless thing to call yourself that is probably just internalized biphobia again like every other microlabel related to bisexuality but Honestly, i think the only reason there is so much pushback against it IS ALSO bc of biphobia LOL

#does this make sense to anyone else. like they're not upset about it for the right reasons

also Hi i do not particularly agree with a lot of the things that are on this blog anymore. actively disagree with some even. but Hello

#its been a long time for that reason but unfortunately for everyone around me i will Never Ever Shut Up About Bisexuality so here i am #most things that weren't abt bisexuality/biphobia u can generally assume i don't have an opinion on anymore or disagree with i think

willow canon pan what if we died

#do NOT slander her like this.

steveyockey

you literally can just be bisexual it’s okay great in fact

steveyockey

the biphobia of needing a specific label to signify that You Specifically are attracted to people not for mundane horny reasons but because you Enjoy Deep Conversation and Intellectual Rigor girl go date house of leaves if it’s that serious

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Not to get into this again, but it's seriously disturbing to see how some people talk about bisexuals in m/w relationships. I legitimately saw someone tell a bisexual person to be careful not to "center themself" in mixed orientation lgbt spaces because they were in a m/w relationship. The stereotype that bisexuals are greedy isn't limited just to sex, but anything a bisexual person does. When we talk about our bisexuality, its us being greedy. When we bring our other gender partner along, it's us being greedy. If we want bisexual specific resources, greedy. If we assert biphobia is its own prejudice outside homophobia, greedy. We're greedy for attention, time, resources, etc.

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