âYou have to accept that some people are not made for deep conversations, or for holding you together when youâre about to fall apart, or for keeping you from unzipping your skin, or for talking you out of suicide, or to love you through the worst moments of your life. Some people are made for shallow exchanges, and ridiculous banter, and nothing more. And thatâs okay. That doesnât make them horrible people because they simply arenât able to handle a storm like you. It doesnât make you a bad person because you wonât divulge all the gritty details of your horror show. It makes you smart. You have to accept that there will be people that cannot give you what you need. It doesnât mean they are not worth keeping in your life. You just have to figure out who these ones are before youâre disappointed. And you have to keep them at armâs length. You cannot expect everyone in your life to understand, to be nonjudgmental, to get it. But thatâs okay, because not everyone was made to impart wisdom, or wax-poetic, or speak on politics and the depravity of society, or discuss how crucial it is that the stigma of mental illness be abolished. There are times when you have to get away from all that heaviness. You have to. And you will need superficial conversation about Kim Kardashianâs arse, or a debate on the colour of The Dress. You will need those ones. So donât go round cutting people off and dropping your friends. You need people for all your seasons. You need people or you wonât survive this.â
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