Ram a leader with anguish
Ramayana is one of the sacred mythological books for Indians. The story is about king exile and sent to the forest for 14 years and later exiling his wife from the kingdom due to the rumours about her character. When one understands the whole narrative, one recognizes that the whole story is all about how difficult is a king’s man role when compared to a common man.
Being a king of Kosala Kingdom (Ayodhya is the capital city) Ram was being in ambiguity situation 3 times-
- Exiling from Ayodhya
- Exiling Sita from Ayodhya
- Punishing Lakshman
The whole Ramayan was about a king take critical decisions and deciding between family, people and dharma.
When Dasrath(Farther of Ram) sent Ram on exile for 14years, promising him to make king after his returning. Later on the demise of Dasarath, Ram was offered to become king in between the exile period, but he was just obliged to his fathers promise and rejected the offer. This shows integrity which is the most important to any leader or king.
When people of Ayodhya doubted Sita character Ram sent her on exile since the ruling couple should be acceptable by each and every one of their subjects. Later Ram cries for love and also Ayodhya was also suffering from famine. This highlights the fact that Girls are a symbol of prosperity.
When Yama comes to Ram to remind him over his return to Vaikunth as he completed his duties, Yama meets ram and takes promise that if anyone listens to the conversation or interrupt them Ram would have to kill them. At this time sage Duruvasu, known for his anger has arrived at Ayodhya and was unrested when Lakshman barricade him. Enraged sage warned he would curse Ayodhya, where Lakshmana forgo personal interest over peoples interest he interrupted the Ram and Yama discussion. Which leads to an Ambiguity situation where Ram needs to take a decision on it, later Lakshman went into Sarayu river and give up his life.
The character Sita represents a typical Indian woman & challenges faced by them in society from ages. Women in the society are frequently questioned on their character, which happened the same with the Sita. After Ram bringing back Sita from Lanka and returned back a washerman doubted the character of Sita. Which resulted in Sita sent on exile again and later underwent a fire test in order to prove Lav Kush are their kids.
After becoming king Ram was in great anguish till the end, where he lost beloved Wife, ordered to kill his own brother for the promise made. The whole story explains how difficult it is one to be a kingsman place or a leader.











