This is my secondary account for cg stuff. I’m mainly a regressor, but I wanted to try this out too. (I’m more active on my main account though)
I’m twenty years old. I’ve never had a little before, but I think it’d be fun if my future partner was a flip too. Feel free to message me if you want someone to look after you for a while. I’m not very quick at replying, and I’m a little socially inept, but I’ll try my best. My only boundary is that conversations must be sfw.
You can call me anything you like! Mimi, mama, moon. Even dada, if you wish. Literally anything, I’m not picky.
Fun fact about me: my favorite moon phase is waning gibbous 🌖
hi im really nervous about these sorts of blogs bc im insecure abt my regresion.. but you seem real nice and my mama (cg) is busy so she cant take carea me. and our new roommate doesnt kno about me bein small, and hes said that he finds it really weird :(
but umm anyway.. m havin a not good time right now because evrythin is loud and my headphones are dead... i feel guilty for having a meltdown, even if no one noticed/helped. thank yu for readin this!! -🐶🪭
That’s alright, sometimes I get nervous about regressing too. It’s easy to feel embarrassed about letting yourself be vulnerable, especially when there are meanies like your roommate. Don’t let him dictate what you can and can’t do— all that matters is that it helps YOU. Some people might not understand, and that’s okay. You’re loved for it anyways.
I’m sorry things are hard :( Sometimes, when things are really loud, it helps if I put a pair of earbuds under my headphones, even if they’re off. It’s not the most comfortable, but it works.
And you never have to feel guilty for having a meltdown. It’s natural to get overwhelmed sometimes. I have meltdowns too, especially when there are lots of things going on at once. There’s nothing to feel ashamed or guilty about. Your brain needs to get out all that energy somehow. Just remember to breathe, and don’t listen to any nasty thoughts your brain might be having <33
mimiii m sad :( my daddy (bio) alwys usd to play deltrune w me but now he has lots of work n we can't play the new chpter togetherrr
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I’m sorry love :(
It can be really disappointing when you don’t get to do something you were looking forward to, especially when it had been a tradition. Be sure to remember that your daddy still loves you, even if he’s busy. I’m sure he feels the same way you do about not getting to play.
That being said, you’re still allowed to be upset about things that are out of everyone’s control. Life is mean sometimes. I hope you enjoy your game nonetheless :) Maybe you can replay it sometime with him
Affirmations for Anxious Littles
soft words for stormy minds 🐚🌸
🌼 i am safe right now
🧸 i don’t have to do everything alone
🌈 i can be scared and still be okay
💗 i am loved just as i am
☁️ big feelings are allowed here
🐻 i can take things one small step at a time
🫧 it’s okay to ask for help
🎀 i am not too much
🌙 i can breathe slowly and feel the calm come in
🐾 i am strong in gentle ways
🧺 i can rest without guilt
📦 i can put worries down for now—they will wait
🫖 i deserve comfort, softness, and care
🍯 i am not behind—I’m going at my pace
🌸 i don’t need to be perfect to be wonderful
🫶 my little self is safe with me
You can say them out loud, write them on pastel sticky notes, turn them into doodles in your journal, or even tuck a few in your lunchbox or under your pillow.
Hii! I'm Rosie. I'm new to the community, trying to make friends so I don't feel so alone while tryin to figure out/accept the parts of me that need healing. Your energy is warm, like a hug, n you seem real sweet. So just wanted to say hi, n hope you're doin okay.
Have a great day/night!
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Hello! I would love to be your friend my dear, you sound lovely. Being new to the community can be very overwhelming, but I hope you feel safe here. You deserve to heal all the parts of your little heart that are broken.
Thank you so much! I’ve been trying to improve my comforting skills, since I’ve never really been very good at it. I’m glad I seem friendly enough!
That’s alright, my dear. We can have a bit of quiet time together. You can talk again whenever you feel like it. There’s no rush. I love spending time with you no matter what. Your value is not determined by how much you can give. Sometimes, it’s nice to just exist.
As an SLP in training (aka a giant language development nerd), here’s my masterlist of child development standards to help with agere!
Disclaimer: I am not a professional. I just started taking classes for my major this year. This info will not be 100% correct
🍼1 year🍼
First word at ~12 months
Most sounds will be p, b, h, m, n, w (errors can occur up to age 3)
Common words are nouns and verbs
No plurals or past tense
Common errors are reduplication (wawa for water, baba for bottle), gliding (putting w and y instead of l and r (wead for read)), cluster reduction (less consonants in a row (back for black)), final consonant deletion (ba for ball) AND MORE in the picture below. Babies make basically every error possible
🧸2 years 🧸
Two word sentences mainly
Add sounds k, g, t, d, f, y (errors up to age 4)
Learning -ing, -s, past tense
Adding words like “is,” “on,” “a,” “the” “will”
Like negatives (no, not, don’t)
Still have a chance to produce all phonological process errors
🧃3 years🧃
~2-4 words average
Sounds r, l, s, z, ch, sh (errors up to ~ age 7)
All vowels developed
Should know many morphemes (-s, -ed, etc) with occasional errors
Multiple clauses! Two simple sentences can combine with “and,” if,” “because,” etc
No more reduplication :(
🪁4 years🪁
~4-5 words average
Sounds j, v, th (basically all of them by now, but errors still occur with most)
Beginning to sound like adult speech
No more cluster reduction or deleting syllables in a word (di-saur for dinosaur)
So what if you need a sound you don’t have?
There are a couple common rules that you can follow to substitute sounds. (Or just delete them. That’s good too. Especially if there are two consonants touching)
Voice, place, manner. All consonants have these three characteristics. Usually, it’s the manner that’s tricky for kids. Stops (p,b,t,d,k,g) nasals (m, n, ng), and glides (w, y) are mostly developed first, while affricates (j, ch), fricatives (f, v, s, z, sh, zh, th), and liquids (l, r) are later.
As a rule of thumb, trade out a sound that’s made at the same location. For example, if you were going to say “vase,” you’d say “base,” because both v and b are produced with the lips. “Then” becomes “den”, because the stop that’s produced closest to the teeth is d.
Secondly, play attention to whether a sound is voiced. This means that your vocal cords are vibrating when you put your hand on your throat. If they are, choose a sound that is also voiced. Many sounds have a voiced and voiceless pair (b and p, t and d, etc). They’re produced in the exact same place. The only difference is whether you’re using your vocal cords.
Finally, r and l are always replaced by w and y. This is called gliding and it’s my favorite thing ever.
It’s time to start the day! What’s that? You don’t want to get up? I know it’s hard, hon. You’re all comfy and cozy with your blankets wrapped tight and your stuffie in your arms. But we need to rise, just like the sun!
Come on, let’s get ready. You’ll feel so refreshed once we wash your face and brush your little teeth, I promise. You want me to help? I’ll get all the ickies off for you, don’t worry.
Do you feel the sun and breeze on your face? Isn’t it lovely? Let’s go get you dressed up in your favorite outfit, and make you a yummy breakfast. We need to make sure we start the day right, so you have enough energy to run around and play with your toys!
It’s time to take your medication, bubs. I know it’s not very fun, but it’s good for you. It’ll make you feel all better, I promise. Can you do that for me? Yeah? Come on, let’s get you all set up and comfy.
What do you want to wash it down with? In your special cup? Alright, I’ll go get that for you. Are you ready? Say “ahh!” Very good! Now have a drink. You did so well, little one. Big hugs! I’m so proud of you for taking care of yourself.
For littles that deal with chronic/mental illness (me)
Anyway, I’m actually a writer in my spare time, so I wanted to make a cg account to write prompts and stuff. (Don’t get your expectations up. I didn’t say I was a good writer)
