Just a blog of Krismas tree

[decadentqueentidalwave]

"Theyfab is a slur against trans men!"

And nonbinary people, right?

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...and nonbinary people, right?!?

[acespartypoison]

now I'm thinking about Kris.

it pisses me the fuck off so bad. its so exorsexist. everything in the deltarune fandom involving kris' gender or asab or what fucking ever.

Kris uses exclusively they/them. Everyone calls them by those pronouns. Nothing in the game has any indication as to what sex they were assigned at birth.

And yet people try to assign a sex at birth to them. Basically saying "are they a boy nonbinary or girl nonbinary"

And a whole aspect of the game is how Kris wants control of their life back. Because you aren't seeing the world from their eyes. You control them and they fucking know it. They've ripped their soul out trying to take back control

Then people on the internet act like Kris is the player and how Kris' gender relies on the player! Or they try to be the authority on their gender and/or their asab.

It doesn't matter. Not only that but you're trying to take control over how people perceive Kris, which should entirely be up to them. Because people perceive transmasc/fem nonbinary people differently than transneutral ones

Stop enforcing gender and sex binaries on the identity that is quite literally outside of them and start ignoring whatever their assigned sex at birth could be. Have any of you considered they could be intersex? Or maybe humans in that world are born without a sex? You don't fucking know and doing the whole "what's in Kris' pants!" thing is basically just recycling TERF rhetoric.

[leebtwxx]

in honour of pride month, i'd like to remind everyone that yes, it is important to gender nonbinary characters correctly. (well its important to gender everyone correctly in general, but this post is about fandom exorsexism)

i dont give a fuck if you think it's okay because 'theyre just pixels' and youre supposedly not hurting anyone's feelings. maybe the character cant be hurt by you misgendering them or saying their gender is 'up to interpretation', but real nonbinary people can see your words. and everytime they see someone put down their own rep, they get just a little more disheartened.

"but it's just fiction! just because i misgender nonbinary characters doesn't mean i don't support real nonbinary people!" yea, i dont believe that. if you truly supported nonbinary people, then you would support normalising transgender identities in media instead of implying that referring to nonbinary characters correctly is 'too difficult'.

and yes, gendering fictional nonbinary people correctly is just as important as doing the same for real ones. media, fictional or otherwise, does have a real impact on how the general public perceives minorities (you'd know that if you actually paid attention in history class). so what that means is that normalising nonbinary people in media would subsequently normalise nonbinary people's presence in real life society. which loops back to the original point of this post:

it is important to gender nonbinary characters correctly. it does, in fact, genuinely affect us. everytime you say a nonbinary character's gender is 'up to interpretation', you slowly influence one more misguided kid into becoming more exorsexist. everytime you call real allies theyre snowflakes for caring about this issue, you dishearten one more nonbinary person.

anyways, if youre going to ignore/disagree everything i've just said, then as a nonbinary person: if youre going to treat our representation this way, at least have the decency to admit youre transphobic instead of claiming to be our ally.

[emo-rateo]

System with a headache? Call that a SPLITTING headache

[m0tzsiillustrates]

PLEASE we need more system friends I know this is on our main acc but we're so fucking desperate. If you have like contradicting labels are aroace,poc , culturally queer

Also no anti endos this blog supports all systems !!!!

Interact with this post I need more friends (our current ones kind of fucking suck )

[rob0copyofacopyofacopy]

" Theyfab isn't a slur, silly! it's just a belittling and disparaging term I use to mock, silence and undermine a minority I don't like! "

[thisisexorsexism]

lets stop using AMAB/AFAB as a "woke" way to say male/female

[luxiomahariel]

is it a "womans space" or is it a reproductive health clinic?

is it a "womans space" or is it a domestic violence shelter?

is it a "womans space" or is it a queer pride event?

is it a "womans space" or do you just exclude people who arent women from spaces that they belong in because you think people who arent women are "evil"?

[small-bottle-of-expired-milk]

if this guy has another monster, I fear (not really) he may teleport to me and rail me

[small-bottle-of-expired-milk]

cuz big pharma killed my grandma! Ok?!?

[small-bottle-of-expired-milk]

Life is not #poggers

[2022dirt]

Some reptiles shed their outer layer in one full piece.

[spookymob]

TADC just gives me more affirmative proof that people cannot protect abuse victims despite how simple it really is. Don't be friends with an abuser, don't downplay anything, don't side along with them in case they have "a point" or to see "their story". It's always about their story and their point but never the direct effects that had. Never the victims. Always about Jax abstracting and how to save him, never gangle or ragatha abstracting (because I'm very sure the narrative wouldn't save them anyway. I mean it always felt a bit backhanded anytime gangle or ragatha was on the verge of abstracting, helping them feels more "Oh my God just get over yourself" than "hey are you okay? 🥺")

[altheterrible]

The fact that I'm just out here living life every day in excruciating emotional pain coupled with a major depressive episode that would land most people in the hospital is so bizarre because like everyone in the world around me is saying oh mental health is so important and you matter and it's okay to not be okay but it turns out that all that stuff is only true if you have money or family or people who give a shit about you.

[tthestrangestcreatures]

What if.. okay what if we did an account retheme..

[indigovivian]

Radqueer: “Don’t worry, I’m an anti‑contact MAP.” Also Radqueer: actively seeks out sexualized images of minors that stop just short of being legally classified as CSAM.

[dailykrusie]

Day 3