Mary Sterrett

Between the strokes of a brush where each one whispers secrets and the pages of forgotten tales where each word breathes life.

[the-evil-clergyman]

Illustrations from Richard Wagner's Tannhäuser by Willy Pogany (1911)

[the-evil-clergyman]

The Magic Circle by John William Waterhouse (1886)

[marysterrett]

When I am among the trees, especially the willows and the honey locust, equally the beech, the oaks and the pines, they give off such hints of gladness. I would almost say that they save me, and daily. I am so distant from the hope of myself, in which I have goodness, and discernment, and never hurry through the world but walk slowly, and bow often. Around me the trees stir in their leaves and call out, “Stay awhile.” The light flows from their branches.  And they call again, “It's simple,” they say, “and you too have come into the world to do this, to go easy, to be filled with light, and to shine.

Mary Oliver

[marysterrett]

It is not the critique who counts, not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who’s actually in the arena whose face is market by dust and sweat and blood, who strives violently, who airs, who comes short again and again because there is no effort without air and shortcoming. But who does actually strive to do the deeds who knows great enthusiasms, great devotions who spend some self in a worthy cause, who at the best knows in the end triumph of the high achievement and who at the worst if he fails at least fails while daring greatly. So that his place should never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat.

- T. Roosevelt

[marysterrett]

Despair, I think, is the fruit of a refusal to accept our mortal situation. Perhaps it’s less passive than it may seem; is despair a deep assertion of will? The stubborn self saying, I will not have it, I do not accept it. Fine, says the world, don’t accept it. The collective continues; the whole goes on, while each part slips away. To attach, to attach passionately to the individual, which is always doomed to vanish — does that make one wise, or make one a fool?

Mark Doty

[marysterrett]

Intimacy is not something that just happens between two people; it is a way of being alive. At every moment, we are choosing either to reveal ourselves or to protect ourselves, to value ourselves or to diminish ourselves, to tell the truth or to hide. To dive into life or to avoid it. Intimacy is making the choice to be connected to, rather than isolated from, our deepest truth at the moment.

Geneen Roth

[marysterrett]

In order that a person should continue to love another, better than all others, it seems necessary that this feeling should be reciprocal. For if it be not so, Sympathy is broken off in the very highest point. A. (we will say, by way of illustration) loves B. above all others, in the best & fullest sense of the word, love; but B. loves C. above all others. Either therefore A. does not sympathize with B. in this most important feeling; & then his Love must necessarily be incomplete, & accompanied with a craving after something that is not, & yet might be; or he does sympathize with B. in loving C. above all others — & then, of course, he loves C. better than B. Now it is selfishness, at least it seems so to me, to desire that your Friend should love you better than all others — but not to wish that a Wife should.

Samuel Taylor Coleridge, A Book I Value

[marysterrett]

There is no doubt that solitude is a challenge and to maintain balance within it a precarious business. But I must not forget that, for me, being with people or even with one beloved person for any length of time without solitude is even worse. I lose my center. I feel dispersed, scattered, in pieces. I must have time alone in which to mull over my encounter, and to extract its juice, its essence, to understand what has really happened to me as a consequence of it.

― May Sarton, Journal of a Solitude