Hello, a gents bio
ASL: Call me Drey or Sir.
You can't call me Daddy unless you mean it. Seriously, keep that in mind because I don't take that lightly, so don’t waste my fucking time, or yours. As a matter of fact don’t call me that. I’m done. Not looking, out. I want nothing, expect nothing, require nothing, just respect and understanding. This sums it up
I am a 50 y/o multi-racial Pleasure Dom from the Northeast, United States. I am 6'3 and 205 lbs
This is my secret sanctuary to discuss fantasies and turn ons.
I have a life off here I will not apologize for. I am always upfront, and will share, for those I bond with. You can a.) choose to engage b.) admire in secret c.) leave. but I advise you not judge. People who have lived long understand life is not black, white, or even grey.
I also have not just a job, but a career, and own like 3 businesses outside of said employment. That means I am fucking busy. I try to answer all, but patience is in order.
I am Gen X, and as an X'er, shit is going to get real sometimes.
Boomers: No judgement for you being here, but I see you mocking the youngings. Look in the mirror and pass me those AARP coupons gramps
Gen Y: Are you fucking serious? Stop your bitching and do your job.
Gen Z: Kid.....get off the fucking phone
Gen A: I have no words.
All: Your coffee order is not a crisis. Shut the fuck up, it will be okay.
Politically, let's just say my country is a fucking disgusting disgrace, and our democracy is dead.
Why am I here?: I love interacting with like minded individuals. I have ZERO judgement. That is not my thing to criticize yours.
Ask me anything, send me DMs, just respect my privacy and desire to remain discreet. Anything we share stays between us. I also appreciate likes and reblogs. If you enjoy my blog happy to hear it. Hopefully it excites you.
There is some of my own content on here. See if you can spot it. I am shadow banned for some reason but at least I am still here. My backup I guess is my original blog but it is dead, and it was less about D/s dynamics and more about me ranting, raving, and bitching about life.
I specialize in being a soft Dom, who can be nurturing and sweet as honey or rough and stern as any power D. My technique and approach is flexible based on who I am interacting with. Bottom line is I get off on what makes you wet. I also really enjoy making people feel sexy and beautiful. You are good enough share, I should be good enough to appreciate you. If you want to know my turn ons, check out my my turn ons tags, but basically the short list includes:
Short skirts
Legs
Panty teases
School Girl/Good Student/Good girl next door
Public (without getting caught) Play
Edging
Fingering under the table
Exhibitionism
Bondage
Age Gap (legal)
Taboo attraction
Oral fixation
CNC
Teasing and being teased (Visual and Audio)
As I said, I am very visual, but understand people have a need for privacy. Your reasons are your own. I am one of the few that respect boundaries. My goal is never make anyone feel uncomfortable.
The blunt
Sorry, I am from the Northeast. We don't mince words. Nor should you.
Minors: I understand minors are here and active on here. I am again not going to judge. However, I am not going to interact with any minors. I won't report you but I urge you to use caution and discretion. It's a wild world.
Solicitation/OnlyFans/Pay to Play/Cashapp/Patreon:
Listen, I believe anyone has the right to do what they want with their body. Make money and get your hustle on. Since so many people have asked me what I think or to join their OF, so I will go on the record about this.
As much as I am your ally and wish you success, memberships, pay to play, signing up for apps is NOT for me. The idea I am going to send you money to talk to you is asinine. No, I am not broke, and yes I know how to spoil/treat a lass. That said, everyone has a god damn "account' these days. I am from New York. The girl working at Starbucks could be a model. A REAL model. You are not going to shame me into a paid connection. That is not a connection. A true connection for me is getting to know you. What makes you tick, what you dream about, your EI journey. Who you want to be. What turns you on. Like, a CONVERSATION, if you need to google that go for it. The fact that you have 500000 followers on Instagram and barely speak directly to any of them unless they pay you doesn't impress me, nor does any of that shallow bullshit. If you think this is mean, it's not intended to be, I am just being honest. You want get pushy, I'll show you mean, but I prefer being a nice gent.
LGBTQ/Pride/Racism
I am 100% a true ally. I believe in you, support you, and will stand with you in the face of ignorance. I don't care if you a person on Tumblr or the governor of Massachusetts (who I happen to know). Same goes for diversity and people from different backgrounds. There is zero hate on this blog.
Anyone offended by any of this, I am banned from 26 reddit subs, and I really give a flying fuck about any of that, so why would give a shit here?
This will continue to evolve, but enjoy the basics, and best of luck with your journey.
