Just because they agreed to be friends after does NOT in any way mean she couldn't come out with her story. This is coming from a long time fan of Wilbur(not anymore), and someone who was a die-hard Lovejoy fan. All of the facts add up, and besides he admitted to abusing her, physically and mentally in his "apology" tweet. He said he was unaware of pain he was causing Shubble, but also made jokes about how it looked like he was abusing her. ( The bruises from all of the aggressive BITES on her arms). Trust me, it was and still is hard news to take, but I stand with Shubble. I also do not want you to die, just take a look at the facts of what is going on and try to understand from another perspective.
I understand that Wilbur did some crap, but I think his actions weren't THAT destructive. Some things really seem far-fetched to me only because we don’t know all the details of their lives and I would probably like to put an end to what I’m trying to explain for the hundredth time.
I'll explain my point of view point by point based on what I know:
1. I understand that being locked up and bitten until bruises was too much, but it's not as bad as it could be. There are things that could be much, much worse, things that I regularly observe in my country and bites are clearly not the worst thing and you can clearly live with it. (I bite myself because I have nowhere to throw out my emotions, I am an abuser towards myself))
2. As for buying things only at her expense. We do not have precise evidence that this was not their personal agreement. Shelby takes care of buying it, Wilbur takes charge of buying groceries, for example.
3. 80% of men and women are literally disabled at home and are unable to clean up after themselves.
4. As for that thing like “showing strength superiority”, I honestly don’t know what to say about this, like, is this how we play with brothers and sisters??
5. I don't think he deserves so much hate, you can always give him a second chance. Considering that, fuck, he's not a groomer like Forever. He's just a fool who knows no bounds at times. Literally every stream with Tommy contains their stupid fight and for some reason this didn’t affect everyone?? He's always been a bit of a bully, it's a way of communicating. If Tommy hadn't been younger, he would have been canceled long ago. I’m not even surprised by this whole farce, considering the fact that you hated Dream for his appearance.
6. You so easily turn away from a person for one offense after everything. After all the years of watching content, after all the years of friendship, after everything, you just decide to dump a person for one damn misdemeanor.
People make mistakes. Wilbur is a man. He can make mistakes, but people must understand that mistakes can be forgiven and help correct them. You attack a stranger just for having a different opinion. I live in a country that the whole world hates for its president and the actions he does. Dude, the whole world hates me for something I didn't do. So I will defend Wilbur, only because I know what it's like to be hated by everyone for making mistakes. (in my case, for mistakes that were not made by me and I will not be able to correct them)
