WELCOME TO MY BLOG :33!! MOSTLY SELF-SHIP BLOCK IF YOU DON'T LIKE
Name: Malik/Rose
Pronouns: He/She/Star/neos
My pronouns page here!
Tag guide for my oc/self-ship tags here!
Would suggest going through the introduction tag for other important stuff!
Genderfluid/bigender and bisexual! :3
Asks and dms are always open! I love to chat about anything and everything!! :33
We are a system! Will refer to other headmates [Blaze mostly lol] sometimes, and if he posts on here it'll be under #blaze's yapping [Blaze uses he/xe/bun pronouns]
REQUESTS ARE OPEN!! [currently have a lot, pls stay patient with me >.>!]
Art + writing, more info under the cut!
Will do ocs x canon, canon x canon, characters or ocs on their own for art, but only x reader for writing! Poly relationships r also open 4 both!
How to make a request:
For art, just a character and prompt is good! If you're requesting an oc please attach a reference image. Can be characters on their own or with their friends, too, doesn't have to be just shipping! Im not good with animals or complicated designs so please bare with me </3
For writing, please specify the plot, romantic or platonic or familial and anything specific you'd like included. If reader's gender isn't written in the request they'll stay gender neutral with they/them pronouns
Preferably send requests through asks, but dms or replies or reblogs are fine too!! Please be patient with me- I'm the host dedicated to this blog, so I have to wait till I front in the body to write + post!
Things I WILL write:
Self harm comfort, depression/anxiety comfort, trans reader, dysphoria comfort, and you can always ask if you're not sure!
Things I WON'T write or draw:
Nsfw [suggestive is a-okay!], anything gore-heavy, any weird fetishes, yandere/non-con/stalking, mentions of eating disorders [gets me in a bad place mentally, I'm sorry!] and if I'm uncomfortable with a request I won't do it
DNI: basic DNI criteria, racists, neopronoun antis, proship, homophobic/transphobic/islamphobic, etc.
If anything's unclear you can send me an ask :33 pretty new to self-ship tumblr but I hope to have fun while I'm here!! My most common tags will be in this post for easy access. Thank you for reading!!
Also ohmy gosh b4 I forget thank you all sososo much !!!! I was really worried just generally but you guys helped and we consider you all dear friends to us :33 hugs and kisses
tails is still a kid so i like to imagine his developing predator instincts lead him to hunt sonic for sport sometimes, like what kittens do with their mothers. like sonic will go to the workshop to see what tails is up to and as soon as he walks in the door he's been tackled to the floor. or when they were first together on westside island sonic had to teach himself to override his "curl up and stab whatever is attacking you" instincts because the kid following him around had a tendency to jump him at random
fictive introjects aren't literally blorbo from your show and expecting them to act exactly the same as blorbo is weird
introjects who arent fictives exist also
u cant just demand someone else fronts it's rude and weird. also talking to a system isn't really a choose your own adventure type of thing
no there isn't an "evil alter"
persecutor alters do exist and are common but they arent evil alters and should be treated with the same respect youd treat anyone else
some systems have like 2 or 3 members and others have hundreds. its generally not ur business why a system has the amount of alters they do
u arent entitled to know whos fronting 24/7. a lot of systems dont even always know whos fronting let alone want to share
switching is often not obvious or dramatic at all. it can be but generally it's not.though it does depend if someone has a more overt or covert presentation
did isnt actually that rare. around 1.5% of people are diagnosed with did and it goes undiagnosed a lot. and 1.5% is around the same amount of people who have red hair or ocd or green eyes
you have absolutely no way of knowing if someone is "faking" or lying about being a system. "what about-" nope not even if they do that. almost everything that people claim make it obvious someones lying (nonhuman alters, bigger systems, overt presentation etc) are just... ways that systems exist. ur not in their head, u dont get to decide what theyre experiencing
i realized i didnt define system in this post. WHOOPS. basically the most simple definition is "multiple people/selves who share one body".
theres a LOT of different terms that people prefer . ive been using system and alter bc i see those the most but some prefer other terms, like collective. plural and multiple are words i see a lot to describe the experience of multiple people in one body,, and headmate/system member/part/alter/etc are all terms that exist that mean similar things. generally its best to ask what terms a system prefers. from my experience, system and alter/headmate are most common, but it depends system to system and sometimes between system members
the 1.5% is like. a minimum tbh. bc i'd guess a lot of systems arent diagnosed with anything, even if they do fit the criteria (some systems dont!), and especially bc being a system isnt usually something people can tell from looking at u and most psychiatrists/other mental health professionals dont have much if any experience with working with systems
if youre not a system but want to give ur hot take on intracommunity system discourse. Please dont. 🙏
on that note. without getting too into the aforementioned discourse fakeclaiming (saying someone isnt really a system) someone because they identify as endogenic or nondisordered or whatever else is a dick move. again youre not in their head and dont know their experiences. also it literally does not affect u either way
also if u ARE a system and don't want to give ur hot take on intracommunity system discourse, or if u dont have one, u dont have to. frankly i dont know enough about a lot of it to have an opinion and discourse stresses me out so i avoid it
some systems like to be referred to with plural terms (you all, you&, yous, etc). some don't. it varies by system
a lot of stuff varies by system, and generally asking isnt a bad thing to do. as a general rule tho if ur question has to do with trauma maybe don't ask it.
when in doubt it can be helpful to think if youd say the same thing to a singlet (person whos not a system). like, "what terms are u ok with being used for u/are u ok with [word]/is it ok if i ask about [thing]" is probably fine. "what trauma have u been thru please explain in detail so i can decide if youre really a system" is definitely not.
if someone tells you theyre a system absolutely don't tell anyone else unless they give u explicit permission
i lost the tag but someone in the tags mentioned thinking of it like several people sharing a social media account but instead of an account it's a body which is a really good way of thinking of it imo. like several people could be online/fronting at once, they dont have to say whos posting/fronting, they dont need a public list of members, and the people in the account/system can have different relationships with each other
once again a lot of this varies btwn systems and i absolutely havent represented Every Single System Experience here, these are just some of the first things to come to mind
also for learning more theres a lot of youtubers who talk abt their experiences!! the rings system and multiplicityandme are two i remember watching a lot when i first started learning about system stuff. anthony padilla also has a video with systems. also theres scientific articles and stuff if ur like me and like to read those for fun. but they definitely tend to be very clinical/scientific and might not be a great representation of what its actually like to be a system
ok one last thing. if u are a system or think u might be. i believe you, i support u, and i love you 💕
