Marion

Transmedicalist, Exclusionist

[weaver-z]

I am not starting discourse, I am not naming names, but some of the lgbtq+ kids on this website have grown up in such liberal and privileged areas that they do not have a fully-formed perspective about discrimination against lgbtq+ people, and I feel that they should be self-aware enough to recognize that.

[yukikagone-deactivated20210715]

the difference between bisexual and pansexual is that bi means all and pan only means two. hope this helps! ❤

[ladyheart-deactivated20210919]

The two being referred to here are Hamilton and Voltron btw.

[verilybitchie]

Whether you believe bisexuality was inclusive of nonbinary people in the 1960s, or whatever the latest debate is, the fact is that the bi community has spent the majority of the last decade trying to make it clear that bisexual means or should mean much more than just “attraction to men and women”, and there has been very, very little push back from within the bi community. The general consensus is that the word “bisexual” should be infinitely broad and inclusive, no matter what the etymological root is. Bisexuals do not want “bisexual” to be limited.

The only people desperately trying to reinforce the idea that “bisexual means 2 genders” are people who do not identify as bisexual. 

[asyipyip]

I can’t get over this lmaooo

[mwya]

I think we should all just pretend we’ve never heard of pansexuality and when someone tries to explain it to you just go, “You mean bisexuality?”

[fridayiminlovemp3]

just got voted as time’s most problematic and toxic bisexual representation

[schmata]

lgbtq community experiences online have become so sectarian as if gay men, lesbians, bisexuals, queer people, and trans people are all completely different creatures w unmeshable experiences and unshared histories and it’s not! true! it’s completely mythical and i see no strength or healing in this narrative!

[warcrimesimulator]

I love interacting with lgbt people in real life who know absolutely nothing about stupid internet bullshit. Incredible. Inspiring. I wish I was you.

[lizardsister]

all of us vaccinated people communicate directly to each other via brain chip technology and we all talk about how sexy we are

[wreckitremy]

You had me at telepathy but then lost me at allosexual b.s.

[lizardsister]

we all meet up every wednesday and we all kiss and compliment each other on how sexy we are

[decayingdancer-deactivated20150]

Jesus was canonly asexual so can we stop acting like the bible condemns queer people

[suffering420-deactivated2015092]

let’s all delete

[desaturated7-deactivated2021090]

i've been on tumblr for 8 years and all i've gotten out of it is a pavlovian fear response to the word 'valid'

[jwjdhdjsksks]

Like imagine if one day someone just came up with a new word that meant "lesbian but will date trans women" or "lesbian but like women for their personalities instead of looks" and randomly decided that the old term lesbian meant you only like cis women, and just for their looks or body parts. And now everyone is either forced to adopt the new term, or keep the original term but have to deal with misconceptions and constantly have to clarify that you aren't what they randomly changed the definition of lesbian to mean. And when you point out "actually lesbian never excluded trans women or implied I don't care about personality" and people respond by saying "oh well I still like the new term anyways its a personal choice and it's not hurting anyone" even though the literal existence of the new word implies things that aren't true about the old term. That's exactly what pansexual did to bisexuals

[fagnormative]

“Not a whit” end me

[fagnormative]

If my partner turned to me and he said I’m not sexually attracted to you you’re just good at making me cum I’d feel so used has the person who made this comic actually had this conversation with a person

[rodnt]

sigh…i came all the way to sephora but i don’t know which brands are asexual friendly….i have to hurry jugheads birthday is today…wish someone would help me out

[chuckecheeses]

Hi Sister Archie! James Charles here, might I suggest Too Faced Better Than Sex Mascara?

[mosticonicposts]

certified iconic post

[joongus]

[tomcats-and-tophats]

Defining your sexuality as uniquely “being attracted to PERSONALITY” is just so condescending and revealing. Like how poorly do you regard your LGBT siblings to cast our experiences in such an ugly superficial light

[colorisbyshe]

bi/pan solidarity can’t exist because pansexuality only exists as a common term because of biphobia, often internalized biphobia

there is no way to call yourself pansexual without furthering biphobia. no definition, no excuse, no amount of “uwu bisexuals are valid but—“ can create a point of solidarity when pansexuality only exists to usurp and replace the term “bisexual”

not when pansexuality was brought into the modern lexicon to “correct” a mistaken belief that bisexuality is not trans inclusive, not experienced in a myriad of ways which includes having zero consideration of gender, and not for nonbinary people to use.

or when pansexuality is knock off bisexuality mixed in with homophobic and transphobic understandings of how everyone else experiences orientation.

bisexuality cannot benin solidarity with it. we’re not “mspecs” who have something in common. we are all just bisexuals, some of whom have decided to betray their own identity in favor of a word with no good history and no culture of its own outside of the offenses its committed to perpetuating.

from “men women and trans people” to “hearts not parts” or the rebranded “personality not gender”... bisexuality will have none of that, thank you. fuck your solidarity.